Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Yesterday in Part 1, we looked at various aspects of mental training and behavior rehearsal that constitute the first part of Speed Seduction®.

So now, let us delve into the second part.  These next Pillars have to do with mastering some simple introductions to women – having two or three things you can always say in any situation to open women, two or three basic ways to open women in any situation.

PILLAR #3: Creative Ways To Engage Women

Once the mental training is down pat, we begin to develop two or three ways to engage women in a more creative and imaginative way once you do open that first conversation. So just have two or three different ways of doing that.

PILLAR #4: Ability To Sexualize

You can memorize all the patterns in the world – Discovery Channel, Twin Brothers, Snack Quiz, Blow Job, Boyfriend Destroyer – but these don’t amount to a can of beans until you are able to sexualize – to use sexual metaphor, to use her own responses, to use your touch, to use these various Speed Seduction tools to get her hot and horny. 

PILLAR #5: Escalation

At the appropriate time, you must know how, and have the tools, to escalate physically. This works in conunction with…

PILLAR #6: Her Responses

With Speed Seduction®, knowing how to deal with women’s autopilot responses effectively and powerfully is critical.  Remember: part of the mastery involves knowing how to calibrate.

PILLAR #7: Motivation

Pulling it all together, you need a really good way of keeping yourself motivated and learning from every situation, learning effectively and powerfully.

Because even though you won’t instantly and automatically get laid every time, EVERY situation with a woman gives you something you need to succeed with the next ten women.

The more you have it made, the more you’ll get laid.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Fans,

Today I was thinking about some of the big “operating system” errors that guys make when they are NOT Sarging and where you can make some huge improvements in what I call “back game”.

By “back game” I mean what you do when you are not actively sarging.

This could be doing your daily meditation practice.

It could be keeping a Sarging journal(mandatory).

But it could also be recognizing when you are doing too much analysis with too little data.

Let’s unpack this further.

Let’s say you’ve done 5 sarges.  You got some seemingly good responses and out of those, you’ve managed to set up 1 good, solid meet up.

Rather than focus on preparing yourself for the meet-up, you start chewing on what happened with those other 4.

Now don’t get me wrong; I want you to keep that journal and review every Sarge, noticing first what you did right, and then what could be improved.

But you need to understand that 5 attempts don’t give you nearly enough examples to extract any conclusive direction or data.

You simply need to do less chewing and more doing.

Rather than trying to take things apart at this stage, go and do at least 5, preferably 10 more sarges.

You might find that correcting your “back game” in this way actually brings more leverage than any tweak you may do in the field, because it gives you more good, real world examples to sift.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A key ingredient of achieving greater success with the women you truly desire is something I call the ABS Principle.

It doesn’t mean Anti-Lock Braking System, though once you apply it you’ll find a much smoother path, with less sudden, hard stops, to getting more women.

It also doesn’t means “abs”.  No bullying, buying, begging, BS, booze, or biceps here.

Abs-olutely not.  No desperate supplication or AFC-ery here.

You might call it the Anti-Masturbation Breakthrough System.  Actually, I might call it that.

Whatever you call it, the ABS Principle boils down to this: 

Always Be Sarging

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: I don’t go somewhere to Sarge, I Sarge when I go places.

Being a man who claims his choice to meet, seduce, and enjoy rides on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle must be part of who you are and what you do.  Not an “event” as in “Hey dude, wanna go out and scout some babes tonight?”

Effective goal-setting is also an important part of the ABS Principle.  Forget “impressing that chick” or “scoring with that babe.”  No.  A Speed Seducer® focuses on continually improving and mastering his skills that get him success not only with the woman in front of him now, but also the next ten HB10s he meets.

Why is this so important? When you put alot of energy, enthusiasm and focus into any ONE woman, and things don’t open up for you as you wish, then all of that energy (better used for Sarging in this case) has nowhere to go.

Think of it this way: when the girl you play with becomes the girl you want to stay with, you will have more assurance that you are stepping into the life you truly deserve, not settling on a real-hate-shun-ship by default.

How will you find that fine femme if you’re limiting yourself by making Sarging an “event?”

Again: Always Be Sarging.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you no longer need a guarantee before you take a bold step forward and approach a woman, “make your move”, or what have you, some amazing things can totally open up:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

At various times here on Ross Jeffries Uncensored we’ve discussed (among other hot topics) sarging without a wingman, sarging when you’re solo and everyone else is in mixed groups, and sarging when some dude keeps cock-blocking you.

