Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Merry Fukking X-mas and listen up:

There is NO Santa.

And there is no such thing as a “soul mate”.

Now listen: on my member’s only Yahoo group, one of the students wrote about his break up with a girl he thought was his “soul mate”.  And how, in fact, in retrospect, she really had very few of the qualities he actually looks for in a partner.

Your Soul Mate?

Speaking to you as someone who is a fan of crypto-zoology-the study of unknown creatures like Big Foot, the Loch Ness Monster, Moth Man, etc-I can tell you that while some folks say they have seen what look like Yeti foot-prints and living Tasmanian Tigers, no one has every actually spotted tracks or droppings from the wholly mythological creature, “the soul mate”.

My friends who are hopeless romantics, cover your eyes: there ain’t no such critter.

Do people experience feelings of connection, deep compatibility? Sure. Are these experiences likely partially a matter of millions of years of evolutionary mechanisms that cause us to form pair bonds? Almost certainly.

But much of our experiences of “love” and “soul mates” and other nonsense is due to the social programming/romantic mythology that has been pounded into our heads from infancy, right up to the present day.

If you think your experiences in these areas of life are wholly and only “natural” and “genuine” and “authentic”, think again.  They are also shaped by the mythology and expectations that media and peers have perpetuated.

The Speed Seduction(R) Difference

Listen: one of the major differences between Speed Seduction(R) and the other “systems” out there is that SS requires you to examine the filters, beliefs, ideas, responses that have been clouding your judgment and shaping your outcomes with women in ways that do NOT serve you.

De-hypnotizing yourself from useless social constructs(and your own bad habits) is a huge part of being radically successful-in radically getting out of your own way-in this area of life.

One of the other good benefits is that this kind of deep level freedom to choose your responses, attitudes and beliefs is very sexy, in and of itself.

So, if you want to learn more about this, I suggest you check out the chance to learn with me live Jan 22, 23 and 24 in Los Angeles. I guarantee you will never be able to think the same dumb ways!

Peace, and piece,

RJ

P.S. Nothing wrong with enjoying your own personal mythology, that you create, as long as it serves you and you realize it’s only a filter for fun.  Personally, I love Pippi Longstocking.   Can’t get  enough of them Swedish Girls!

Dear Speed Seduction Student,

In this first of 4 parts, I describe how to use “focusing commands” to create a sense of flow in the sexual feelings you create in women.

Note a few finer points:

1. Just because a woman has a sexual feeling doesn’t mean it is strong enough for her to act on it.

2. Feelings that have movement are what gets her in motion-right into her bed.

3. When I start using these, I put them in quotes.

Please give me your comments below, and note also that if you want to skip to my absolute best and most complete course, with tons of this stuff, go check out my Speed Seduction 3.0 Course.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Please feel free to share this video by embedding it in your own blog, Facebook, etc. You have my permission. Let’s spread the word.

P.P.S. Give me some examples in the comments section of your own “focusing commands” and I’ll pick the best response to win a free set of my new product, “Best Of RJ Coaching, Volume 1″.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Sometimes, the best approach with women is the direct approach.  And sometimes, when you run out of things to say, you need a “fall back” line that just doesn’t fail.

In this video, I reveal that line.  It speaks the truth in a simple, direct, non-threatening and honest way that usually has a very strongly positive impact.

Why?

Well, when most men go to meet women, they try to hide their intent, or they bludgeon women with that intent.

As an example of the latter, my Swedish sweetie, Pernilla, got hit on a lot when she was out here in LA, and the guys almost always just ran up to her and asked her out, without any introductory conversation at all.

Talk about clueless.

But I really like this opener because it comes across as something other than a pick up line.  And remember, pick up lines usually don’t work because they are predictable, trite, boring or even offensive.

But this one really rocks it. You will successfully meet women with this direct, can’t miss opener.

Please watch, and comment below.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Enrollment is now open for my London Seminar, this August. Details are here.

P.P.S. For those of you who want to know if I teach “direct game” well, here is your answer.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

It’s official.

My London Speed Seduction(R) seminar is open for enrollment NOW!

This will be my only European event for 2009, and we always pack ‘em in when we go to the UK.

Here is the link with all the info.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  I love doing these live events!  This is your chance to have me work with you, live, on stage.  That’s 20 years and thousands of students worth of experience waiting and ready to serve your breakthrough success and satisfaction with the women you truly desire.