Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

How do you move closer to your destination?  Take a step toward it. 

How do you eat the giant elephant?  One bite at a time.

Claiming your results with women you truly desire is not much different.

If you’re just starting out, a “newbie” who has had a bit of success using the techniques but feeling a little intimidated because you haven’t yet effortlessly landed the terrific threesome with Debbie and her succulent sorority sister Sarah, think about what HAS happened for you.

You’ve made the decision that today is the last day of the way you used to be.

Perhaps you personally haven’t changed all that much, but the way you see things and the world in general HAS changed – for the WAY better.

With increased confidence that comes from seeing SOME success, you feel like the world is your oyster and you will grab it by the balls and squeeze until they crunch.  (Ha ha ha. I don’t think oysters HAVE balls, but I dig the picturesque metaphor in any event.)

What comes up many times for “newbies” who have gotten better at approaching and conversing with women: challenges mastering the Close, sealing the deal with women.

Hint: stop thinking about the “Close” as a separate stage, but as something that starts before you even walk out the door and continues with each further step of comfort, openness, challenge, excitement and desire you create in and with her and with the first initial friendly/warm touches/physical contact, which should be happening early on.

HINT HINT: If she isn’t comfortable or is frozen with that initial, friendly, non-sexual touching, RUN.

HINT HINT HINT: learn to screen women. What personality traits must be there in her for you to want to move forward? Can you mentally rehearse getting up from the table, smiling, shaking your head and saying, “No way” and just walking out the door, feeling 10 feet tall and humming out loud, “ANCHORS AWAY, MY BOYS! ANCHORS AWAAAAAY!”

Newbies: this is important, that last hint. Do it.

Start acting like you have choice and standards even if you currently don’t and your dick for the past ten years has been dry as nun’s pussy in the Sahara desert! It’s the most paradoxical, counter-intuitive mindset, but it W-O-R-K-S! Start believing, feeling, act-as-if you ALREADY have a world of choice.

And most of all, remember my rule: When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Inside the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection you will find a series of laser-focused video modules on numerous topics related to getting women aroused and sealing the deal.  NOW is the time to crack open the Vault and claim your ultimate virtual Vaginal Victory in 2011.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The truth is… there are so many different pick-up artists out there feeding smart guys like you a lot of B.S. that is even less effective for getting you laid than the 5 Bs – bullying, buying, begging, BS, booze, and biceps. OK, that’s 6 Bs. But you get my point.

Did you see the post I made earlier where I show you just ONE area where mastering the art of seduction goes way, way beyond simply knowing a few pickup lines or language patterns?  If not, here it is again (click here to read it).

Also, if you missed my big announcement yesterday, be sure to check it out here.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I’ve literally laid it all out for you EXACTLY how we do it. There’s nothing missing… there’s no “secret” that I’ve left out… And there’s no bait-and-switch bullshit on the backend where I’ll turn around and then say, “now to get the REAL story…”

Hell, I’m even giving you front-of-the-line access to the next two courses we’re releasing that I’ve been slaving away at here – for FREE when you step up right now.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

In the next installment of snippets from my recent interview on a German PUA site, I delve into the “basic premise” of Speed Seduction®.

As you watch this video and decide this is a critical factor you want to master in your girl-getting game, click here to learn about and register for our upcoming live 3-Day Seminars…

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Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S.  It’s only been a few days since I opened registration for our 2011 Live 3-Day Seminars and already registrations are pouring in.  Remember: he who hesitates, masturbates.  Wouldn’t you rather motor-vate yourself to girl getting success?

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Whether you want to have more success when it comes to how to pick up women, how to approach women, how to seduce women or how to get them into bed, everyone keeps repeating the same old mantra: “Confidence is the key”.

The problem is that “confidence” can and does have different meanings.

There are actually 4 different kinds of confidence and if you try to apply the wrong one to your situation, you will fuck yourself up royally.

Here is a video I shot on a very important kind of confidence. Could it be exactly what you need?

Give it a good viewing and share your comments and thoughts below

Click here to view the embedded video.

Well, what do you think? If you would like to find out how to gain the right kind of confidence that you need for your unique circumstances, situation and history, check out my Nail Your Inner Game Program right here.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The other day I decided to screw around and broadcast live for an hour on my Ustream TV channel. I related some interesting personal seduction stories, talked about my students’ challenges, and took questions from viewers.

One of those questions really struck me as something I’d like to discuss with you today.

The question was this, “Why does it have to be so hard to succeed with women? I try and I try everybody’s stuff and I still feel I’m barely getting anywhere?”

Has this ever felt like you? Have you ever felt like this?

Listen: if we’re honest, we’ve all felt this way. Felt confused. Felt that somewhere, some-when, in some distant and untouchable reality, there is a version of ourselves who is doing so well. Who gets it all. Who has fulfillment and satisfaction instead of confusion and “almost there”.

In reality, however, success with women doesn’t have to be that difficult. Sure, it requires some work and some effort. But it does not require struggle when you know how to come at it systematically.

It all breaks down to three elements:

1. A good working model of how women think, feel and behave. If you want to get somewhere, you have to have an accurate map. Speed Seduction® provides that by letting you peer deep into the operating system of women; how they create their emotions and behaviors. And once you get that, they become understandable, guidable, and very very seduceable.
2. A good way to control your state of mind, create a new sense of possibility, a new set of beliefs and attitudes that serve your progress, your success and your ability to learn and improve (and find fun) in every situation. Remember 1/3 of Speed Seduction® is teaching you how to build, maintain and grow a better you.
3. A good technology for getting results in the field, in the real world, with real live women. 1/3 of Speed Seduction is teaching you the actual steps with women: how to use your language to evoke their deepest emotional states, their strongest desires. How to get them talking in a way where they reveal everything you need to catapult them right into your bed (or the hood of your car or the desk, or wherever!)

Listen: when it comes down to it, any challenge, no matter how daunting, is solvable and winnable when you look at it in terms of systems and procedures, rather than isolated and disjointed “problems’.

You can have clarity instead of confusion. You can have luscious pink pleasure instead of lonely longing. You can have succulent success instead of settling.

And you can understand and enjoy the whole process along the way.

Let me show you how, right here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Since I started teaching in 1991, I’ve had thousands of students, and many of them-about 40%-have been engineers of one kind or another. These brilliant fellows have taught me an appreciating of thinking in a systematic way-I’m naturally far more wildly creatively and artistically minded.

So if you happen to be a process-oriented kind of guy-information tech, attorney, engineer, scientist-I’d really love to talk to you through my Coaching Program. Check that out here.