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		<title>Feed The Need To Succeed: More Than Book Learning</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2011 15:24:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, A major impediment to success in any endeavor &#8211; career advancement, building a successful business, becoming a star athlete, discovering a breakthrough in science or medicine, getting the results you want with the hot, succulent, attractive-in-every-way &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/feed-the-need-to-succeed/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>A major impediment to success in any endeavor &#8211; career advancement, building a successful business, becoming a star athlete, discovering a breakthrough in science or medicine, getting the results you want with the hot, succulent, attractive-in-every-way women you&#8217;ve always wanted but up until now have not mastered &#8211; is in <em>how you look at it</em>.</p>
<p>Students ask me, how can they absorb all the information they need to succeed?  What&#8217;s the right way to &#8220;study?&#8221;<br />
<img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3546" title="ca_10008520_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/ca_10008520_180.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="148" /><br />
<strong>That&#8217;s the problem</strong> &#8211; right there.</p>
<p>We&#8217;re not cramming to pass the final exam here.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s the <em>wrong</em> metaphor.  <span id="more-3545"></span></p>
<p>You can&#8217;t absorb what you would best aim at having, which is not &#8220;information&#8221; but <strong>SKILL</strong>.</p>
<p>Look at it like this:</p>
<p>There&#8217;s really no &#8220;information&#8221; that will, in and of itself, solve your challenges. There IS &#8220;potential information&#8221; that <strong>becomes real when you apply it as SKILL</strong> in the real world, through your <strong>ongoing PRACTICE</strong> and<strong> EXPERIMENT with real women</strong> in the real world.</p>
<p>You are aiming at the wrong thing. Again, the metaphor sucks. And the one feeds the other.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3547" title="ca_10008127_325" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/ca_10008127_325.jpg" alt="" width="325" height="396" /></p>
<p>Repeat after me: <strong>F@@K information. I claim my skills.</strong></p>
<p>F@@K absorbing. EMBRACE <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>practicing</strong></span>.</p>
<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p><strong>P.S.</strong> Understanding concepts REQUIRES real world application in addition to &#8220;book lurnin&#8217;&#8221;.  So join me for <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/seminars" target="_blank">three days of live, in-person teaching</a> that gives you the tools, concepts, and practices you need to develop real-world skill that will get you more success with more women, more often.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/seminars" target="_blank"><strong>CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE</strong></a></p>
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		<title>The Walls Are Parted &#8211; 2012 Seminars Are Here!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 21:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Master In Training, I am honored, excited, pleased, and delighted beyond delight&#8217;s sweet delight to introduce the 2012 Speed Seduction® 3-Day Live Seminar World Tour! [To cut to the chase, click here ==&#62; http://www.rjseminar.com/] It&#8217;s Different In &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/2012-seminars/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Master In Training,</p>
<p>I am honored, excited, pleased, and delighted beyond delight&#8217;s sweet delight to introduce the <a href="http://www.rjseminar.com/" target="_blank">2012 Speed Seduction® 3-Day Live Seminar World Tour!</a></p>
<p>[To cut to the chase, click here ==&gt; <a href="http://www.rjseminar.com/" target="_blank">http://www.rjseminar.com/</a>]</p>
<h3 align="center">It&#8217;s Different In 2012&#8230;</h3>
<p>This year, we&#8217;re creating not just a seminar, but an <em>experience</em>.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s just part of what&#8217;s new and exciting&#8230;</p>
<p>Everyone who registers now:</p>
<ul>
<li>Gets <strong>access to a brand-new, pre-event Seminar Prep Course</strong>, immediately upon registration</li>
<li>Has the chance to <strong>attend three (3) 1-hour webinars, after the seminar</strong>, to get your post-event questions answered</li>
<li>Receives the <strong>footage of the seminar you attended</strong>, within 30 days of the last day of the event</li>
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<p>Does this sound great, or does this sound great? If you&#8217;re ready to learn more and sign up, <a href="http://www.rjseminar.com/" target="_blank">http://www.rjseminar.com/</a></p>
<h3 align="center">And Actually, There&#8217;s <span style="text-decoration: underline;">MORE</span>&#8230;</h3>