Now, let’s say you’re in a smaller, quieter place, more upscale.  The place is very small & everyone is within earshot.  Lots of 3- or 4-sets of ladies, mostly professionals unwinding after a day at the office.

This place is small but a great hunting ground; so you don’t want to risk kiboshing it by being viewed as ‘on the make’.   Some guys might view this as a problem.

I would first ask: how is that a problem?

It can only be a problem if you ASSUME(without evidence) that talking to women is something about which you should be embarrassed, ashamed, sneaky, etc.

Who put the idea in to your empty head that women don’t want guys to come up directly and talk to them?

You view yourself as “hunting” but you don’t want to be viewed as on the make!

No wonder you feel like you have to hide what you are doing.

How about you come up with a better f@@king metaphor than being a ‘hunter’ and women being your ‘prey’?

How would everything suddenly re-organize, shift and change… now…as you start feeling the shift from this advice?

Look guys: the metaphors you use to describe to yourself the actions you are going to take have profound effects from the cognitive layer all the way down to the neurological level of synapses, neurotransmitters, hormones, etc.

SO PICK A GODDAMN BETTER METAPHOR, KNUCKLEHEAD!

Here’s one for you: this place is a party, you are the host, there to make sure all feel happy and welcomed. And what a gift it is for them (not arrogantly so), that you give special attention to THEM.

Now, does that beat a poke in the eye?

Listen: the women (all 3 of them over there) are waiting.  What, in the name of Natasha’s nightgown, are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

“Linkage” is using gestures to make sure that the great states we create in women through the Sarging process are linked to us.

Watch this video where I expound in greater detail:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

There are some scenarios that can (seemingly) put the kibosh on Sarging, even if you are skilled at approaching a group of women, approaching a group of people, or have made approaching women as they go about life part of who you are and what you do.

You’re at a wedding reception. Every woman except one is there with her husband (not borefriend – not “has-been-d” – devoted, loving, husband!) The only one who isn’t, she’s 7 months pregnant, texting her husband who couldn’t get off work, brushing off the people in the room right now.

Maybe you live in a small town with only one or two places to hang out (usually bars), full of the same people you couldn’t stand back in high school, either.  Even if (or perhaps because) you’ve scored with several of the “regular” women, for reasons that, up until now, you haven’t quite fathomed, that empty well has now left your bone dry.

My entrepreneur students go to seminars (hot spots for hot women) yet report challenges connecting with women on a Sargy level.  Schedules run late.  Presenters run overtime with their pitchfests and it cuts into lunch hour and the networking reception – forbid presenters actually being told to stick to schedule and lose their chance to empty your wallet!  When session FINALLY ends, people beeline to their cell phones to check in with home/work/life before you can get in a word.

Normally I’d call bullshit on all of it.  Normally I’d tell you to get off your “can’t do it” ass and go out there and DO IT.

Actually, I AM calling bullshit and I AM telling you that.

Rather than sit and make excuses…GO for it…down the path of least Sargy resistance.

Got the small town blues?  May I suggest that you locate the nearest large town/city near you. Book a cheap room somewhere. Then go to venues there and practice.  Give yourself a change from that small-town dive.  Path of least resistance, guys.

In the city, hit the larger hotels where they do weddings/parties/conventions. Lots of puss eager to get rammed! 

There for a seminar?  Usually there will be 3 or 4 seminars happening at the same hotel or convention center at the same time.  Lots of women milling in the hall, at the bar, all around.  Here in Los Angeles at the LAX Corridor, there are a couple dozen hotels within walking distance or a 2-minute cab ride of each other where on any given day there will be 3 or 4 seminars going on at EACH hotel.

That’s a LOT of women, many of them now in a place where nobody knows them and they can just totally let go.

The dry-desert wedding reception you’re at might be right next door to the other wedding reception…. where 25 single women are rushing toward the bouquet at this very moment.  Their gal-pal just got hitched and they’re wondering when THEY will encounter a “great guy.”  Ummmm….paging…YOU!!!

Let me close this lesson with an opener you can adapt as needed: Walk up to a woman and say, “Hi, I’m (new to town / from out of town / attending one of these for the very first time), so I’m just saying hello to all the more gorgeous women.”   Note the implied compliment.

The women are waiting.  Now what in the name of Holly’s hot-sexy halter-top are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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