Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

What happens when all of your effort with a woman, or multiple women go to s&$t?

The other day, I was doing an interview with an instructor in this field who is one of the few guys I actually respect. (When the interview goes live on his site, I’ll be sure to let you know).

But I was sharing with him the reality, that even I, having taught and practiced this stuff for years, don’t always get what I want with women.

Contrary to the brags and bluffs and claims of the others in this field, I am human. I have all the frustrations you do; I just have them a lot less often.

But more importantly, I have a good method of dealing with them.

How I Handled My Most Recent Frustrating And Disappointing Experience
With A Very Sweet, Hot, Sexy “China” Babe

Here is a recent case in point: I met a woman at my most recent LA seminar and it was clear she was attracted to me.. And I was attracted to her: hot, fun, smart, just how I like them.

We wind up hanging out two Sundays ago, and I had a great time with her, but this girl was clearly uncertain about how she felt with what I do for a living. She kept going back and forth between being clearly into me, and then bombarding me with questions. And try as I might to defuse it, I wound up getting NOWHERE with her.

Wait a second, you may be thinking. What kind of seduction guru brags about NOT getting somewhere with a woman?

Listen: the reality that no other “guru” will share with you, is that dealing with women, no matter how good your skill set, will occasionally feel a bit crazy. Women being the lovely chaotic and complex people that they are, can suddenly turn cold, display contradictory behavior, and behave pretty nuts from time to time.

Unless you have a disciplined method for dealing with the s&$t when it hits the fan, it will wind up sticking. Mostly right to you.

When this happens, it’s crucial you have a disciplined method, in place and ready, to rapidly handle the confusion and frustration and not let it color your sense of possibility in the world.

You can learn more about how to intelligently handle frustration and confusion, and convert them rapidly to clarity and informed motivation and right action, right here.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Did my experience with this girl sting? You bet. I laughed a lot with this lovely lady and really had a fantastic time. Remember, I may have mad skills, but I feel everything that you do, and I understand what these situations are like. That is why I feel uniquely qualified to help you deal with it.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A few days ago here on my blog, I tackled head-on one of the most common objections I hear about Speed Seduction®. That being, some people say that the girl-getting patterns and phrases I teach smart guys to use after approaching a woman are so obvious that she’ll see through it, conclude he’s “just trying to get a piece of a##“, and turn him down flat.

I explained how several students of mine handle a woman’s resistance when she “calls him out” so confidently and expertly that, knowing he is “working it” using Seduction techniques actually helps his cause and gets him action.

After posting that to my blog, several people e-mailed me with some strong reactions. I could list them all, but they all really boil down to one question …

… So It’s Really That Easy, Eh Ross?

Listen: Speed Seduction® is much more than a collection of “magic phrases” and techniques that guys can use to get laid.

A crucial component of my teaching helps men determine quickly which women are, for lack of a better word, Sargeable. It’s called Speed Seduction® not because it helps guys get laid quickly, but because it helps the smart man quickly discern whether a woman is interested in him.

He will proceed with his Sarge only when he determines she is likely to receive what he has to offer. He will also “exit, stage left” the instant he determines he doesn’t have much chance of success with her and move on to women who are more ready for him. My system helps men get more of what they want by helping them recognize where they are most likely to find it.

I teach my students how to use the feedback a woman gives him to create irresistible POSITIVE challenge, that draws women forward and massively magnifies her attraction to them, from the first word spoken to her last gasp of pleasure.

But being a Speed Seduction® master who claims his results and success with women takes a lot more than knowing HOW to approach a woman and make her feel attracted to him.

All of what I just described is part of what we call the “Outer Game.” To score the touchdowns, make the goals, and hit the grand slams, you must …

… Powerfully Master Your “Inner Game.”

My students are able to master the resistance put up by women who “call them out” because they gain a sure way to learn from every seduction situation. They develop a “stealth charisma” that is so subtly attractive, completely undetectable and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone, that it creates its own attraction force.

It’s not that these women knew they were being Sarged on and thought it was cute, per se. It’s the “vibe” my students put out that lets women know they are in the presence of a confident, strong man who is true to who he is and what he gives to the world.

Because my students have calibrated their “inner game” to support and foster their “outer game,” they are able to easily turn almost any situation, including being “called out” for Sarging, to their advantage. When this happens, my students experience success and pleasure with women they desire. The women also experience success and pleasure. The world is a happier place as a result. Sounds like a win-win-win to me!

When you go through life with an “inner game” optimized for girl-getting success, you still won’t get everything you want every single time. However, by maintaining and honing that mindset, you will get what you want a far greater percentage of the time.

