Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In the last issue, I talked about the first tip for making sure a woman never flakes on you: creating compelling reasons for her to want to see you.

In this issue, I want to get to anti-flake tip #2, so here it is:

Anti-Flake Insurance Policy Tip #2:  Create Safety And Comfort On Her Part!

It never ceases to amaze me how men assume that because they are comfortable and feel safe with a woman, that a woman will feel comfortable and safe with them.

In that regard, I’ve had women tell me some amazing horror stories, including, for example, having guys walk behind them and suddenly tap them on the shoulder in dark, isolated places at night!

I guess you could call this “the Mugger Method” for meeting chicks to which I can only say…

…Hey Buckwheat..It’s Pick -Up Girls, Not Stick-Up Girls!

Here are some other guaranteed, sure-fire, creep-her-out/scare-her-off moves and tactics:

1.    Staring at body parts. Unless you are a gynecologist, the only time you should be staring at her nether-regions is when you are alone somewhere and you are both voluntarily enjoying being in your birthday suits.

2.    Talking blatantly about sexual topics. Now look: I didn’t say you can’t talk suggestively; in fact, that is a big piece of what Speed Seduction® is all about-along with getting her to talk about such things.  It’s just that you should almost certainly not be talking about them in a blatant fashion.

3.    Radiating lust, anger, or resentment.  These are almost a sure guarantee that you are going to get a phony phone number if not an outright  “she flees the scene “ response.

What should you do instead?

1. Control Your Lust

If your trouser-snake won’t stop standing at attention and you are shaking like a bull with a hot heifer, a simple method is put your attention on the feeling of your feet pushing against the ground while you take a deep breath and then exhale.

I kid you not, but this simple method works wonders to make sure you can bring your lust under control and avoid scaring the pants off her.

2. Get Her Talking About Herself

Not only should you not be talking about sexual stuff, you really should not be doing most of the talking at all. Rather, learn to get her talking, and talking about those themes and topics(connections, fascination, indulgence, escape) which are likely to have her experiencing the kinds of feelings with you that she wants to feel more of.

3. Keep Your Eyes On Her Eyes, Even If She’s Got Stuff Almost Sticking In Your Eyes!

This one is actually part of #1: if you can control your state, these kind of “creep-out” behaviors just tend to naturally fall away, because you’ve got nothing feeding them.   So this tip is actually not as trite or as common-place as it might at first appear.

Ok: this issue has gone on a bit longer than I intended.  So I’ll see you next time when I reveal Tip #3 for your  100% Anti-Flake Insurance Policy .

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Ok; if she is Swedish, under 25, and smoking-hot, I give you permission to stare at her fun-bags ONCE. But no more than ten seconds and you have to send me pics.

P.P.S. Did I really just say “fun-bags”?  I did.  And you can have bags and barrels of fun with the women you really desire with this.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

After two weeks of technical issues, I’m back in the video posting biz.

So here is part II, of Module 1: Getting Up To Speed With Speed Seduction(R).

In this module I talk about what you MUST avoid, if you are going to enjoy success with women. What REALLY works, as opposed to what you’ve been taught.

Please comment below, and spread this video around.

And if, after watching this, you are convinced you want me for your teacher, coach and seduction mentor, go here to find out how you can try out the first month of my coaching program for just $1.

Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

One of the most common questions I get when I do a radio interview is, “Will that really work on a girl? It doesn’t seem like it will work?”

My response is not what the questioner expects.  I almost always say, “How do you propose to know?  What is your method of knowing what the boundaries of your reality are? How do you discover what you can actually do, as opposed to your speculation and worry?”

You see, one of the great stopping and stuck points for guys seeking to learn success with women is that they are trying to figure it all out in their heads.  They believe-without proof by the way-that if they just get the right combination of thoughts in their heads, it will all fall into place and they will have a guarantee of absolute certain success before they try anything.

These guys fall into an endless loop that looks like this:

1. They won’t take a step unless they are first certain of perfect success.

2. They can never be certain until after they take a step.

3. Therefore they never take a step and they are never certain.

Pretty losing loop, isn’t it?

Now, the really smart guys take me on as a teacher and coach, or get my Nail Your Inner Game program, or both!  They learn how to acquire “acceptance confidence” so they can surf across any residual anxiety and actually move foward into the real world of learning and skill with women!

The dumb ones? They think that the solution is just pouring more and different “content” into the same guaranteed-to-fail process. So they get the next school’s DVD’s, the next CD, or seminar, hoping that if they put that stuff through their heads, somehow that new or different content will solve the problem.

This is why, when students come to me and present themselves as stuck, I don’t, as my first move,  look at the content of what they are saying to women. I look at the processes by which they are hindering their own learning, first and foremost. Once I shake that loose(and not always or even often “nicely), I can proceed to show them how to use their language to get women smoking hot and bothered.

So, dear reader, what about your “epistemology?” What is your theory about how you can acquire actual knowledge about what you can enjoy with women?  And do you think you get laid as often and as well as I do?

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. You can’t imagine what I am going to unleash on a shocked, and pants-shitting seduction community in about 2 weeks time. I’m going to radically move the free line and give away more valuable content for free than these morons and maniacs sell, combined.  Stay tuned here for details!

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Here is part 6 of the 6 part series, “How To Meet Women Using ‘Put Ons’”.

Please leave your comments below.

RJ

P.S. Remember that my LA seminar is coming up at the end of January.  Go here to find out the juicy details.