Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,
I’ve heard the objection many times. Some people say that the girl-getting patterns and phrases I teach smart guys to use when getting a woman irresistibly aroused are so obvious that chances are, the guy will get “busted” and “shot down.”
Like, the use of emphasis and nonverbal cues that I teach you to use while saying “it’s on” and “below me” for example. Today I was asked this question by a student:
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Many of your methods are so “obvious” that chicks can tell what a guy is doing, so he “gets caught” and she has a negative reaction.
For example, your method of stacking realities with quotes of alluring sexual content — she KNOWS what I’m doing and why I’m saying it, so she doesn’t buy into it when I do the “weasel phrases” or position it as something “someone else” saw or read someplace. No, she blames me for being a pervert.
How can I calibrate the interaction so I know if I will get a negative reaction? Can I counter-object and “save the Sarge”?
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I’ll let two of my students answer this one.
At my Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar in Los Angeles, we discussed this question and one of my students said something I couldn’t argue about.
When the woman noticed his innuendo and asked what he was up to, with a friendly smile he matter-of-factly told her, “Right! It’s called ‘flirting’ and it’s what a man does when he meets a woman he’s into.” (Note how even in his retort, he plants a suggestion.)
The woman who “caught him” shrugged and said with a little grin, “Oh ok…I was just asking.” By staying true to who he is and what he gives to the world, this student was able to resume the Sarge without skipping a beat.
During a conversation with a sexy woman about reality TV shows on getting women, another student mentioned my name as a leading pick-up artist. The woman said, “Oh, I know who Ross Jeffries is. Do you actually DO that stuff? Waaaaait a minnnute … you DO do that stuff! I can TELL!”
My student’s response: “As someone who knows what they want when they see it in front of them, doesn’t it make sense to get more of what you want? If I wanted a woman who is perfect for me and vice versa, wouldn’t I be doing both of us a favor by learning all there is to know about making you happy?”
She agreed and dropped the subject.
No, actually, she asked about Speed Seduction® again.
At 3:00 AM, with a dreamy grin on her face, after a steaming-hot two-hour makeout session with the guy, is when she asked.
Don’t let little objections get in your way. Counter them with truth and integrity and use my teaching to claim more of who you want in your life (and in your bed).
Peace and piece,
- RJ
P.S. With what I teach you throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS of my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System, you’ll remain calmly in control as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation - even when she catches you in the act!
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I agree with truth and integrity, and these responses seem fine to me when “caught” flirting.
But what about the lies you recommend to start out things like The Discovery Channel Pattern? Since the man using this pattern almost certainly did not watch a Discovery Channel show about roller coasters, this pattern has a lie built-in. And most of your examples of using quotes involve lies as well, which encourages your students to ruthlessly lie to get what they want in life, to create trust with rapport and using her words, and then to violate that trust by lying.
Truly great communicators are flexible enough to communicate what they want with honesty, setting a solid foundation for mature relating. And true magicians know that honesty and integrity are the most powerful tools for infusing one's words with true Power.
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