Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever felt a complete collapse of energy when you don’t achieve the results you wanted?  Particularly when you make your move with a woman and she shuts you down cold?

Some students who have experienced this say it gets to the point where they can almost see the future – they can perceive or predict rejection before it even happens.

Now does past rejection give us the ability to see the future?  Not really.

What happens is you want to move forward, but you also want to be totally certain before you take a step. Since these two things are not logically possible you have two conflicting desires bumping up against one another.

The resulting “friction” is what causes the suffering and the perception of “perceiving rejection”.

The solution is to release the need to be certain and then to feel the raw physical sensations of uncertainty without the internal dialog or imagery. Just track the raw sensations in your body, noting every ten seconds out loud if they are “Same” or “Changing” (veterans of some of my Speed Seduction® seminars are familiar with this technique).

Once you have the raw physical feeling separated from the imagery and dialog, it no longer feeds the limiting ideas in the imagery and dialog – there is no more fuel to power the engine of your ongoing “story” that has kept you limited, so the imagery and dialog just tend to drop without you having to attempt to drop them.

And that is your “get out of rejection jail” card…

This:

1. Frees you to create a NEW story about how you respond, what you can do, etc.
2. Frees up that raw energy to power the NEW story.
3. Quiets the internal “noise/friction” in your system so you can perceive what is going on with other people: the accuracy and speed of your intuition and calibration will skyrocket WITHOUT EFFORT.
4. Quiets the noise for your EXTERNAL communication so that what you say to others will not have to push out through your noise/friction. This means your messages can be delivered with far less “push/voltage/intensity” so they don’t creep people out/blow them out of the water/break rapport etc.
5. Changes your vibe to one that is grounded, quiet, flexible and attractive BEFORE YOU EVEN OPEN YOUR MOUTH.

That’s not bad for one simple process, is it?

For those of you who are familiar with my Magick/PI stuff, can you imagine what this cleaned up state/cleaned up energy could do for your sigils and other forms of ritual work?

Hmmmm…

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I can promise you this: when you untangle yourself like this, it makes you MUCH more appealing, much more efficient a learning machine, creates a charisma INDEPENDENT of external validation or your social skill set, creates an INFORMED, INTELLIGENT motivation and enthusiasm that doesn’t rollercoaster up and down based on how things turn out on any particular day or with any particular woman.

Like this so far?  Click here for much, much more.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A couple days ago, I posted here on the blog about what happens when you aren’t in your “Sarging zone” yet you’re being pushed to Sarge anyway.

Let’s look at a different set of factors that might put you out of your Sargy mood because they put you under a different kind of pressure (either real or perceived).  What if you are in your Sarging zone, there’s lots of hot women there, so you approach a few and strike out, say, four times in a row.

Ouch.  It can happen.  Even Babe Ruth struck out, else he would have had a 1.0 batting average, not a .342 average.

Your guard goes up faster than a pebble tied to a hot air balloon.  Before you put yourself out there a fifth time and give your all yet again, now you’ll want to know your odds even as you step onto plate.  By now, half the people in the place realize you’re looking to pick up chicks.  You CANNOT fail again.  Yet…

… Now Is NOT The Time To Stop Working … Just Work It A Different Way

What do I mean?

Instead of playing hardball, “just play.” Now let’s switch from baseball to fishing.  You cast your stiff fishing rod in the pond, and some fish will want to play a little, and others will want to play all the way from the pond to the pan.

Don’t worry about her being interested. Just have some fun and she’ll either be interested or not.

As I often teach, you can take a strong intent, and wrap it inside of a playful energy, and an alert mind.

Also, some intents are always present; being in rapport, in control of your state, while other intents are sequenced through time.

Analogy change – first baseball, then fishing….now driving.

For example, when you drive, you have intents that are always there: to stay safe, to get to where you want to go, but then you have intents that change: turn here, continue there for 4 miles, look for the landmark or turn off on the highway. They all serve the overall intents that are always present.

So if three women show lack of interest and/or are otherwise unsargeable, you’ve still got to keep driving.  These were just three detours.  You’ll get there, and it will beat a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Speed Seduction® teaches you how to use your language to create states of attraction, lust, fascination and utter desire, in any woman you want – and do it so they they think it’s their idea (so they BECOME interested).  Click here to learn more about this…

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

There’s a song by Eddie Money that goes “I wanna go back, and do it all over…but I can’t go back…” Actually, this raises a good question.  CAN you go back?

Maybe there’s a hottie from your past whose “friend zone” you got caught in, or she’s that former classmate you didn’t (at the time) have the balls to pass a “love note” to.

Maybe she’s a former co-worker you seriously had the hots for, but you didn’t want to dip your ink pen in the company well.  You don’t work there anymore and she still writes on your Facebook wall from time to time… and (per her latest profile pic, anyway) she’s still as hot as she was back when you couldn’t focus on your work for an hour after she walked by your desk, with a current “status” of “Single” to boot.

Or maybe she’s someone who rejected you, and you totally blew it (or you rejected yourself by never making a move) and….ohhh…if ONLY she could experience the new, Sargy you….what could happen?

No matter what, she’s on your mind.  A lot.  So the question becomes…

Can You Bring This One Back To Life…
Or Is It Time To Move On?

Well you have two choices. 

Choice one, stop fretting and make your move.

Or, you can CHOOSE to change your feelings about the girl.

Actually, as I look at this, the reason you think about her is you invested lots of feeling in the girl PRIOR to even making out with her, much less f@@king her.

Now listen, and listen up: Speed Seduction® isn’t just about the words you use to f@@k chicks, although, bless Sargy, that is a big part of it. It’s also about a different understanding about how the “feelings” process works.

In this case, your “feelings” for the girl didn’t just enter into your body like an arrow shot by Cupid in your ass.

No, you SELF-HYPNOTIZED yourself into the girl.

I’ll bet dollars to dildos you did this by daydreaming about her, fantasizing about this salacious co-worker throwing herself on your desk and cooing “Hey big guy, I thought we were scheduled for a ‘staff’ meeting…here it is… (looks at watch)…. about six after nine in the morning… we have some ‘hard topics’ to cover…”

In the case of the chick you “blew it” with… you replay it in your mind, except you imagine the version where you didn’t trip on your Johnson or whatever else happened that things didn’t progress.

Please use this as a lesson on what NOT to do, first and foremost.

Remember: you never know where you stand with a woman until you make that first serious physical pass, so you don’t consider a woman a serious prospect until AFTER you’ve taken a ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle and experienced “blast-off”.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Sick and tired of letting sexy, beautiful women pass right in front of you while you sit there virtually paralyzed not knowing exactly what to do or say to meet them?  Knowing later on, you’ll WISH it had been otherwise?  Click here to learn how to make it happen THIS time, instead of (in your mind) later….