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The Sarge Brought Back To Life!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on March 5th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Almost every day I get e-mails from smart guys like you who step up to the plate and claim their success with women without using what I call the “5 Bs” – bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze.

The other day I received this very interesting story about the “Sarge that came back to life.” Check this out:

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Hi Ross! I’ve gotta tell you. This one time I was driving a gal home after a particularly hot adventure and we just happened past an accident scene. This guy was lying on the pavement, probably dead, though I didn’t stop to check as the ambulance was already there. Freaked her out!

I made a diversion to a local bar. We had some wine, helped her settle down, then dropped her off. Called her next morning to see if she was OK and used some advanced patterns to get her in the Sargeable frame of mind. Three days later we did the nasty, and then continued for a few months after that.

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It’s all about calibration. Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate! Each woman is different. Each Sarge is different. You have to read the woman, read the situation, and know yourself.

On the other hand, experiences like these CAN sometimes kill the Seduction permanently.

A word of caution
: SOME women, despite the performance of being interested in you, really are just NOT in the market for ANYTHING. The fact that a woman is initially responsive doesn’t mean she is really “open” or even CAN be opened. A scenario like the above can be, for her, enough reason to break things off.

I can attest that with the WRONG prospect, even when you bring your top girl-getting game, it’s at best an exercise in temporary good feelings that she cannot or will not act upon… but instead will run from.

SOME..WOMEN…ARE…NOT…READY and due to any number of issues, however “responsive” they are, they will NOT be able to carry out the required ACTIONS.

Keep on Sarging, the women who ARE ready are waiting… so what in Debbie’s delights are you waiting FOR?

Peace, piece and I LOVE this job,
RJ

P.S. A critical component of Speed Seduction® mastery is knowing, based on the verbal and nonverbal cues a woman gives you, when her responsiveness is likely to translate into action vs. when it might be best to “Exit, Stage Left.”

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Why What You Say First To Meet Her DOESN’T Matter!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on March 4th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Today, I am pretty tired.

ca 37702012 180 Why What You Say First To Meet Her DOESNT Matter!I’m not only tired but I look pretty unkempt: haven’t shaved, combed my hair, and am wearing sweats and sandals.

You know what that means, dontcha?

Perfect time to pick up women!

So, I’m in the Walgreen’s, and I had an opportunity to demonstrate to myself a great pick-up principle that I regularly teach.

What is that principle?

Simply this: no matter what you say, at first, to meet a woman, you can still use it to get her open and willing to talk to you and meet you, even if what you say comes off as cheesy, stupid and dumb.

Case in point: at the Walgreen’s, I’m in line, and this lovely lady who looked like a ballet dancer or yoga teacher gets in line next to me. I say to her, “Do you do yoga?”

She very neutrally says, “no”.

“Dance?” I ask.

“No”, she says.

I look at her and say, “Ok, I’m returning that “How To Pick Up Girls in Line At Walgreen’s” book because it isn’t working.”

She laughs at that point, so I say, “Now, I’m glad you laughed because I wanted to check out your sense of humor before I introduced myself. I’m Ross”.

She says, “I have a boyfriend.”

My reply?

“No offense, but just because I’m talking to a girl doesn’t necessarily mean I want to date her, but I admire your confidence.”

She laughs again, “Seriously” she says. “I really am in love with him but you are the most confident and original guy I’ve met in a long time. I really hope you find someone amazing to match you.”

How do you like that?
SHE was Speed Seducing me!

Now, I did not get a number or another meeting with this girl, but that isn’t my point.

The point is, what I originally used to try to meet her FELL FLAT AS A STONE.

That didn’t stop me.

I simply used it and used her responses to poke fun at myself, relieve the tension, and get her much more open to talking.

Also notice that when she said, “I have a boyfriend” I turned it around on her and played with HER assumption that I was ready to go out with her.

This is all an illustration of one of my key principles: whatever response she gives you is the right response, if you know what to do with it and can keep your state calm and steady.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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I, Ross Jeffries, Hereby Declare A “State of Sarge”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on February 24th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

ca 94040792 180 I, Ross Jeffries, Hereby Declare A State of SargeWhat’s worse than being in that “not so sweet spot” where you’ve met a woman, and you don’t know what to say to her? There she is – right in front of you, this incredibly sexy hot babe who, up until now, you never in a million years DREAMED would be sitting right next to you, hanging on every word you say. Yet…

… you can’t find the friggin’ words!

