Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Here’s a blast from the past, straight off of YouTube. In the fall of 1992 (that’s 19 years ago) I was a panelist on the Faith Daniels Show.
Be prepared to see how bad “social programming” was even back then. After you watch this video, leave a comment with your thoughts.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. That was a 10-minute moment in time, 19 years ago. So how about 60+ hours of my best, latest, greatest teaching from this year? Click here to get your hands on it right now.
@Ross: Interesting choice of words
At this point we both find it comical.
@Alex
She’s dangerously delusional and giving advice that is dangerous, at least in that regard. Told you so
I absolutely love how excited the feminist guy was when the women were applauding him.
Nice guys may want sex but they NEED validation. That’s why they’re always afraid to tell people the truth or what they don’t want to hear. Kill the need for validation and you kill the nice guy.
Rj
1. Have you ever read a book by Naomi Wolf called ‘” Promiscuities “?
2. If possible, you should take all tv appearances, and even ones which have featured Rick H, Bishop (yeah I know) and put it together in a collection and sell it or offer it as a free bonus for getting one of your products. It’s always nice to see people Rage Against the Matrix
@Occupy
1. No
2. Those people were never on TV with me.
RJ
@Ross:
You misunderstand. I meant that Erika and I find your stabs at her amusing.
I told her yesterday that there seems to be a pattern in which people put words in her mouth. She never gives advice in her coaching ever. Her views are her views. I deeply respect her *personal* views (note I stressed personal, read her original condom blog entry from Awakening from the Dream) on the use of condoms. She believes it ruins true intimacy. Many guys dislike having sex with condoms as well. While I deeply respect that and think it’s beautiful, but not my thing right now because I don’t want to risk pregnancy, and my beliefs do not match hers about the whole STD thing.
There was a point where I was extremely reactive to those disagreeing with my viewpoints as I’m sure you have noticed. I am also sure you have noticed a change in my responses. This, too, is a testament to her coaching.
@Alex She’s telling guys that they don’t need to use condoms because if they have an innocent attitude, they will be protected from harm. That’s DELUSIONAL.
Men are brainwashed by women teaching us about themselves. Most women are too scared to say what they really want/are like. Why should we take advice from someone like that?
I would say you ARE a “theoretician” Ross. You have done what a lot of scientists do every day. Reveal theories based on (acute) observations.
@CP True that, but in a ten second sound-bite world, no one has time for it.
Another thing I noticed about the body language of people in the video.
When Faith tells Ross that she thinks the question is relevant because of “he says he has all the answers” she flutters her eyes quite a bit after that. Could just be emotional distress or she could be saying that just to justify the question.
And at the end when Doctor chump pump says his last hurrah, the confidence in his voice goes through the floor and the last word is barely uttered, and his entire excitement just vanishes, as if everything he was doing was staged.
@Ross: Is that what she’s saying or is that your interpretation of what she’s saying?
Ross this video showed perfectly the difference between the average chump and a man . I think speed seduction should be re named how to act and behave like a man not a pussy . Thanks for posting this great reminder of how solid your ideas are.
The difference between the average chump and a man. I think speed seduction should be required reading . Thanks for posting this clip!
interesting how comments were disabled for those vids… I bet 90% went there to watch Ross.
And I like the not so subtle body language of the guy in the middle leaning away from the feminist and Ross trying to get as far away from the dress-man as possible. hilarious.
Oh, and I think I found Waldo. (sorry Ross)
Bloody Hell…Where\’s the bottom of the page…..Ahh..HA..
..Forgot ..what I was gonna say ..now….Oh Yea..
Just an honest question: You say you don’t care what a woman wants.
Obviously your 20 years more experienced than me..
So, here goes…Is it because, Theres what they think they want and then theres showing them something that would blow there socks off…Then there bra, the panties….and so on..
TBWL
Also,..Men are Jerks..Just like woman are.. That’s how we get traction and evolve to be better, Isn’t it?
Surely some of the people in the studio audience need speedseduction in their life too.
