Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
I need to make the following crystal clear: Speed Seduction® gets you more success with more of the women you truly desire, more of the time…
…without having to get sucked into the mastur-waiting game or resort to the 5 Bs’ (bullying, buying, begging, BS, and booze – as well as #6, biceps).
A student of mine, while explaining how he bedded a woman using specific techniques he picked up by spending an hour in the Secret Training Collection…
then added the qualifier “she’s sort of thick and a little chubby in the belly area…but I like that on her.”
As if to defend himself for having invited a thick chick for a ride on his baloney pony.
I only had one issue with this: he felt the (misguided) need to defend his choice.
(Yet another example of how social programming and the “media” with their false “ideals” are brainwashing smart men right out of their power of choice with women.)
Turns out, he has a thing for big, tall, thick women. Bonus if she has long, curly black hair.
Let me say it again: more success with more of the women YOU truly desire, more of the time.
Instead of a life by default, an existence where “getting lucky” is an event rather than part of who you are and what you do, now YOU claim YOUR choice with the women you find most attractive, according to YOUR preferences. No more settling for whomever gives you the time of day, if you’re “lucky.”
You Can Have The Kind Of Woman You Want,
When You Create The Motivation To Respond
How do you initially hook in and grab the attention in a way where more of the kind of women you want become OPEN to “seduction oriented” patterns, suggestions, etc?
This is from an email discussion I had not too long ago with a friend. First of all, it isn’t so sequentially cut and dried. I always do everything, all the time, while also being aware of what I need to do in sequence.
Here is what I’ve found works to get that initial locking in of attention and desire to respond. This may work for you as well.
A woman can hook into:
1) Analogs: she may like your tone of voice, tempo of speaking, body language.
2) “Vibe”: for lack of a better term. Some women pick up on “energy” and are attracted, unconsciously, before they are even aware of it consciously. It filters up or percolates up once you start talking to them. You may do this by ritually preparing and “programming” this with what are known as sigils.
3) The format: some women love games and quizzes. Suggestions put through that format work and get responses whereas in other formats: like questions or direct demos of trance, they don’t.
4) Some women hook into touch: You may have to TOUCH them to open them up to more.
5) Sometimes they may hook into you not caring that they are not hooking in! Not exactly a Mystery Method “freeze-out”. just a sense that you don’t care that they don’t care.
Now, this is just Part 1. Yes, there’s more. I know, I’m such a tease some days. Click here and we’ll explore 7 more.
In the meantime, remember: her looks, her personality, her essence, all of that is HB10 based on how YOU define it. Go for the kind of woman YOU want, for YOUR reasons.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. I want to point out that the 175+ video trainings in the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection are tightly focused, presented in a linear fashion (usually with PowerPoint highlights), and organized by subjects students like YOU told me you want, need and demand to know! Click here to get instant, 24/7 access, right now!
WoW!
That was really interesting and very very deep\profound.
The thing is… what do we do with this kind of information?
I mean, OK, so there is a woman that what’s attract her the most in a man
is the way his voice sound, or the way he touch. So, how can we recognize that and utilize it??
Thanks for the great post, waiting for the next one.
Oren.
Oren i donot understand exactly what you are asking buddy. anyway i think when you read any info from ROSS. READ with an open MIND and then you will figure out what it means. i think if 1 does not have the HOMESTUDY COURSE these post cover about 70% the home studdy course fills in the balance brings everything together. i hope the homestudy course is not difficult when studying. I hope the 3:0 home study course is in a easy to understand format.
# Oren,
If a woman really likes the tone of your voice, she will very often say things like “I really like your voice” and might add a question, like: “- have you been trained formally ?” or if she really likes your touch “I really like your touch. Are you like a masseur or something ?”
Or she may not say nothing at all.
“Utilizing it” – well, if she likes your voice, you know that phonesex is very likely to be something you might enjoy with her 😉
The way I see it is this:
Women can “hook into” things you can observe, as a direct cause-effect, and things you can’t observe.
If you touch her, and she goes “mmmmm”, it’s fair to assume, that touching is part of what gets her “hooked”.
Same goes for nr.3 The format.
If she doesn’t appear to be too interested in games & quizzes, but she starts leaning in, when you’re telling a story, again, it’s fair to assume, that the format of anecdote /story is part of what “hooks” her.
So in that case, you know that when you touch her right, and tell her stories – she is “hooked”. (Initially, anyway)
That would then be something you would do more of, later on / return to with her. Amping up the sexual vibe slowly, along the way.
With nr. 1 & 2: Analogues and Vibe, you can’t really observe directly, whether this is what initially hooks her or not. Or indeed what it is, precicely about your vibe /analogues that she likes.
Unless she states it directly, but even then, you really can’t know for sure. Often she does not know herself 😉
Just know, that sometimes, when you can’t figure out what “hooked her” initially, it may have been your vibe or your analogues.
And of course also, in those cases where you felt that you “did everything you could think of”, in terms of trying different formats and touches, and you STILL did not get the desired response … I may just be, that there was something in your analogues and vibe/s, she didn’t ressonate with.
Some of this, is within your control.
Your state influences your vibe. You can train your voice to become more ressonant and full, and you can practice the way in which you speak.
Generally speaking, women respond more positively to a man with a deeper voice, than guys with squeeky pitches.
The part that is BEYOND your control, is what ressonates most deeply with her and how.
So the best way of utilizing this knowledge is basically to FOCUS on the parts you can control and influence, and just be aware of the parts that you can’t control, notice what works, and do more of that.
@CMC Holy fuck, you are smart. You’ve really studied this and get it…tell me more. Which of my stuff did you get? Have you been to live seminar?
RJ
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what are sigils?
@Raj – for more on sigils, https://www.seduction.com/blog/sigils-magick-meditation/