Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Recently, a student of mine asked me what to do when dealing with women who knew him before he became a Speed Seduction® Master.  In other words, back when he was an Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) who got in his own way when it came to succeeding with women.

Now that he’s speaking to them in ways that capture and excite their deepest emotions, aren’t they going to feel strange when they compare it to how he used to act with them? How they used to feel around him?

I immediately asked him,

“If you suddenly won the Euro Lottery and went from having no money
to having $500 million, would you worry about how other people adjusted to it?
Would they have a problem adjusting to it?”

I don’t think so.

In the same vein, how you present yourself to the world now is what matters most. Who you create yourself to be and how you communicate through that is infinitely more important than how others used to see you and even how you used to see yourself.

Remember, you alone control the vibe you put out to the world. Do this, and that hot chick from college who shot you down as an Average Frustrated Chump will quickly learn to see you as an Amazing Fascinating Champ.

I’ve been both. And I can tell you Amazing Fascinating Champ feels a whole hell of a lot better.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  Remember, it’s not about who you were then.  It’s about who you design yourself to be right now. All of this is completely under your control. Find out how here.

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