Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Happy Halloween! I know a lot of you are getting ready to head off to your Halloween parties and Sarge on all the hotties in their kinky nurse and exotic dancer costumes.

Quick tip: Taking a woman to a “haunted house” is a great way to get her in bed, as many of my students have reported. She’ll want to hold you close, which gives you an automatic “in” to use touching patterns to get her hot and bothered and back to YOUR house after. Remember, with Speed Seduction®, you observe her body language, behaviours, and language patterns and use this feedback in your seduction.

I’ll tell you what’s scary – when you’re Sarging like crazy but you’re not getting the results you expect. I got a note from a student yesterday and couldn’t hold back. Here is what he said:

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Hi Ross, you know, when it comes to women, it seems like there’s lots of ups and downs. I’ll hit a “winning streak” where I meet lots of women and have hot make-out session after hot make-out session and get laid several times in a few weeks. Things work out really well and I even end up dating some women for a while. But then other times I’ll go a month or more without a date or even a successful pick-up. I feel like I’m wasting my time when this happens.

This is scary, like what am I doing wrong?

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You know, I get this question a lot. I could sugarcoat it, or tell you that you just have to have faith and the “right one will come along.” No, this is where the continual process of honing and mastering your Seduction skills comes in.

Everyone goes through ups and downs in their Sarging. Even Babe Ruth, the “Sultan of Swat,” went through slumps in his baseball career where he kept striking out. But he also went through phases where every time he stepped up to the plate he hit it out of the park. This is why baseball players have a batting AVERAGE.

When you approach any woman, do it not for how you’re going to succeed with this one woman, but how you’re going to master the experience so you can succeed with her AND the next ten women who are even hotter and wanting you more than she is.

Remember this: when being a powerful Speed Seduction® master becomes who you are and what you do, your “batting average” with women will be MUCH higher. Sure, you’ll still have ups and downs, but most of them will be in bed with the women you truly desire.

Peace and many hot juicy pieces to come,

RJ

P.S. Women’s emotional 180s, fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, last minute buyer’s remorse, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other (up until now) deeply frustrating and seemingly irrational actions, can be scarier than the most gruesomely-lifelike Halloween costume. But there’s a better way.

Since enjoying damn near ridiculous levels of success, satisfaction and pleasure with the most amazing women around is something you are highly interested in, you need to check out my Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course. You’ll never have a “scary” moment again because you’ll have the tools and skills to effortlessly master every girl-getting situation.

Get yours now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In my regular “Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets” that I send you several times a week as part of your Speed Seduction® experience, I share powerful principles for Seduction success.

Often times I respond directly to a question e-mailed to me by one of my students, about a particular situation or challenge he is experiencing. Whether he is sharing a success story about how he bounded from one woman to another in the same night, or asking for help when the juicy-wet chick he banged last week is flaking on him today, I live to teach.

(You guessed it – they’re all posted right here on my blog.)

This week’s Girl-Getting Lesson is brief, but so powerful that it will impact everything you do with women and in life when you immediately make it part of who you are, what you do, and how you approach the world around you.

When you fully apply Speed Seduction®, you will experience lots of up and downs – and not all of them in the bedroom (or on the couch, or in the board room during lunch hour)! My girl-getting system is as much the result of 20 years of proven successes, as it is a mindset strategy.

No matter what happens with any particular woman (or women) on any given day, there is a mindset mantra I live by, that I share with you.

Say this, out loud, right now, and mean it:

“Show me better, show me more … show me more, show me better … NOW!”

It applies to EV-VERY situation you encounter with women.

When you just had the most incredible sex with a goddess-in-the-flesh who is the epitome of everything you desire in a woman … the next step is more sex, and even better sex, with this woman, assuming you choose to see her again.

At the moment your cell phone beeps because your date for tonight is flaking on you via text message … then it’s time to find women who are better for you, who are more into you, and to spend more time Sarging to do better when meeting them.

Five minutes after you fulfill your ultimate fantasy … you got it … the next step is more and better!

This mindset applies equally to all your other pursuits – your career, business, investments, sports, restoring a ’69 Camaro – everything! No matter what … it fits.

One more time: “Show me better, show me more … show me more, show me better … NOW!”

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Imagine for a moment…if you had such an effective, sure way to learn from every situation, that you could develop a “stealth charisma” that was subtly attractive, completely undetectable, and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone?

With no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you take bold (and fun) seduction steps, as you walk like a giant where other people fear to step, my Nail Your Inner Game Course will get you off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted.

Get yours today!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Not too long ago, I was a guest speaker at an event hosted by a fellow seduction guru. I seldom do this, but you wouldn’t believe how many of these guys are secret fans of mine, and anyway, this guy made me pretty famous again in his book.

I started my talk by asking a question, which was this:

“By a show hands, how many here find themselves dwelling over and over again on mistakes they make with women? Situations that just haven’t or don’t work out?”

Would you believe that every single person in the room – there were over 150 smart guys there- raised their hand. Every one.

So I picked a guy out of the audience.

“Let me ask you this,” I said. “How many times would you guess you’ve run these failures in your head over the past 6 months? Just a rough guess.”

Now, do you think it was less than 100? You would be wrong.

Do you think it was less than 1,000? Guess again.

No, this otherwise seemingly together guy, who looked on the surface like he’d be a master of this stuff, had run these failure scenarios in his mind over 5,000 times!

Now, here we have this guy who really wants to change with women. He really wants success and satisfaction. But this same guy is repeating in his mind, over and over, what he did wrong, feeling all the bad feelings he felt at the time, seeing himself doing and responding the same useless things in the same way.

So given that he is doing all this, (and doing it mostly outside of his conscious awareness) is it any friggin’ wonder that his brain, given such repeated instructions…

….Keeps Him Repeating His Same Mistakes Over And Over And Over Again?

Is any of this sounding familiar to you?

I bet it is. I bet it is. I bet it is.

Now, was this guy some sort of self-hating, self-sabotager who is “afraid of success” or suffers from “low self-esteem”?

It’s unlikely. After teaching thousands of guys to succeed with women over 20 years, I’m convinced guys want to succeed, big time, when it comes to desirable women.

What’s actually going on is that he’d been dwelling on his mistakes in an effort to learn from them and correct them.

But the way he in which he was trying to learn from his mistakes it-and likely the way you are too-was just reprogramming the mistakes back in.

That is why it is not enough to positively program yourself for success. You must also come up with an efficient way to notice what you are doing incorrectly, without re-programming your errors back in.

The key to this is to create what I call a “self-review/optimum learning state”.

In this state, you are looking at what you did from a relaxed, calm, alert state. And most importantly, you are looking at your mistakes through a set of positive beliefs and filters, so you can extract maximum information, learn what you need to, then move on.

That is what this guy needed. Likely it is what you need. And you can learn it all in my Nail Your Inner Game Program. Your copy is waiting for you, so go here to check out what you could be learning and putting to use for your ultimate sarging success.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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