With Women, It’s The Attitude That Counts: Confidence Tips That Work!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 16th, 2009

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video(which is #1 of 10 in a new series), I talk about how key your attitude is for success with women.

For most guys, there are 4 wrong attitudes they take on when it comes to approaching women. They rocket back and forth among them, usually settling on one or two as their default “favorites”.

1. Desperation-I’ve got to make this work.

2. Despair-I hope this works

3. Anger-Damn bitches. This had BETTER work.

4. Lust-I can’t wait to work this big pink steel into her.

In this video I outline the right attitude, which is not what you might expect at all.

Please give it a good viewing and comment below.

Peace and piece,

P.S. To get unshakeable and workable confidence with women that matches what feels right for you, check out my Nail Your Inner Game Program.

P.P.S. Already got confidence but want to bat way out of your league(or what you USED to think was out of your league?) Check out my Speed Seduction 3.0 program here.

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dwacon

It is all about a person's internal attitude. Change you mind and the rest will follow!

JQ

I got alot of info from this

2 point stuck

1. Learning attitude
2.1 women 1 vote (i like it)

Thanks

Mithra

Great stuff, Ross. It's not only society that's giving us this bad information, it's family members who have ALSO been programmed by society to provide bad information. As a friend of mine recently told me, "Why the hell didn't my father spend a couple hours teaching myself this stuff when I was young? I could have bipassed all this heartache."

Well, probably because he doesn't know any better either.

Anyhow, thanks for the video. I appreciate it.

Mark

Dear Ross, awsome teaching!! I really learned a lot out of it. I have the fear of approaching beautiful women in the street and other daytime environments mainly down to two reasons:

1) I feel hesitation that women will be disrupted or feel disturbed from my approach (if she's on the iPod, on the phone, reading a book, walking somewhere etc) and this would immediately set me off on the wrong foot. If the seduction ran cold as a result, it makes me feel that I didn't know enough material to do better with her, and therefore I feel hesitation to approach.

2) I feel that I don't know enough material to make a seduction work. With so much information out there I get overwhelmed and don't know what to focus on. Knowing where to focus my energy is something I learned from you!

I look forward very much to your other lessons!!

Thank you Ross

Mark

Ross Jeffries

Mark,

With regard to 1, I understand. But still, you are guessing. You really don't know HOW she will respond, so why don't you let reality tell you? It could well be that your fears and worries are completely made out of fairy-dust and cotton candy and have no basis in reality. .

And if you fear interrupting her, just pace that. Say, "excuse me for interrupting but I couldn't help noticing...."

2. Start small. Work up. Don't think in terms of "making a seduction work" but think in terms of enjoying the process of learning/building skill.

Hope this helps. Spread it around.

RJ

Tony

Very, very good and motivating thank you

Rudy

Really good. Is applicable to anything

m

Ross I'm not gona even start the compliment because it is already boring saying how incredibly good is your stuff, you talk a lot about having AUTHORITY in another's person world?!?!?!!?!
"Everyone know what authority is?"only a vage idea, when you refer to authority,respect in what tearms do you mean what flow of emotions between the two is here?

PS: it will be good to see a video featuring wich contects are in each product, like this video is reafered to x product, thank you Ross Jeffries

Paulina Want

Hi Ross: I am not your typical customer of your courses, since I am a woman. But being a mental health professional, I find that your material and your presentation to be very powerful. Since I have single guys as clients, I wanted to learn how to help them, and I am certainly getting an education.

Speaking strictly from a woman's perspective, I must tell you, your stuff is right on target.

Paulina

Ross Jeffries

Paulina, thanks. Did you write me that lovely email a few months back? That had to be you.

Email me privately and we'll get in touch and chat by phone:

sandworm77@ca.rr.com

Best...

Paulina

It would be my pleasure Ross.. I am not sure where "privately" is :-)

Paulina