Dear Seeker of Success,
One of my favorite all-time sports legends is Muhammad Ali.
Now, I am old enough of a fart to remember Ali boxing, in his prime.
Back when he was a young fighter, he was so fast, so unpredictable, and had such amazing reflexes that you could actually see the moment when far more experienced, polished fighters simply mentally “gave up”.
You could see the “I quit” look on their faces way before Ali actually knocked them out.
It was as if they were thinking, “Dammit, I’ve tried EVERYTHING on this guy and nothing is working. Even my best tricks, that always work, are doing NOTHING! What do I do now?”
In a sense, dealing with beautiful women can be like this, but the good news is
YOU Can Be Like Ali: “The Greatest”
(With The Ladies)
Here is what I mean: very lovely women (and even their uglier sisters) often operate on “auto-pilot”.
This means they are SO used to being hit on by the average frustrated chumps (AFC) that populate this world, that they have just grown sick of even listening to most guys.
So often a lovely lady will throw up (in more than one sense), without even thinking about it, an auto-pilot “boyfriend” objection.
Now, as I have pointed out, when a person is on auto-pilot, if you interrupt that auto-pilot(or even pre-empt it) then for a few moments, you create a great deal of suggestibility.
It’s as if, in that moment, you have taken away their script, and now they don’t know what to do.
The good news is, if you know how to handle it…
You Get To Be The Director!
Now, when you get good at this auto-pilot stuff, it almost is something you HOPE they will throw your way.
Just like Ali, waiting for his opponent to try his “sure fire” move, just so Ali could defeat it and crack the other guy’s psyche!
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Your championship-fight training regimen that makes you “The Greatest” when it comes to Sarging the sexy senoritas is right here:
i am confused because there is so much material to learn . and i dont know where to start and what to do. i got the course but implemenring it is a challenge for me.
@Robert – the best guidance we have to give is this. First, watch the course straight through, start to finish. Then watch it a second time, and this time, take notes on things that really seem to grab your attention. The reasons why are not important, but this process will help you find your value from your learning more efficiently.
Excellent.
@Z23
What would be awesome is to see you in the front row. Can you get to LA?
I WAS there. Earned my pop tarts and still didn’t get laid.
@Zarathud
But you did get the Pop Tarts. Were they the Frosted Blueberry variety?
“More than I’ve shared on my blog or in this e-newsletter, the past year has been a year of profound challenge and struggle that has brought me (yes, me) to an entirely new level of understanding.”
Ross, I’ve read this in your newsletter. Does this refer to dealing with women or life in general? If it’s the former, how is it possible that a guru can have a profound challenge? This was just too puzzling not to comment on.
@Ace
Challenges in life in general which many of our students face. To your other point, even an experienced Master Seducer can hit a dry spell or have a series of strike outs. Babe Ruth struck out a lot yet he’s remembered for his abilities at bat.
This is why a consistent study and practice is so critical.
By way of metaphor. You take a shower to be clean. But don’t you find it valuable to take another shower the next day and for the same reason, like most humans?