And that, to me, sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Want to know how to end all confusion, frustration, and stuckness you’ve ever experienced with women, and immediately convert it to pure, immediately usable learning, so you could bounce right back, and automatically do things right the next time?

You’ll find this, and MUCH more, in my Nail Your Inner Game System. Claim yours today and calibrate a kick-a## “inner game” to boost the success of your “outer game”

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In my regular “Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets” that I send you several times a week as part of your Speed Seduction® experience, I share powerful principles for Seduction success.

Often times I respond directly to a question e-mailed to me by one of my students, about a particular situation or challenge he is experiencing. Whether he is sharing a success story about how he bounded from one woman to another in the same night, or asking for help when the juicy-wet chick he banged last week is flaking on him today, I live to teach.

(You guessed it – they’re all posted right here on my blog.)

This week’s Girl-Getting Lesson is brief, but so powerful that it will impact everything you do with women and in life when you immediately make it part of who you are, what you do, and how you approach the world around you.

When you fully apply Speed Seduction®, you will experience lots of up and downs – and not all of them in the bedroom (or on the couch, or in the board room during lunch hour)! My girl-getting system is as much the result of 20 years of proven successes, as it is a mindset strategy.

No matter what happens with any particular woman (or women) on any given day, there is a mindset mantra I live by, that I share with you.

Say this, out loud, right now, and mean it:

“Show me better, show me more … show me more, show me better … NOW!”

It applies to EV-VERY situation you encounter with women.

When you just had the most incredible sex with a goddess-in-the-flesh who is the epitome of everything you desire in a woman … the next step is more sex, and even better sex, with this woman, assuming you choose to see her again.

At the moment your cell phone beeps because your date for tonight is flaking on you via text message … then it’s time to find women who are better for you, who are more into you, and to spend more time Sarging to do better when meeting them.

Five minutes after you fulfill your ultimate fantasy … you got it … the next step is more and better!

This mindset applies equally to all your other pursuits – your career, business, investments, sports, restoring a ‘69 Camaro – everything! No matter what … it fits.

One more time: “Show me better, show me more … show me more, show me better … NOW!”

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Imagine for a moment…if you had such an effective, sure way to learn from every situation, that you could develop a “stealth charisma” that was subtly attractive, completely undetectable, and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone?

With no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you take bold (and fun) seduction steps, as you walk like a giant where other people fear to step, my Nail Your Inner Game Course will get you off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted.

Get yours today!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

From time to time, I will hear from a Speed Seduction® student who is in a slump. He’s had a lot of success with women, and usually has no problem overcoming his fears, confidently approaching women, and using my teachings to get them dripping wet with desire.

But, sometimes guys get down in the dumps and into a slump. Hell, Babe Ruth, The “Sultan of Swat,” got into a slump now and then. This doesn’t mean you’ve somehow regressed into an Average Frustrated Chump (AFC). You’re just in a slump. The solution is not as simple as “just step back up to the plate and take another swing” – but it might not be as complex as you think.

Stay with me while we explore…

…What Causes Seduction Slumps?

Slumps could be due to many different factors:

1. Your physiology is worn out or tired. If the body isn’t getting what it needs, the mind is going to go, and your abilities along with it. Have you noticed changes in your eating/work/sleep/exercise pattern?
2. Presence of sudden environmental stress. When I lose people close to me, my sarging ability can go strongly into the toilet for 6 weeks or more.
3. Presence of a nasty, “suppressive person”. If there is suddenly someone in your environment who is hateful and suppressive, it could be effecting your overall emotional/mental state in a negative, anti-sargy way.
4. Unconscious internal conflict. Maybe you unconsciously think being with lots of women is nasty or bad, or doesn’t fit “who you are”. Or your values are shifting and you want more emotional closeness or support.
5. Sloppy seduction fundamentals. You are not practicing with discipline; leaving things out or doing the wrong things or too much or too little. Review your actions with women and see what you come up with.

Do any of the above apply to you?

Are you finding that you just can’t seem to motivate yourself? Wondering why you can’t get off your Seduction ass and get out there and Sarge?

The answers to those questions need to come from within you. And any of the causes I mentioned above can be impacted by the state of your inner game.

If your “inner game” is not hitting it out of the ballpark, your “outer game” – the one that women see when you Sarge, or even when you go through your daily life – will strike out too. It’s a good place to start.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. No matter how much of a slump you’re in right now – what you’ve been through, experienced or encountered – you CAN turn around even the toughest situations, turn confusion to clarity, and losing to learning.

To help you, I have put together everything you need to get out of the dumps and Nail Your Inner Game. Get yours now:

http://www.seduction.com/blog/nailyourinnergame