<p>Not only will you, as a seminar attendee, receive the footage for the seminar you attended&#8230;you will actually receive the <strong>footage for all four live 3-day seminars in 2012!</strong></p>
<p>Get the scoop at <a href="http://www.rjseminar.com/" target="_blank">http://www.rjseminar.com/</a></p>
<h3 align="center">No One Supports You And Guarantees<br />
Your Success Like I Do</h3>
<p align="left">I&#8217;ll come right out and say it:</p>
<p align="left">No other teacher in the seduction community even claims to do what I can and will do for you, no matter where you find yourself with women.</p>
<p>I back this up with a guarantee that NO ONE ELSE DARES to offer. At <a href="http://www.rjseminar.com/" target="_blank">http://www.rjseminar.com/</a> you will learn how I guarantee the results not only during, but AFTER the seminar you attend.</p>
<h3 align="center">I&#8217;m Making It REAL EASY FOR YOU<br />
To Register, Too!</h3>
<p>I am offering payment plans. You can full-pay your registration, or you can make payments, as you&#8217;ll see on the website. What&#8217;s easier than that?</p>
<p>But please know: since registration must be paid in full before the seminar, the payment plans will disappear as we get closer to the date of each seminar. <a href="http://www.rjseminar.com/" target="_blank">Don&#8217;t delay</a>.</p>
<h3 align="center">So, Enough Jibber-Jabber,<br />
Let&#8217;s Just Make This Happen</h3>
<p align="left">Your results and your future await you. Right now.</p>
<p align="left">Just go to <a href="http://www.rjseminar.com/" target="_blank">http://www.rjseminar.com/</a> to claim your seat now.</p>
<p align="left">Also, you can bring a guest for free. I explain how this works on the website.</p>
<p>And if you have any questions, just e-mail Lisa at <a href="mailto:orders@seduction.com">orders@seduction.com</a> or call (323) 252-1531 (if you get voicemail, be sure to leave your phone number so we can call you back.)</p>
<p>I look forward to seeing YOU at our next seminar!</p>
<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p><strong>P.S.</strong> To maintain the quality of our seminars, seating is limited at every event. So high-tail it, get your ass over to <a href="http://www.rjseminar.com/" target="_blank">http://www.rjseminar.com</a> and register online right now!</p>
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		<title>Moving Up The Success-With-Women Learning Curve</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Aug 2011 16:22:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, I want to talk about a subject that is a bit more broad &#8211; that is, how does a person choose to move up the success-with-women learning curve? When you have lots of new elements (patterns, &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/success-with-women-learning-curve/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>I want to talk about a subject that is a bit more broad &#8211; that is, how does a person choose to <strong>move up the success-with-women learning curve</strong>?</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3256" title="ca_32297394_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/ca_32297394_180.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="273" />When you have lots of new elements (patterns, techniques, etc) to focus on learning, which are the ones that, for you, in your unique situation with any particular woman or women, and given what you have experienced and mastered UP TO NOW, will <span style="text-decoration: underline;">really make the difference</span> for you?</p>
<p>Changes CAN take place and DO take place on multiple levels.</p>
<p>Now, technically, when you use Speed Seduction® tools and you start enjoying <strong>success with women unlike anything you&#8217;ve managed up until now</strong>, you know you&#8217;re spot on. Well done. You&#8217;ve obviously put good work into mastering these tools and skill sets.</p>
<p>Now, I encourage you to use them with EVERYONE, everywhere you go, so you <span style="text-decoration: underline;">really OWN</span> them, so they become <span style="text-decoration: underline;">part of your IDENTITY</span>, rather than a context specific skill set that you turn on and off when you see <strong>some chick who is &#8220;hot&#8221;</strong>.<span id="more-3254"></span></p>
<p>Of course, you don&#8217;t sexually ramp up the guy who takes your order at Fatburger (duh!), but you can ALWAYS practice getting rapport, calibration, tuning into your intuition, practicing shifting your intent and state, practice shifting other people&#8217;s states, etc.</p>
<p>So, the question is, if you have good technical proficiency, <strong>what is the ENERGY</strong> you want to wrap the skills around? What is the energy going to convey about the PERSON who is allowing the skills to be made manifest?</p>
<p>Is it a person who is <strong>sexy, challenging, knows how to tease, pull back, ready go take her</strong> behind the bushes and give her the f@@king of her life, etc? What are the energies at play behind the skills?</p>
<p>What if you could look at the skills through a filter that doesn&#8217;t say, <em>&#8220;I wonder if this really works&#8221;</em> or <em>&#8220;I&#8217;ve GOT to make this work&#8221;</em> but instead a filter that says, <em><strong>&#8220;Of course this is going to work&#8230; now who do I wish to ENJOY being as I allow the skills to flow forth?&#8221;</strong></em></p>
