Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In the last issue, I talked about the first tip for making sure a woman never flakes on you: creating compelling reasons for her to want to see you.

In this issue, I want to get to anti-flake tip #2, so here it is:

Anti-Flake Insurance Policy Tip #2:  Create Safety And Comfort On Her Part!

It never ceases to amaze me how men assume that because they are comfortable and feel safe with a woman, that a woman will feel comfortable and safe with them.

In that regard, I’ve had women tell me some amazing horror stories, including, for example, having guys walk behind them and suddenly tap them on the shoulder in dark, isolated places at night!

I guess you could call this “the Mugger Method” for meeting chicks to which I can only say…

…Hey Buckwheat..It’s Pick -Up Girls, Not Stick-Up Girls!

Here are some other guaranteed, sure-fire, creep-her-out/scare-her-off moves and tactics:

1.    Staring at body parts. Unless you are a gynecologist, the only time you should be staring at her nether-regions is when you are alone somewhere and you are both voluntarily enjoying being in your birthday suits.

2.    Talking blatantly about sexual topics. Now look: I didn’t say you can’t talk suggestively; in fact, that is a big piece of what Speed Seduction® is all about-along with getting her to talk about such things.  It’s just that you should almost certainly not be talking about them in a blatant fashion.

3.    Radiating lust, anger, or resentment.  These are almost a sure guarantee that you are going to get a phony phone number if not an outright  “she flees the scene “ response.

What should you do instead?

1. Control Your Lust

If your trouser-snake won’t stop standing at attention and you are shaking like a bull with a hot heifer, a simple method is put your attention on the feeling of your feet pushing against the ground while you take a deep breath and then exhale.

I kid you not, but this simple method works wonders to make sure you can bring your lust under control and avoid scaring the pants off her.

2. Get Her Talking About Herself

Not only should you not be talking about sexual stuff, you really should not be doing most of the talking at all. Rather, learn to get her talking, and talking about those themes and topics(connections, fascination, indulgence, escape) which are likely to have her experiencing the kinds of feelings with you that she wants to feel more of.

3. Keep Your Eyes On Her Eyes, Even If She’s Got Stuff Almost Sticking In Your Eyes!

This one is actually part of #1: if you can control your state, these kind of “creep-out” behaviors just tend to naturally fall away, because you’ve got nothing feeding them.   So this tip is actually not as trite or as common-place as it might at first appear.

Ok: this issue has gone on a bit longer than I intended.  So I’ll see you next time when I reveal Tip #3 for your  100% Anti-Flake Insurance Policy .

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Ok; if she is Swedish, under 25, and smoking-hot, I give you permission to stare at her fun-bags ONCE. But no more than ten seconds and you have to send me pics.

P.P.S. Did I really just say “fun-bags”?  I did.  And you can have bags and barrels of fun with the women you really desire with this.

Non-Economic Stimulus For Her Package: Don’t Spend A Dime On Valentine’s Day!
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As you know, National Desperate Supplicating Masturbator’s Day (Valentine’s Day) is coming up next week.

I hope you don’t spend as much as one dime on the woman or women in your life.

As I keep telling you guys over and over again, we as men are bombarded and brainwashed by our popular culture from the time we are children to believe all sorts of myths about what works with women.

Among these lies:

*Just be yourself. (Do I need to say anything further about this steaming pile of bullshit?)

*Be a beggar. Plead and please her.

*Pay up. Buy women’s favor. Cards, presents, fancy dinners, diamonds. Show you value that poonani of hers by what you are willing to pay for it.

*Bully your way into a woman’s pants: in other words, be a jerk

*Lie: bullshit your way in. Tell her what she wants to hear.

Now, Valentine’s Day is a prime example of begging and buying. And if you think about it more clearly, it’s also an example of BS’ing.

Does anyone seriously expect anyone to believe the BS sentiment expressed in those idiotic cards?

I say, screw it. I have no problem with stimulating women. In fact, I love doing it. But I do it without spending one penny-until AFTER they are sleeping with me. And I do it by using my language and my vibe to capture and lead her imagination and emotions.

You can do it too with my Speed Seduction 3.0 Course.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. I have no problem with you choosing, of your free will, to spend a few bucks on a woman who is already in your life and who is treating you the way you want and expect to be treated. Just don’t depend on money to be the way you go about capturing and leading her imagination and emotions.