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    Brutus Thornapple July 14, 2017, 1:52 am

    The fact that it’s an “audition” is what causes me the most fear and hesitation in the first place.

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      Ross Jeffries July 14, 2017, 1:35 pm

      Which is why you must flip the script. Don’t let yourself be “interviewed”. Get her to tell you. Get her to hand you the keys to the door.

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    Miki August 12, 2017, 6:39 am

    Things like that can happend. You try meeting a girl, and she just doesn’t seem to flow with it. I always like to recall Ross’s saying “Invest in the SKILLS, not THIS woman”.

    One thing I noticed though, was that you said “fluff talk”. Fluff talk, in my experience, is part of a very inefficient autopilot. Based on the mindset of “I just have to keep talking”. When you think like that, it makes your mouth just say whatever comes up, instead of focusing on the EMOTIONS and FEELINGS you want her to feel, which are what will actually bring you the results.

    Thinking “I just have to keep talking” will make your result come and go merely based on luck, and more than often you will actually say things that will turn her down. Based on my experience..

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      Ross Jeffries August 13, 2017, 9:34 pm

      What you have to remember is if you come up to a woman and just start laying patterns on her, expecting her to follow your pre-determined path, that won’t work, either.

      “Fluff talk” needs to be strategic – you’re gaining intel based on her responses. You’re looking for her “trance words” in her responses.

      Everything is for a reason.

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