Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
One of the things I teach newbies who are looking for ways to meet women wherever they might be is this: “90% of the time, the worst that will happen is nothing will happen”.
If a woman doesn’t happen to like your particular approach or opening, it is very rare indeed for her to get nasty, mean or offensive.
Usually, in these cases, she just won’t respond. She’ll simply ignore you or shrug and give very little by way of an answer.
However, sometimes, on rare occasions, women can have what looks like rude reactions.
I say “looks like” because rude implies it is about you and that she is intending to be hurtful.
I have a rule I follow that enables me to meet women and turn around even the seemingly worst first responses that they have.
Here it is: I seldom take a woman’s first response to me as written in stone. It is almost always a function and reflection of what she is thinking, feeling and believing in that moment, and almost always subject to change.
So even if she does yell, call names, etc, I just view it as having nothing to do with me: after all, she doesn’t even know me.
My first interpretation is that she is having a bad day, has some other problem in life, or she has just encountered a guy who tried out some “negging” from Misery Method or the cocky/funny crap from Double Your Masturbating!
In which case, who could blame her for assuming men are clueless twits until they prove otherwise?
What are your choices if this occurs?
1. Discharge it with humor. “I’m sorry…could you repeat that? I was just thinking about my favorite verse from the Bible.”
2. Call her on it by speaking the truth of it: “Hey….nothing I just said deserves that kind of answer. So whomever you are angry at, it isn’t me. “
Personally, I’m not of a mind to give the gift of my attention to someone who isn’t of a mind to receive it, so nowadays I just shrug and move on.
But do understand it is always your choice in how you respond, when you know the tools of Speed Seduction®.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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Ross, I am very like SpeedSeduction and the seduction stuff itself. You have briliant method to teach us how to seduce women. After BHSC I has much more success with women. Thanks
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This just happened to me two days ago.
I called Lesley and boom went right into some great patterns and got her eating out of my hands.
These are the patterns I used:
.Dream
.Favorite Dessert
.Personal Date
.Friend’s Moving Up
.Popsicle
.Hate Me
I got off the phone abruptly after she agreed with a statement I had made during the middle of a conversation. She was prying into my personal information and I changed the subject. She started demanding and asking qestions and I switch subjects and talked over her about what I wanted to talk about for longer than she could hold her conversation. Once her conversation died I continued and then switched conversation. Later in the conversation she randomly blurted out that she liked the object of the conversation I talked through her with. I said I had to go then, and did a small good bye salutation and hung up.
She called back immediatley and said I was rude and to don’t CALL ME and hung up. She used so many embedded commands that were incongruent with her decision to call me rude.
I called her once to be submissive and gain her trust back using these skills:
.I understand you
.Pacing
.I see X, I feel X, I hear X, I know
.X about Y
.I feel X about Y
.I hear X about Y
.I see X about Y
Then I called her again when I realized what had really taken place. I used:
.If you can’t handle me
.I thought you were strong enough, but Z
.If you don’t respect my obligations, then Z
.If your not willing to Y, then Z
.else (.Don’t call me!, .Don’t Talk to me!, . Don’t See me!, .I never want to see you again!)
It felt good to say that!.
Ken
Humor may have been a good device in that situation, in hind sight.
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This first sentence laughed me so hard just by reading it. I can not imagine how it would be hilarious for her when said with right tonality, timing and pauses.
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