Dear Seeker of Success,
Lots of smart guys like you, many of whom are kicking ass in most areas of life (work, business, sports, social, hobbies, etc.)…
…still find it difficult to approach and meet women.
One of my excellent coaching members found himself in just such a dilemma:
I’ve been going around here and approaching a lot of different women. Up to this point, I’ve been having trouble bringing it from just an approach in general into where I can lead them and start bringing up the subjects that we want to talk about, as far as fascination or bringing their thoughts to those patterns.
I think partly it’s because up until a few years ago I wasn’t good at conversations at all. I worked on that a lot before starting your courses. Now I can talk, but I still tend to follow where they lead instead of leading and letting them follow.
OK, let me begin by saying this:
When People Run Into This Situation,
It’s NOT An Infinite Number Of Possibilities.
It usually just comes down to a few things. In my 27 years of teaching, I’ve helped tens and tens of thousands of smart guys like you get this powerfully handled.
Here are the possibilities.
Possibility #1 is you just don’t understand or know what to do. You’re not doing it because you just don’t understand or know what to do.
Possibility #2 is you understand and/or know what to do, but something is stopping you. You either think what you’re doing is wrong, or it’s going to give you a bad consequence. Could be there’s some deep, unconscious trauma that’s stopping you. (Good news: we cover this in the New Code.)
Possibility #3 is you’re just not doing it because you’re lazy, don’t want to do it, and hope that you can get away with not doing it. Now, because you have taken the step of reading this blog, I tend to think it’s NOT #3. You’re here because you’re ready to get this powerfully handled in a profound way.
(But if it is #3 – own it now, and watch your world begin to change right away.)
Those are the only possibilities that I can see and know are possible.
Which of those do you think it is?
Peace,
RJ
P.S. You are going to LOVE the New Code, because it gives you the revolutionary roadmap that will trance-form your entire sense of self, WHILE it transforms your success in all areas of life.
Can’t wait, huh? 🙂
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I notice many aspiring seducers cannot go intimate with women, and they don’t even understand friendship with guys, I guess it’s correlate: instead, seeing and discovering the opportunity inside social relations, getting advantage of connections and appreciate people without strings or any hidden agenda it’s the shit
I think guys should learn to be sociable and approaching both men and women, of course going for sex only with hot girls 🙂
@A M
Many times I’ve said that a great way to get comfortable with meeting and conversating with women, is to raise your comfort level with people in general. So you’re spot-on.