Especially Bill Bailey in a dress sat next to you…”Sex isn’t the only thing in life”!….Pff !
That is absolutely true though, women do control the access to sex, <— FACT , and still bitch about it…God…They re Fu*#in Funny…I Love E'm..
HOWEVER,…BRAVE MAN..I think I'll leave proving speedseduction to a live audience of crazy women to you though.
..Well…until I have a few more HB's under my belt . ..Oohh Err..
TBWL
P.S. The black one scares me
TBWL
RJ
Hey,
I just realised, halfway through doing the dishes….You started seducing the host did’t you..! ..You Dog… When you said…”Roooss” in a deep voice, she repeated it, putting it in?…She even interupted the woman standing up, and made her repeat it.. Coz she was obviously too much of a Div to realise it..
..But the question, ..I Know Everyone is Itching to ask….Did any of the women slam dunk your balls…?
TBWL
“All men are jerks…bla bla bla…cluck cluck cluck…”
Reality the way I see it, is that women are suckers for words, and a guy like Ross scares the shit out of them, because they look at him and think “He’s cracked the code.”
You’re the man, Ross. Thanks for setting an example for how men SHOULD act, in this feminized, emasculated society of ours.
I think that the point Ross made in the beginning of the show was the most important and was the most evident throughout the video. Women say they want one thing, think they want another, but respond to something totally different. Just look at how many questions were directed at Ross throughout the episode as apposed to the P.HD guy.. The crowd full of women obviously felt like what ross had to say was more interesting and peaked their interest more because they continue the conversation. How many questions did they really ask the P.Hd guy.. I dont remember 1 question addressed to Mr. P.hd because although what he said sounds like what they want to hear it is boring and gets no response… Its not a challenge… and we all know women like challenges…
Ross said:
“@Boyd Remember, I don’t give a rat’s turd about what women WANT. I only attend to what they RESPOND to. ”
And isn’t that want they truly want?
It’s interesting to see the women in the audience shift from accepting what Ross says in the beginning, to rejecting what he says when he states the point of “I don’t need you, you need me.”.
The negative response from the audience was purely based on social programming. “They were supposed to respond to a guy who says that.”.
As long as it was presented in an acceptable way, all the stuff he said before, they were mostly responding favorably with their body language and their states.
I know Ross likes to provoke, for a good reason which I’m practically certain is more than just getting people have their panties in a bunch.
When you approach with controversy, yet something is true on the deepest level, AND they have to respond in a way that society expects them to, you create a conflict. A conflict in their mind.
On the deepest level they know it’s true. On the surface level they’re just followers of society. But when they go to bed at night and are free to think about it, they know that the deeper level was true. They just had to wear a mask to fit in.
A conflict in a mind needs to be resolved. So a lot of girls were thinking about Ross after the show. They needed to resolve the conflict.
What does usually win?
Truth.
People who don’t accept truth all their lives, fight all their lives against it.
And those are the girls you meet and think to yourself “Exit!”.
There are mentally healthy girls out there that you can meet.
Alex Q.: Ross Is that what she’s saying or is that your interpretation of what she’s saying?
I’ve had an online conversation with her in Facebook, as an intelligent guy I have to say that the question you just asked is really stupid.
She is showing her philosophy and ways to look at the world, shes essentially in the self help industry and this means that she teaches people how to think in order to better their lives.
This means that she has to communicate CLEARLY and avoid leaving any place for misinterpretation because people are paying her money so that she can help them but so far shes doing a very poor job. Ross on the other hand is a very clear communicator and I find it hard to misunderstand most of what he says.
If she is reckless enough to allow people to misinterpret what she says this may mean that she doesn’t care about the people she teaches and I don’t think I would want to pay a self help guru who doesn’t give a shit about what I do with her material or how I interpret it.
Not all men are nice in the problematic sense.
You can be nice as a quality, but compulsory being nice for all the wrong reasons is a problem.
I, as a person, am very nice. But only in the right context with people.
