Creating Her Desire To Be Seduced: Seduction Encouragement

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the things that makes your Seduction Language work well is your state.  If you are in a relaxed, alert, grounded state, with a fun and playful attitude, you will open up the receptivity of women and they will be in a place of wanting to respond.

In classical hypnosis, a big part of the study of the art is not just what you say, but creating response potential.

Now there are many things that create response potential and receptivity to being seduced.  But for the purposes of this lecture, I want to cover just one of them: YOUR STATE.

“State” Defined

I define state as a combination of:

1. Your physiology.  Meaning how you are breathing, the state of tension or relaxation in your musculature, your posture, your movement, your overall sense of alertness(example: being well rested and well fed as opposed to hungry and tired).
2. The direction of your attention.  Are you focused inward, on your internal dialog? Or are you focused outward, paying attention to the situation and the woman in front of you?
3. Your beliefs about what is possible. If you believe that you are going to fail no matter what you do, or that all women are just bitches and nothing will work then you are going to block yourself. If you believe that it’s possible that you can get much better results and that women are open to being seduced, you will naturally be in a more able place.
4. Your attitude.  This is similar to your beliefs but a bit different. Attitude is basically the meaning frame you put around what you are doing. If your meaning is, “I’ve got to make this work” or “This had better work” it is going to tighten you up and screw up what you put out.  A better attitude is to create a fun learning frame: “Let’s go have some fun and see what I can do in the world with this person”.
5. Your vibe. For lack of a better definition, I’ll define vibe as the overall “atmosphere” of emotion-based feeling you feel in your body, that in turn creates an “atmosphere” of feeling that the woman you are with will feel.

Changing Physiology

When students come to me for private coaching or are in seminar, I look to see what is the one element that can best get real change and leverage for them.

While I can help with each of the 5 elements above, often times it is a simple change in physiology that helps most.

Here’s The Formula

Improve breathing—->improve physiology—->improve state——>increase and improve a woman’s desire to be seduced and receptivity to your seduction language.

So here is a little assignment for you to assist you in creating a better physiology, which will in turn lead to a better state, which in turn will lead to women being more receptive to your seductive language.

1. Stand up.
2. Put your hand on your chest.
3. Inhale so that your chest pushes your hand outward.
4. Exhale so your hand moves inward with your chest.
5. Repeat 10 times.

Now we are going to switch breathing deeply into the belly

1. Remain standing.
2. Put your hand on your lower belly, between your belly button and your pubic area.
3. Inhale while pushing your belly out so your hand moves outward.  See if you can keep your belly soft while you do this. Don’t tighten the muscles.  Breathe into a soft belly.
4. Exhale by pulling your belly inward so your hand moves inward.
5. Repeat 10 times.

By learning to breathe into your belly you will create a more calm, centered, focused state.

For more help on building your focused, centered state, join me in London on July 30th and 31st.

Peace,

RJ