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Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Today, I’ve been in a pretty playful, “don’t give a fuck” state, so naturally I’ve been sarging.

(I’ve found that the “I don’t give a fuck what happens” attitude is often a key component of my best discoveries, breakthroughs and lays!)

So  I was in the local lunch spot, joking around with Jennifer, the counter-girl/waitress.

Her nerdy girl glasses were falling far down on her nose. So I said, “Can you please push those back up? The Mr. Monk/obsessive compulsive in me is going crazy wanting to push them back up”.

Anyway,  after some joking around, it occurred to ask a screening question about her.

I did this because:

A. Screening girls shows you have standards

B. Screening girls in LA is important.  This is land overflowing with nutcases, burn-outs and “get a refund for all that therapy that didn’t work” chicks.

I especially want to screen for women with great communication skills, and for me, that means, in part, a woman who can be open to feedback and admit when she’s been wrong.

So I said to Jennifer, “I want to ask you a more serious, personal question.  When you’ve done something wrong,  and you get called on it, do you cover it up? Or excuse it? Or do you come clean with what you did, and really listen to the other person?”

She said, “I do my best to hear people and admit it if I fuck up”.

I said, “I consider it an intellectual strength to be open to feedback. Especially if you have a strong mind, you can easily get trapped in your own viewpoint.  So I like people who can tell me their truth and hear mine.”

Then I said something that wound up making us both blush as I realized the sexual innuendo.

I said, “I’d rather have it on the table or in my face, then behind my back”.

There was a brief pause…we both turned red..and burst out laughing

Now, this was a good exchange.

But Jennifer flunked my test, and do you want to know why?

Because one of my standards for women is that they show curiosity and ask questions about me.

Jennifer, for all of her playfulness and openness to sexual innuendo(and there was more between us, including talking about hypnotic bondage and slavery!) didn’t show any curiousity about me and did nothing to initiate any of the conversation.

So Jennifer, big boobies, sexy glasses( I told her they looked great but I was imagining her do something to me that might make them fall right off her head) and innuendo receptivity aside, gets nothing further from me.

Screening. It’s whats for lunch at Jennifer’s restaurant.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

In this video(which is #5 of 10 in my Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery Series), I do an overview of the 4 basic and powerful approaches to meet women, anytime, anywhere.

You’ll note that I prefer “The Put-On”. Why?

Because it allows me to:

1. Immediately screen out the women who are easily jarred, rigid, and closed-minded.

2. Find the women who are fun, playful, and who react well to something just a bit out of the ordinary.

3. Enjoy the process

This concept of screening, selectivity, and standards is a major piece of the Speed Seduction methodology.

Enjoy this video and please comment on the blog in the space below. Or, if you prefer, you can pop right overwatch it on Youtube and comment and rate the video there.  The title is How to Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere-4 Easy Ways To Meet Women.

Your participation helps me to spread the word to guys who are searching, so “play it forward” and help out me and your fellow brothers in the fight for the pink.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Fans And Student

 The other day I got an email from a very frustrated 43 year old guy.

 You see, he had used my Speed Seduction® material to get a very hot 19 year old lady in a rather intimate position, but then encountered the dreaded, “last minute resistance”.

 I’ll spare you the steamy details of his email, but essentially he had this flawless beauty one small article of clothing away from being in her birthday suit and got stopped at the last minute with the famous phrase, “This is happening too fast”.

 Now, in his case, he choked.  He simply couldn’t think of any response, backed off, and by the time he got back to trying again, she was out the door.

If you’ve ever had this happen to you, you know how screamingly frustrating and confusing this kind of thing can be, and also how common.

 How He Blew It And What To Do Differently

The problem with this guy is that he made one of the two fatal choices in dealing with any kind of objection or resistance from women, whether sexual, emotional or any other kind: he gave up, which is as big a mistake as the other bad option: arguing or pushing.

 (Have you ever tried arguing a woman into doing anything, much less going to bed with you? This works about as well as trying to put the milk back in the cow).

Here’s What He Should Have Done, And What You Should Do Too!

 What this guy should have done is quite simple: rather than argue and push or give up, he should have:

1.     Recognized her emotional need that she was trying to express: feeling safe and comfortable and not being pressured into something she might later regret.

 2.    Expressed his understanding and agreement with that need.

 Now notice, I didn’t say he had to actually go along with the need. He just needs to demonstrate that he understands.

Here Are His Magic Words He Could Have Used To Skin Her Right Out Of Her Skivvies

 In his case, the magic words would have been, “Of course I don’t want you to feel pressured. I hate feeling pressured too. Let’s just relax and see what we can both feel comfortable and enjoy.”

 Then he should have backed off and resumed just a few minutes later, because this time when he did, she would have experienced her arousal for him in the context of also feeling safety.

 And arousal + safety= hot women eagerly and willingly getting naked.

That sure beats a poke in the eye…doesn’t it?

 Peace and piece,

RJ

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