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    Sunil July 2, 2017, 6:51 pm

    Ross, how do you define acceptance confidence? In your opinion, how does acceptance confidence change our approach to women?

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    Joseph July 3, 2017, 12:40 am

    Your like a great therapist saying this to me. I wish I could’ve absorbed these wise and comforting words years ago it would’ve,e saved me so much pain. Frankly, the dreck head social programmers want everyone to be dumb docile sheep for the animal farm. It’s i basically hears you say in the past- how cool is it that men can have a place to share their fears and find solace in expressing them and relying on the concepts of clarity and informed enthusiasm theirs no need to wallow in sorrow but. Rather to learn and move forward. All the best Paul.

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      Ross Jeffries July 3, 2017, 7:43 am

      The important thing is you’re here now.

      As I say, “Up until now…”

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    michael July 3, 2017, 2:17 am

    hey Ross,
    I can get girls interested but they seem to lose interest the second or third time I meet them (general Interactions) -not actual dates.Can they detect my lack of sexual experience or my concealed eagerness?That old adage “strike while the iron is hot” has always repelled any woman that was initially interested.

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    Ektor July 3, 2017, 2:49 am

    Ross i follow you from a couple of years and this is with no doubt the best post i’ve ever read.

    I love how you dissect emotion and subtle emotion that drive our behaviors, slaving us.
    I really think that are the subtle things we don’t give attention that fuck it up everytime.

    Please keep up the good work. I highly appreciate it. 🙂

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    Zarathud The Incorrigible - Offender of The Faith July 3, 2017, 10:42 am

    Preach! And the reason for acceptance confidence is so you can go out and collect your bag of experience tokens that begin to assemble themselves into automatic competence…

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    Vranac July 3, 2017, 11:29 am

    Spot on! I expect too much of success in short a period of time and I keep beating myself over it, over and over again(+ sometimes I get a fealling the other guys have greater success with women). Up until now… Although I still am a bit shy when talking/engaging in conversations with women especialy in public places or even in company of people that are close to me. Do you know any methods for how to get rid or at least lower my shyness? (I meditate once a day for 30 min) Sometimes I feel I’m just too shy to “take what I want” when I clearly know I should make a move. I dont know why, maybe I want to look modest 😛 (which is a stupid excuse). btw. This is my first post to you and I really feel honored if you will atleast see it 🙂 I think what you are doing is incredible! Coming on your seminar in the future is a definite priority on my bucketlist!

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    The Bush With Legs July 7, 2017, 2:21 am

    Take the bold steps forward and later write down what happened.
    The pen is the tool of your mind.
    Just because you lost yours, doesn’t mean you can borrow mine.

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      Ross Jeffries July 8, 2017, 3:34 pm

      Journaling is very effective and accelerates your progress by showing you a timeline.

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