Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,
I was at one of my local hangouts in LA, working on some e-mails on the WiFi while checking out the bevy of bodacious babes that were swarming the place….and Sarging on a few of them.
My concentration got interrupted by a scene caused by a very desperate looking fellow.
See, this is the type of place where, after you finish your food order, you take the tray up and dump your garbage in the trash receptacle and then leave your tray.
Apparently, he had gotten some hot chick’s number and had accidentally left it on his tray when he tossed it. He left the restaurant, then realized his mistake, and came back hoping to get the phone number back. He was pleading with the manager for help. Coincidentally, the restaurant staff had just emptied that particular receptacle and taken its trash out to the dumpster in the back.
So he said to the manager: “No problem, I’ll just go into the dumpster and dig it out. It’s the one on top right?”
Manager’s flat-out, no-bullshit, no-messing-around response: “No, you won’t.”
Cut to the chase: guy who thought he was about to score with some babe, walks out dejected, knowing he “blew it.“
Yeah, I’d say he blew it…
He Blew It, Big Time
He blew it from the moment he set “scoring the digits” as his goal.
If this chick was so hot (and hot for him), what stopped him from scheduling a follow up meeting with her, then and there?
What stopped him from making his move, then and there?
Why did he take what was happening RIGHT THEN and willfully postpone it until an undefined “later” that might (and now DEFINITELY will) never come?
Dude…you’ve just been screened…OUT.
Too many smart guys are programmed into following “dating rituals.” Wait to get her number…wait two days to call her…then wait two days to see her…wait till the end of the date to give her a kiss…then wait till the next day to call her to say it was great…and then wait a day before calling back to ask for the next “date.”
Here’s what I say…
“Wait” On THIS.
It’s true, the women ARE waiting. For you.
So, champ, what in the name of Nina’s navel ring are YOU waiting FOR?
If she’s here, now... and she seems interested, now… make your move, NOW.
If she says no, fine, move on.
But when she says yes (and she’s more likely to say yes because the vibe in the air that has her intrigued RIGHT NOW will dissipate if you go away and try to come back later), the results will sure beat a poke in the eye.
Peace and piece,
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