<p>Looking back at the &#8220;Worth&#8221; you were feeling during your latest Sarge, do all the feelings/energies you had <span style="text-decoration: underline;">please YOU</span>?</p>
<p>Points to ponder.</p>
<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/seminarvault/" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3175" title="img_FootageCollection100" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/img_FootageCollection100.png" alt="" width="100" height="100" /></a>P.S.</strong> Today can be the day that you look back upon for the rest of your life as the moment you finally stepped up and claimed your intensive transformation by mastering your girl-getting game.  With the <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/seminarvault/" target="_blank">Speed Seduction® Total Immersion 2011 Seminar Footage Collection</a>, your journey can begin in literally 3 minutes from now.</p>
<p>What are you waiting for &#8211; Debbie&#8217;s debutante dance?  <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/seminarvault/" target="_blank"><strong>Click here and get yours NOW.</strong></a></p>
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		<title>Two Great Attitudes To Seduce Hot Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 May 2011 17:25:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, When you &#8220;assume&#8221; it makes an ass-of-u-and-me.  What happens when you &#8220;insist&#8221;? Watch this short video where I share two great attitudes that will help you meet, seduce, and succeed with the women you truly desire: &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/seduce-hot-women/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>When you &#8220;assume&#8221; it makes an ass-of-u-and-me.  What happens when you &#8220;insist&#8221;?</p>
<p>Watch this short video where I share two great attitudes that will help you meet, seduce, and succeed with the women you truly desire:</p>
<p><a href="#" onclick="return(false);" rel="videoGUID=d95098a4-87bb-11e0-ad86-12313810845a&" style="display:block;width:512px;height:288px" id="d95098a4-87bb-11e0-ad86-12313810845a" width="512" height="288">nopostivethinkingbullshitsmaller-desktop.m4v</a> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://360.sorensonmedia.com/d95098a4-87bb-11e0-ad86-12313810845a/embedv2.js"></script></p>
<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p><strong>P.S. </strong>This clip is from our April 2011 3-day seminar in London.  Our next seminar dates are in June, and are in Copenhagen and London.  Don&#8217;t miss out, <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/" target="_blank">click here for details and to sign up now!</a></p>
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		<title>Getting Off Of The &#8220;Single And Lonely&#8221; Auto-Pilot And Becoming Super-Free And Aware!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 May 2011 13:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, As I have said over and over, one of the major keys to living the life of your dreams is recognizing and getting off of the auto-pilot that keeps you single and lonely! Remember, most people &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/super-free-and-aware/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>As I have said over and over, one of the major keys to living the life of your dreams is <span style="text-decoration: underline;">recognizing and getting off</span> of the auto-pilot that keeps you single and lonely!</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2866" title="ca_41846499_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/ca_41846499_180.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="120" />Remember, most people are walking around IN TRANCE. And even more importantly, the trances they walk around in&#8230; trances of fear&#8230; of limitation&#8230; of doubt of lack&#8230; really <em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">do not serve them!</span></em></p>
<p>Actually, these trances <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>DO</strong></span> serve someone.</p>
<p>They <span style="text-decoration: underline;">serve the &#8220;power structure&#8221;</span> that profits and feeds off of a society of weak, programmed, obedient and fearful robots, who will look to the &#8220;authorities&#8221; on how to live an &#8220;ok&#8221; life. <span id="more-2865"></span></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Getting Off Of The &#8220;Single And Lonely&#8221; Autopilot&#8230;<br />
Now&#8230; Today!</h3>
<p>One of the big pieces of getting off of autopilot and having real choice, is becoming aware of your fixed paterns of perception, response, action, etc.</p>
<p>To develop this &#8220;meta&#8221; awareness is a <strong>powerful tool</strong> to peel away old, trapped ways of thinking, acting and responding and believing. It makes it MUCH easier to move up ANY learning curve for any skill set.</p>
