Dear Seeker of Success,
I’ve heard the objection many times.
Some people say that the girl-getting patterns and phrases I teach smart guys to use when getting a woman irresistibly aroused are so obvious that chances are, the guy will get “busted” and “shot down.”
Like, the use of emphasis and nonverbal cues that I teach you to use while saying “it’s on” and “below me” for example. I was asked this question by a student:
Many of your methods are so “obvious” that chicks can tell what a guy is doing, so he “gets caught” and she has a negative reaction.
For example, your method of stacking realities with quotes of alluring sexual content — she KNOWS what I’m doing and why I’m saying it, so she doesn’t buy into it when I do the “weasel phrases” or position it as something “someone else” saw or read someplace. No, she blames me for being a pervert.
How can I calibrate the interaction so I know if I will get a negative reaction? Can I counter-object and “save the Sarge”?
I’ll let two of my students answer this one.
“Yes, It Has A Name”
When the woman noticed his innuendo and asked what he was up to, with a friendly smile he matter-of-factly told her, “Right! It’s called ‘flirting’ and it’s what a man does when he meets a woman he’s into.”
(Note how even in his retort, he plants a suggestion.)
The woman who “caught him” shrugged and said with a little grin, “Oh ok…I was just asking.”
By staying true to who he is and what he gives to the world, this student was able to resume the Sarge without skipping a beat.
“I’m Doing It For Her”
During a conversation with a sexy woman about reality TV shows on getting women, another student mentioned my name.
The woman said, “Oh, I know who Ross Jeffries is. He’s one of those pickup artist dudes. Do you actually DO that stuff? Waaaaait a minnnute … you DO do that stuff! I can TELL!”
My student’s response: “As someone who knows what they want when they see it in front of them, doesn’t it make sense to get more of what you want? If I wanted a woman who is perfect for me and vice versa, wouldn’t I be doing both of us a favor by learning all there is to know about making you happy?”
She agreed and dropped the subject.
No, actually, I correct myself. She did ask about Speed Seduction® again….
At 3:00 AM, with a dreamy grin on her face, after a steaming-hot two-hour makeout session with the guy.
Yep, that’s when she asked.
Don’t Get Caught By The “Gotchas” –
Use Them To Score Instead!
Counter “getting caught” with truth and integrity and use my teaching to claim more of who you want in your life (and in your bed).
Peace and piece,
P.S. Using the amazing principle of “Participation Illusion”, you’ll be able to be as blatant, up-front, and totally balls-out and never have to worry about being “caught”. Strongly lead every step of the way, yet have her PERCEIVE she is an active co-participant reaching for what SHE craves to have!
With this principle – contained within Secrets of Hyper-Response and Core Attraction – never worry about “being caught” or “buyer’s remorse” again! Claim yours now!