Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
I’ve said it before and I’ll keep saying it: meeting women online sucks.
How do you capture a woman’s vibe? How do you use vocal intonations and verbal and nonverbal cues that make the language patterns powerful through a little naughty box with typed words? Is that really her in the pics?
On the other hand, I get it – in this 24/7, hectic, overwhelm world where sometimes it’s hard to get out of the office enough to Sarge, the chat rooms and dating sites let you interact with women without having to lift more than a finger or two. It’s tempting and easy.
The true power of Speed Seduction® is your ability to adapt the teachings to the specific situation you have with a woman right now. Many of my students are adapting the teachings to online dating, finding and meeting attractive women. Hell, I’ve done some “sexy time chats” myself – there’s a module on this in the Coaching Program.
To help you out, based on what I’m seeing my students do successfully to meet women online I’ve compiled…
Some Basic Principles To Move Her From
Naughty Box To Naughty Girl (aka “It’s On”)
Again, I don’t recommend meeting women online, but I can condone a key premise: get her out from behind the keyboard and in front of you in a live environment.
How, you ask?
First, keep in mind: online dating sites are AFC minefields. Rise above the static and get her curious about you. Know that the AFCs on that site are bombarding her with “hey whats up” and “what you doin tonite” and “your hot can i see a pic” and “u got a cam”. You don’t have to outrun the bear, just the other runner.
As a simple illustration: one of my students gets the online ladies’ attention by simply chatting in complete sentences with correct capitalization, punctuation, spelling, and structure. (Think YOU could pull this off?) He comes across as “brainy, sophisticated, mature” for chicks who are into that, such as those naughty-nerdy and bored-housewife types who read erotica and yearn to try those things out with a “mature man.”
Tap into her sense of adventure or pique her curiosity using basic language patterns such as the one about packing a suitcase, or maybe a quiz or two.
Keep it light, so you don’t come across as a perv AND you still have plenty on tap for the in-person meet where your vocal intonations and touch will be in play to get her hot and wet.
While The Creepo AFCs Badger Her…
…about what turns her on, you have her wanting to learn more about you because you’re so “unique” and “not like those other pervs”.
You’ll get her rapt attention while the other bozos get “k”, “cool”, “lmao” – and “bye” – until they stop bugging her and nav over to the porn sites for a quickie with Rosie.
Now I ask: if the chat starts going well and it seems like, after 20 or 25 minutes, you two are hitting it off…
I’ll share a simple but powerful way of dealing with that, tomorrow.
Peace and piece,
PR (aka RJ)
P.S. What you have to look forward to: when you meet online chicks person, it’s “go” time to have a seemingly innocent, regular conversation that gets her hot and bothered, like I teach in Speed Seduction® 3.0.
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Paul(Ross), I have adapted my intro online to woman I am interested in very successfully using languaging that uses your SS principles. While it does work very well to distinguish me from the AFC online, and gets me through the door, I feel it is so important to keep the online contact short and sweet, have 1 or 2 short phone calls so they can hear your voice and tonality, and then set up a time to meet in person as soon as possible. Anyone not interested at this point isn’t interested anyway. Then you meet her in person, and she is already comfortable with you and much more receptive to any SS techniques you share with her, and usually able to close the deal very soon after. As long as you get them imagining and intrigued by you in the beginning, the in person meet up is usually a success if you want it to be.
Thanks for your genius,
Fred
The beauty of SS is meeting a hb9 at the shopping mall: fuck the dating sites, there she gets billions of messages and escape after a few minutes;
What about the old lesson Always Be Sarging?
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I tried internet dateing what a disaster that was one girl even told me I had the gift of the gab but they all just seemed to be using it as a cheap form of entertainment.On some sites the girls get membership for free while guys pay through the nose to try and impress some girl who’s either not interested or already in a serious relationship.But hey if it works for others best of luck.
Ross I use the belief “Speaking my truth..” with the women who don’t talk in an interesting way and I challenge them on it. I have said this to many women “Why don’t you have something more original and intersting to say?” and I can say that because I’m pretty loaded with intereting stories and a sense of humour to share. Sometimes they probably get offended and dont reply but sometimes they do and either way I’m happy that I’m at least on supplicationg and putting up with that crappy word “k” over and over again! And a story for you. I met this chick on Facebook but I kknew her from 10 years before. We lost touch and found each other on FB. The first few times I chatted with her she’d always seem to be in a hurry and before I could say something she would go. I really thought that she is being annoyed by so many AFC’s online that she has given up hope and probably seeing me as the same. But one day she seemed to have more time ad talked more than 5 minutes with me after which I told her a real story about a bird who chose to build a nest in my house, laid her eggs and the babies that hatched out! In between we even talked about the weather which was pretty sultry and I said, “Yeahh it makes you feel pretty hot and wet doesn’t it?” and she seemed to like it! I mean whenever I got an opportunity to slip in a sexual metaphor in between our conversation I did! Then she got hooked, and we ended up talking for more than an hour. In the end she said, “thank God! You’re such an interesting and decent guy”. After one more chat she said, “Please buzz me whenever you are free”, and I asked her how did she suggest I do that and she took my number and gave hers and after that we texted for a while and she called me after a few days. She lives in a different city and I’m really busy with my exams and stuff at the moment so taking it light, but thats just thought it might be a story relevant to the topic so shared it.
PS I hve a question which is confusing me a bit. I met this woman in the real world and we went for coffee where guess what! I didnt even have to do patterns and she already seemed to be pretty intrigued by what I learnt in SS. But of course I didnt quote the source but we talked about spiritulity and meditation and I she was quite fascinated by that alone! Even invited me to dinner the next day. Anyway I couldnt go for the dinner as I fell ill and then had to return back to my city. Now this girl said she is really thinking about coming to my city to see me. Then I texted her and my text was pretty elaborate and she texted me a really short one of just 5 words saying , “Fine, Thanks. Enjoy home! Regards”, and I asked her why she sent me such a short text and was my text that boring to read. She hasn’t replied and I haven’t called her, with the attitude, “If a woman wants me a little bit….” But I really have a desire to talk to her because our initial conversation as well on the phone was really wonderful and we both hit it off very well! Do u think I should just be willing to walk away if she doesnt text back or at some point calling her and telling her that I didnt understand her response and did I say something to offend her might work? I really want to do both and thats why I ask you this.
Its nice and romantic if you can see the person you chatted and can talk too.
@Meagan – correct. Though I personally don’t recommend it, in today’s world online dating is pervasive. My point is that online dating sites can be used as a source for meeting people, but they are not a platform for seduction. The goal is to get the in person meet.