<p>You see, technical skill IS important. But many people offer fairly good models for technical skill (how to sell, how to seduce, how to get fit, etc) in different areas of life, yet <span style="text-decoration: underline;">few people get real changes or the huge leaps they want</span> from following this advice.</p>
<p><strong><em>Sometimes, the advice is lacking.</em></strong></p>
<p>But just as often, even with good &#8220;advice&#8221; and good model for new technical skills, the person trying to follow this advice has a bigger problem: <strong>they want to really change an area of life that has been deeply emotionally challenging, evoking lots of fear, self-doubt, personal limits etc.</strong></p>
<p>What can often happen is that the new advice, new skills, new ways of thinking, feeling, acting and believing are <span style="text-decoration: underline;">filtered THROUGH the old</span> emotions, experiences, beliefs, etc</p>
<p>This means that people seldom consistently will act out the new skills from the right frame of mind. They will be <span style="text-decoration: underline;">fighting themselves, their old habits, tendencies, etc</span>.</p>
<p>A metaphor I use is, if I give you a pair of glasses dipped in dog doo-doo, EVERYTHING WILL LOOK BROWN.</p>
<p>That is why methods that assist in building clear, unfettered awarness can help us keep old responses, beliefs, behaviors, choices at bay and &#8220;in the freezer&#8221; <strong>LONG enough for new ways to take hold</strong>, and long enough for us to <strong>move up new learning curves</strong> because we can see the new skills, beliefs, responses <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>THROUGH CLEAR EYES</strong></span>.</p>
<p>This is doubly necessary when the new ways are very different from the old ways and require major shifts.</p>
<p>Remember, the further something stands from how you are used to acting, thinking, feeling and believing, the greater the chance for <strong>HUGE leaps</strong>. Also, the greater the chance for old ways to leap back up, unless you have a practice and discipline to deal with them.<span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong></strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2867" title="ca_36838752_325" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/ca_36838752_325.jpg" alt="" width="325" height="217" /></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>I&#8217;ll say that again:</strong></span> practice and discipline. Onward&#8230; Anything you do to bring your habitual patterns into your awareness(without anger, fear or reaction) is useful.</p>
<p>This is why I am challenging you to go from one extreme to another and to pay attention to flows of feeling that trigger all of it; the awareness of feeling flow is key to knowing when you are slipping into old patterns of behavior and is also <strong>key to designing in NEW ones!</strong></p>
<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/trainingvault/" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2771" title="img_Vaultsecrettraining150" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/img_Vaultsecrettraining150.png" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>P.S. </strong>While you&#8217;re getting yourself off the &#8220;single and lonely&#8221; auto-pilot that&#8217;s holding you back, get ON the auto-pilot that gets you <span style="text-decoration: underline;">easily</span>, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">quickly</span> and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">enjoyably meeting</span> even the hottest, women, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">anytime</span>, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">anywhere</span> and <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>never being stuck for what to say</em></span>.  This course is just ONE of the SEVERAL bonuses you&#8217;ll find inside the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection.  <strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/trainingvault/" target="_blank">Click here to &#8220;crack open&#8221; the vault, right now!</a></strong></p>
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		<title>&#8220;I Used To Think God Hated Me&#8230;&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 21:16:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, I can talk until I&#8217;m blue in the face about how Speed Seduction® training is the proven formula that gets you the success you want with the women you truly desire.  But nothing quite says it &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/i-used-to-think-god-hated-me/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>I can talk until I&#8217;m blue in the face about how Speed Seduction® training is the proven formula that gets you the success you want with the women you truly desire.  But nothing quite says it like my own students, in their own words.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s hear from Matthew, who has attended a live seminar, completed Speed Seduction® 3.0, and participated in our Coaching Program:</p>
<p><a href="#" onclick="return(false);" rel="videoGUID=5299d7a6-7a7f-11e0-95f2-12313804de72&" style="display:block;width:512px;height:288px" id="5299d7a6-7a7f-11e0-95f2-12313804de72" width="512" height="288">matthewtestimonialformal-desktop.m4v</a> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://360.sorensonmedia.com/5299d7a6-7a7f-11e0-95f2-12313804de72/embedv2.js"></script></p>
