Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
I’ve said it before and I’ll keep saying it: meeting women online sucks.
How do you capture a woman’s vibe? How do you use vocal intonations and verbal and nonverbal cues that make the language patterns powerful through a little naughty box with typed words? Is that really her in the pics?
On the other hand, I get it – in this 24/7, hectic, overwhelm world where sometimes it’s hard to get out of the office enough to Sarge, the chat rooms and dating sites let you interact with women without having to lift more than a finger or two. It’s tempting and easy.
The true power of Speed Seduction® is your ability to adapt the teachings to the specific situation you have with a woman right now. Many of my students are adapting the teachings to online dating, finding and meeting attractive women. Hell, I’ve done some “sexy time chats” myself – there’s a module on this in the Coaching Program.
To help you out, based on what I’m seeing my students do successfully to meet women online I’ve compiled…
Some Basic Principles To Move Her From
Naughty Box To Naughty Girl (aka “It’s On”)
Again, I don’t recommend meeting women online, but I can condone a key premise: get her out from behind the keyboard and in front of you in a live environment.
How, you ask?
First, keep in mind: online dating sites are AFC minefields. Rise above the static and get her curious about you. Know that the AFCs on that site are bombarding her with “hey whats up” and “what you doin tonite” and “your hot can i see a pic” and “u got a cam”. You don’t have to outrun the bear, just the other runner.
As a simple illustration: one of my students gets the online ladies’ attention by simply chatting in complete sentences with correct capitalization, punctuation, spelling, and structure. (Think YOU could pull this off?) He comes across as “brainy, sophisticated, mature” for chicks who are into that, such as those naughty-nerdy and bored-housewife types who read erotica and yearn to try those things out with a “mature man.”
Tap into her sense of adventure or pique her curiosity using basic language patterns such as the one about packing a suitcase, or maybe a quiz or two.
Keep it light, so you don’t come across as a perv AND you still have plenty on tap for the in-person meet where your vocal intonations and touch will be in play to get her hot and wet.
While The Creepo AFCs Badger Her…
…about what turns her on, you have her wanting to learn more about you because you’re so “unique” and “not like those other pervs”.
You’ll get her rapt attention while the other bozos get “k”, “cool”, “lmao” – and “bye” – until they stop bugging her and nav over to the porn sites for a quickie with Rosie.
Now I ask: if the chat starts going well and it seems like, after 20 or 25 minutes, you two are hitting it off…
I’ll share a simple but powerful way of dealing with that, tomorrow.
Peace and piece,
PR (aka RJ)
P.S. What you have to look forward to: when you meet online chicks person, it’s “go” time to have a seemingly innocent, regular conversation that gets her hot and bothered, like I teach in Speed Seduction® 3.0.