Dear Seeker of Success,
OK, so you’ve met a really hot woman, and things are “looking up”. She just put her coat on and you’re about to walk out with her – the adventure continues!
Just then…like the hammer hitting the anvil….
Her friend whispers something in her ear. Before you can say “But whaaaaa….?” this new woman gives you a curious look and says “I’m going to stay with my friend.”
It becomes clear within the next 30 seconds that you’re no longer part of the conversation and they’re waiting for you to get the hint that it’s time for you to skedaddle out of there.
Ok So…What The Hell Happened?!?!?!
First of all: if she changed her mind from wanting to leave with you, obviously something important happened to change that.
You will never know what her friend whispered in her ear, nor does it matter to you.
Let me ask some challenge questions:
- Did you interact at all with her friend, and if so, how?
- They were there together, correct? Did they have two cars or one? They may have been dependent on each other for a ride home.
- If this chick you met was with her best friend since second grade, why should she ditch her best friend at the bar to go home with you?
- Conversely, why should the friend of the girl you’re having fun with, left her friend leave? What’s the incentive for her to allow that?
- Did you misread any of the responses you were getting from her? Was the girl you were Sarging on waiting for her friend to “save her” from having to leave with you?
- If you’re a true seducer of women with plenty of choices, not just her, has she seen you with other women?
- What was your social status with her, other than being the random guy that wants a quick lay? She might have needed more social proof before taking the next step.
Remember: a critical component about mastering your girl-getting game is using the clues and vibe she gives you to pique her interest and show her the benefits of going on with you.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. My Nail Your Inner Game Course gets you an effective, sure way to learn from every situation, that gives you a “stealth charisma” that’s subtly attractive, completely undetectable, and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone … even that woman who “all of a sudden” seems to “lose interest.”
The same way you don´t cross the street without looking to both sides, you must keep track of the environment when you sarge… Her friends are also part of the environment and are usually a very important element on how the woman makes her mind. Aknowledging them is also a way to demonstrate your understanding of where your woman is and what are the circumstances in which she meets you. It´s a important part of demonstrating your authority in her world and simply ignoring the fact that they may have friends around may be interpreted as unconsiderate or even arrogant. That´s why beeing friendly wiith everyone at first is probably the best way to eliminate this kind of trouble, because then you establish rapport even with their friends and if you can demonstrate to your girl that you are a special kind of man, their friends will also see that…