<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p>P.S. Your next opportunity for 3 days of immersion training with me is in just 11 days, in Chicago.  <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/" target="_blank">Click here for the details and to sign up now!</a></p>
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		<title>The Life You Have Always Wanted</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 17:26:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, You are embarking on a journey that will change your life forever. Fear, doubt, uncertainty, and involuntary celibacy are about to replaced by success with the women you truly desire. You&#8217;ll wonder why you went so &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/life-you-have-always-wanted/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>You are embarking on a journey that will <span style="text-decoration: underline;">change your life forever</span>.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2497" title="ca_30356277_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/ca_30356277_180.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="270" />Fear, doubt, uncertainty, and involuntary celibacy are about to replaced by <strong>success with the women you truly desire.</strong></p>
<p>You&#8217;ll wonder why you went so long buying into the programming of the &#8220;romance industry&#8221; that brainwashes otherwise smart men into Average Frustrated Chumps.</p>
<p>This time next year, once you immerse yourself in my teachings, master the skills, and apply them to your life situation and your experience with women, you&#8217;ll look back with triumph, having just savored the &#8220;best fucking year ever&#8221; of your entire life.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll wonder just how you managed to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">LIVE</span> with<br />
<em><br />
&#8220;real-hate-shun-ships by default&#8221; </em></p>
<p>and</p>
<p><em>&#8220;getting lucky.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Now, you&#8217;ll have the <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>power of choice</strong></span>, <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>mastery of your girl-getting game</strong></span>, and a life of <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>tight trim triumph</strong></span> where meeting and seducing women anytime and anywhere will be effortless and FUN. <span id="more-2496"></span></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Here&#8217;s What It Will Look Like&#8230;</h3>
<p>Your buddies &#8211; and people in general &#8211; will wonder &#8220;how does he DO it?&#8221;</p>
<p>People in general, most of whom won&#8217;t understand HOW you do it (and in many cases wouldn&#8217;t believe it if you told them), will describe you as a &#8220;ladies&#8217; man,&#8221; &#8220;Casanova,&#8221; &#8220;smooth operator,&#8221; &#8220;pick-up artist,&#8221; &#8220;stud,&#8221; &#8220;kissing bandit,&#8221; and more.</p>
<p>Your very arrival on the scene will <span style="text-decoration: underline;">cause women&#8217;s heads to turn</span>, with admiring glances and inviting expressions.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll find that when you master the skills for getting women, the same <strong>confidence, power, and ability to persuade-to-get-laid</strong> will spill over into other areas of your life as well.  Things that used to throw you for a loop will now be just &#8220;things&#8221; that you <span style="text-decoration: underline;">powerfully handle</span> and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">master</span> to your own advantage.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2498" title="ca_36838752_325" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/ca_36838752_325.jpg" alt="" width="325" height="217" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>You&#8217;ll have become the man you always wanted to be.</strong></p>
<p>Over 20+ years and 5,000 hours of teaching Speed Seduction®, I&#8217;ve been honored to help thousands of students, smart guys just like you &#8211; move from depression and darkness into <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>amazing success with women</strong></span>.</p>
<p>It is my deep honor to be teacher, coach and guide to all of these students, and to you as well.</p>
<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/trainingvault/" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2416" title="img_Vaultsecrettraining200" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/img_Vaultsecrettraining200.png" alt="" width="120" height="120" /></a>P.S. </strong> Ready to get the women you truly desire in 2011, on YOUR terms, without guess work or games?  Crack open the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection and <strong>make 2011 your &#8220;Vaginal Victory Year&#8221; &#8211; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/trainingvault/" target="_blank">click here to get instant access now!</a></strong></p>
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