Ask anyone and they will tell you I am nice and friendly, and I am honestly so.
I just don’t take crap from anyone. Niceness is not unconditional, and if you make it so, you make it a problem. That’s where you become mr. Nice Guy.
Being nice is a quality, being stuck in niceness is a problem.
@Me Very well said. You are not far from the Kingdom of Sarge
What I find most amazing about the show is that the ethicsguy (Weinstein) is still proud of his appearance there. After all, he’s the one who posted it on his youtube channel. Can he possibly still believe what he was spouting?
It is also interesting to see how you have matured, Ross. Back then, you really came off as an arrogant jerk (ahh youth!). Ok, you can still come off as arrogant, but I think you don’t come off nearly as much as a jerk. You now show a lot of respect toward women, and your methods take their needs and pleasure into account. That’s one of the reasons why I like Speed Seduction. I want to feel good about my interactions with women, and I want them to feel good about being with me. Plus, of course, it works.
One woman I’m seeing constantly tells me that I’m so smooth and know exactly what to say. Not that long ago, no one would have ever said something like that to me. I was afraid to compliment a woman, fearing she would think I’m only saying it to get her into bed. Now I know that it’s ok to say things geared toward getting them into bed, and that they want me to do so. I also would have thought that a woman telling me I am ‘smooth’ is an insult. But, she says it as a compliment. And the more I tell her, the more she wants. Ross has helped me understand a lot about how women’s minds work and what they really want from a man.
@Full Throttle Wow, so kind. I definitely would love to use this as a testimonial. Can you please get in touch with me?
ross@seduction.com
subject: testimonial.
HaHaHa. That is fucking hilarious! Ross, you’ve been doing pioneering work for a long time. I love how you embrace the “sleaze bag” moniker with a sense of purpose and humor. Like its been said, if you are not getting booed, your doing something wrong. Good work
Solid points there Ross. I agree with sean, “women are suckers for words, and a guy like Ross scares the shit out of them, because they look at him and think “He’s cracked the code.”” Its true that what women say they want and what they actually respond to are two different things. You rock Ross.
Faith looked good.
It is quite stunning how easily the Women want to dislike Men, and attribute them as the crux of their problems.
It was a very ‘pantomime’ like show, but it spoke volumes about the general perception Women have about Men.
Quite surprised you got out alive Ross!
Classic, classic, classic Ross Jeffries vid from 19yrs ago! Great job Ross telling what women truly want and typical response from the women how much they are not willing to be honest with themselves. I saw where Faith was repeating your name just how you pronounced it. She wanted the RJ.
Shawn
Master Prac. of NLP
G’day Ross,
You have indicated that interactions with women should be fun and one example you use to illustrate this is the folder, roller or tosser when packing a port to go on vacation.
You have also indicated that you only care about what a woman responds to.
Well Ross you did both—-you had fun, and all of the women responded to you and I noticed how all the women who said they hated you all wanted to talk to you.
I also noticed how you let the women talk pushing your buttons without allowing yourself to respond in a negative manner—which is not the way they expect a guy to act—–you would have confused the hell out of them.
Here is a man Ross Jeffries who has deprogrammed himself—have you read: Viruses of the Mind by Richard Brodie?
See Ya
Grey
@Grey Of course I’ve read that book; Brodie is a friend of mine, and yesterday was his birthday. Happy B-Day Quiet Lion
Ross your right on woman, woman need & look for men, I mean real men to make them fell feminen. Real men are the afridiziac for them
@Michal Uh…spell check?
Hey “Rowsss” are you living a lonely life 19 years later? Is it weird to think you’re probably banging some of the guests newborn daughters (all grown up now of course)? Is it also weird that all the women on that show, with the exception of the host were fugly (I hope their daughters are better looking than they are)?
Word.
@Hux Nope, dating women anywhere from 20-30 years younger than me and much better looking!
I feel huge gratitude Ross that you stand up for us men.
@Dave Thanks. I’m having fun doing it too.