Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Many smart guys who basically have their s&#( together still find themselves blocked.
Oftentimes the biggest, deepest block seems to be that feeling of having little self-worth and not deserving the things you really want.
This can impact even your success – you can have trouble sustaining a good thing even when you have it because you don’t feel good enough to have it (nice car, career success, awesome girl, etc.)
So chew on the following.
Have you ever considered how worthless, mostly, feelings of worthlessness are?
They serve no one and nothing… but…
…There Is Also A Cosmic Truth
Embedded In The S&#(!
Like a nice shiny piece of summer corn buried deep inside a piece of poop: MOST of the experiences we have in life are impermanent and don’t last.
That’s not a reflection on you at all. It is the case and part and parcel of how things are structured.
There is also an Aspect of Life that is everlasting and outside time.
Often “shame” or “worthlessness” is a corrupted view of a great truth: most things are impermanent, but at the same time, we all have one foot inside the Immortal.
Really, what we often seek, without naming it or being able to, is transcendence. The connecting in with That which is beyond locality or time and which is already the ground of who we are anyway as we move through the impermanence of life.
There is REAL suffering and REAL bliss in life.
Birth is blissful once you are delivered, but the process f@@king hurts; getting kicked out of the womb, squeezed with crushing pressure by the Cootchie of Life, being suffocated in the canal, coming out covered in mucus and goo, often choking on all sorts of body goop and fluids until it is cleared out, and then you are greeted with a SMACK on the ass and yet…
…What Relief! What Triumph!
After all, you survived and now here you are!
When you feel shame or lack of worth, ask, “inside of this, how much is a true view of the impermanence of life? And from the part of me that is already taking part in the Everlasting, how can I transmute, purify and redirect as energy for my growth and my vision, all of what used be felt energetically as shame and lack of worth?”
Do not be shamed that you came out of cootchie and will die and leave a sack of flesh shell. That’s not who you are, and the journey between is what keeps us entertained on the Everlasting side as we remain outside of linear time, always have and always will.
Peace and piece,
PR (aka RJ)
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Thanks, guy! The thing I really like about your stuff is that its oriented towards we, as men. Its not so easy sometimes and I appreciate your almost psychic candor.
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Im ready to attend this seminar with PJ aka RJ…this will be my first physical encounter with PJ…
Thanks Ross, this is exactly the kind of thing I needed to read today. Yesterday I had a particularly frustrating sarge: I was studying/getting to know a younger girl (she’s 19, I’m 27) from my class. I got some connection pattern languaging in, some palm rubbing (while explaining that it felt GOOD because there are a lot more nerve endings in her palm than in the back of her hand to indirectly show off how smart I am!) and also some commanding vibes, some emphatic vibes (“yeah I totally understand your reason for rejecting your parent’s Christian beliefs – its because you like things to make sense like science does, right? … yeah I feel the same way”) and some fun/playful vibes (I worked as magician before I heard of SS or went back to college).
Anyway, she offered to walk me out of the building when I had to go and I felt like kissing her but didn’t really know how to go about it. After an agonizing amount of hesitation I just went for it and she recoiled. The only thing I could do was diffuse the tension by reigniting the conversation we were having. When she hugged me goodbye it seemed like she might’ve half-considered going for a kiss but I can’t say for sure that this was anything more than wishful thinking on my part.
Just like after my last few dozen unsuccessful efforts, I’ve indulged in feelings of worthlessness despite knowing on some level that they’re not accurate OR useful. I’ve often wished I could dismiss them quicker and get my state back in order. Reading this helped a little. If I could bounce back from the state-disrupting frustration of an unsuccessful sarge in a few hours (or even a few minutes or *gasp!* a few seconds), I’m sure my whole game would improve much faster. Do I sound like someone who might need to also work some more on grounding myself? I’m hesitant to do too much grounding because I think it might take away some of the “thrill of the chase”…
From Lead into Gold.
PR,
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Do most, if not all people, feel these twisted thoughts of I don’t deserve good things (i.e., woman, luxury goods, career success) in life????
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DO you think some religions notion of a punishment in the next life for not adhering to their tenants is all really just man made tactics to better control the masses by threatening them to conform to a particular religious Worldview or suffer the consequences????
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This guy I’ve read called Jordan Maxwell, alot of people in LA are in to him, basically says that the super wealthy elites have invented most religions since Egyptian times and have used them as a tool to keep peeing on the pee ons. I don’t know or claim to know the answer but, I really dig hearing the opinion of a well read person like yourself.
Ross, I always enjoy your thoughts and I think this is one of your best ever. Thanks for the lift! Mike
Bravo! This is some deep stuff here, I look forward to more in this vein.