Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
If I had a nickel for every woman who, right prior to dropping her drawers, told me something like, “I’m not going to sleep with you tonight” or “Nothing’s going to happen” or “I’m not attracted to you”……
…I’d Be Fucking Rich!
Come to think of it, I’m doing pretty well.
Which means one thing, as I’ve been saying for years.
There’s what women say they want.
There’s what women think they want.
And then there’s the only thing that really counts which is…
…What Women Actually Respond To!
Now there are just a few, crucial, important conclusions that a smart guy(I hope that’s you or at least that’s where you are headed) should reach from all this.
1) Never take advice on getting laid, “dating”, success with women, from a female friend, co-worker, relative, etc.
Because they will tell you what they would ideally LIKE to find attractive in a man, as opposed to what they actually respond to in the real world.
Now look; I am NOT saying that these women are deliberately lying as I don’t think that’s the case at all.
What I am saying is that people, in general. tend to want to believe things about themselves that would put them in the best light, not only to others, but to themselves in their own self-reflection..
Tons of women want to believe they would choose a “nice respectful guy”, when in fact, in their actual lives, these ladies kick guys like this in the teeth and the ego so often, it’s nothing short of brutal in its frequency and intensity.
(Hey-I’m sorry if this truth upsets you. But it’s reality. And you either recognize reality or try to go against it, in which case it will automatically work against you. Don’t shoot the messenger, but instead, focus in on the message, because before I discovered what actually worked with women, I was on the receiving end of this crap for years. I’m glad I finally awakened to reality.)
Onward to the next truth.
2) You will learn what you most need to know about where you stand with a woman by watching what she does with her vagina…
...Instead Of Listening To What She Says With Her Mouth
Now listen; what I’m saying here is actually quite simple to understand. And you may be thinking, “I already know that, RJ”.
Ok. Fair enough.
But I’ve found in more than two decades of teaching and doing change work with people, that the obvious and simple is often overlooked.
So remember what I said in my 1988 classic book, “How To Get The Women You Desire Into Bed: A Down And Dirty Guide To Dating And Seduction For The Man Who’s Fed Up With Being Mr. Nice Guy” (yes, that’s a link to download the PDF right now – no s$226rt)
“You Never Know Where You Stand With A Woman Until You Make That First, Serious, Physical Move”
My friend, it was true before I wrote it in 1988. It’s still true today. And it will be true when both you and I are long gone and dust.
This all leads us to a third important truth/lesson/conclusion.
3) Don’t take a woman as any kind of serious prospect until after you’ve banged her.
What’s that you say?
You’d never build up a big emotional attachment to a woman, spend weeks or months fantasizing about her, telling your friend how great she is and how much you are into her?
Don’t be too sure.
Don’t be too sure.
Don’t be too sure.
I’ve seen this happen time and again, especially with guys who are terribly lonely because they haven’t been with a woman in quite a while.
Yes; it sure takes discipline and an alertness to do what works when things have not worked well in a long time.
But it’s necessary. And when you do what works, no matter what your first instinct may be, then…
…Moist Pink Abundance Is Yours To Command!
And that sure beats a poke in the eye, doesn’t it?
Peace and piece,
P.S. If you’ve found this post has really hit a nerve, stirred you up, perhaps even pissed you off, could you do me a big favor?
I’m sure you know at least one (probably more) guy who needs to receive this message right between his eyes.
So could you, without spamming, send them the link to this blog post?
I’ll make it easy:
Just copy and paste this - http://www.seduction.com/blog/if-i-had-a-nickel/ – and send it off in an email or text.
Because no one deserves to go through the ass-kicking guys get when take what women SAY seriously on this issue.