Rather than dazzling her with smooth banter, you’re internally going berserk while hoping she doesn’t notice the 24-pound giant cat that has sunk his claws into your tongue and stretched it all the way to the floor like a flaccid fruit roll-up.

Later the “right words” will come to you, all right. While you’re back at your place, alone, imagining what it would have been like to score with her.

Well, all that’s about to change. Effective immediately, I hereby declare a “State of Sarge” because it’s time to …

… Get Into The State For Conversating, So You Don’t End Up M*****bating!

Many guys find they don’t have a lot to say when she’s right there, because he’s “been there” before. Say the wrong thing, or even say the right thing but with the wrong pitch, and she’ll drop you faster and harder than an 18-pound bowling ball comes crashing when dropped off an 18-story building.

When you find yourself internally whining to yourself about girls who “shot you down” on the playground in third grade, you’re not going to be in the state of Sarge that gets you to home base with the woman who’s here, right now.

Instead, close your eyes, relax, and alter the “shot down” state you’re in. Visualize the results you’ll be getting when having the right conversations with women. Focus on how you WANT things to be and the way you WANT things to go, and the chances are you’ll get there a hell of a lot faster.

ca 36858504 325 I, Ross Jeffries, Hereby Declare A State of SargeHave you recently had a Sarge that went horribly wrong? Does it seem like your overall “batting average” with the ladies is in a slump? Do you find yourself so wrapped up in what went wrong, that you can’t vision things going right?

When you find yourself reflecting on “Sarges gone bad,” I challenge you to focus on what went RIGHT. Then, release any worry or angst about the “dumb things you said or did” and the moment when she gave you a dirty look and walked out on you. Because now, it doesn’t matter.

Stay focused on where you WANT to go (that being, back to your place for a night or weekend of “screaming with ecstasy ’till the neighbors call the cops, mind-blowing” sex)… and with that vision as your guiding force, you’ll get there faster.

My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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“Am I Striking MYSELF Out With The Women?”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on January 16th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Hitting a “grand slam” requires skill, strength, and focus. Create the vision that your bat will connect to the ball with powerful force and send it flying right out of the park, and channel your skills to get your results and claim your future. Sounds simple enough?

ca 67935924 180 Am I Striking MYSELF Out With The Women?Well, sometimes smart guys like you step up to bat, but then can’t seem to harness the positive energy to make the approach and close the deal. When this happens, you strike out. But are you striking YOURSELF out?

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Hey Ross, I purchased my first Speed Seduction® product a while ago but I’ve just starting applying it within the past few weeks. A group of us get together at a local shopping center to go Sarging. I have made about 25 approaches – small fry approaches really like commenting on the environment, asking the time, or asking for directions.

For the last week though, it seems as though the quantity and quality of my approaches has dropped. For example the first two weeks I could at least manage to have a pleasant, if short, conversation with a hot babe, but now all I can work myself up to do is the most unambitious and dull approaches (such as asking the time.) My quantity of approaches has also dropped from 5 or 6 in the first few weeks to just 2 last week.

It feels as if I’m regressing. I regularly practice breathing meditation. The only thing that I can think of is that I have fallen into the trap of comfort with my fellow wingmen. Because I am comfortable and at ease with them I no longer feel the same pressure to prove to them that I am putting in the effort. Consequently I seem to be feeling and acting like I did when I tried to Sarge alone (and failed). What can I do?

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First of all, why did you wait so long to get started? As I’ve said before, every day that goes by is 1,440 lost minutes that you will never get back. There are no “do-overs” pal – but there is the chance to “do NOW.” What’s stopped you until now?

ca 41841277 325 Am I Striking MYSELF Out With The Women?In Speed Seduction®, I teach students the techniques for using the information, feedback, and “vibe” that women put out as a means of reaching them on their level and opening them up and blazing the path toward Seduction success.

Just like men react to the vibe women give off – if she’s warm and open we’re likely to proceed, if she’s cold and closed we’re more likely to “Exit, Stage Left” – women react to men in the same way.

So I ask you, what “vibe” are you putting out there? What does it say about who you are and what you give to the world?

Is it the kind of vibe that shows a woman that you are open, attractive, appealing, and open to new explorations? Or does it say “I’m not really sure I should be talking to you, and besides, I don’t know what to say?”

If you ask me, there’s something inside that’s holding you back. In order to explore the virgin (or not-so-virgin) territory of those stunning sexy women at the shopping centre, find out what’s stopping you from launching the expedition.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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