Dear Seeker of Success,
Our journey has shown us how “shutting down” is an incorrect phrase, the power of metaphors, what’s going on in your mind – and hers., and the physiological/energetic aspects including how to “amp down”.
Building on what we covered last time, there’s something very important I’m telling you NOT to do:
I’m telling you not to pump yourself up with confidence and say, “Yes, that hot babe is mine!”
While this tactic (called “rehearsal confidence”) can work for some guys in some scenarios, if you add in the physiological overcharge that can come from seeing a super-hot woman, your physiology will likely wipe out, overwrite and overcome anything you simply rehearse in your head.
Rehearsing in your head alone will not be enough, in this case.
Now, as we wrap up, let’s get into the cognitive piece.
To Get Really Good, Rehearse Suck-Cess Through Her Eyes With This Visioning Exercise
Imagine that you’re looking at yourself through her eyes. Imagine you’re standing inside her body looking out through her eyes at you.
Then, since we’re dealing with physiological overcharge, feel a little of her rush of excitement as she feels a bit of a thrill seeing you.
Just a little bit. Not overwhelming. Not like you feel her coochie dripping down her legs.
(One of the mistakes guys make is that they try to completely overload a woman’s physiology, her neurology. You want to light it up, not short it out)
Hear her voice in her mind saying, “Mmm, that guy is cute!”
Then imagine that you’re inside her mind. Imagine her picturing herself walking over to talk to you. You’re seeing what she’s visualizing. You’re psychically leading her by getting inside her mind and initiating and engaging her thought processes for her.
The Golden Key To Making This Part Work Is Very Subtle Intent
The following is vital – in fact I can’t tell you how important this clue is:
The hotter the woman, the more subtle you can be.
The hotter the woman, the more power being subtle has.
By “subtle,” I mean it’s very low amperage, very low wattage.
It’s not like “pant, pant.”
Just a little bit of that intent is all you need.
And finally:
You’re Not Going To Ram Open The Doors To Beautiful Women. You’re Just Going To Nudge The Door A Little Bit
If the hinges are properly oiled, her door will swing right open in a way that feels great for her.
And that sure beats a poke in the eye.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Understanding and changing your personal metaphor allows you to make contact with, and look deeply into, the depths of your unconscious and the heights of your super-conscious mind. It automatically takes all of your stumbling blocks and turns them into stepping stones.
Let’s get you there when you join us in London on September 8th and 9th.
Testing is a good example of how seeing it from her side of a role reversal changes the meaning completely.
@Zarathud
Another student noted that for him, this technique makes him think (his words): “Is she REALLY such a bitch that she’s going to look at me and lash out just because I said hello?”
Since 90-some percent of women wouldn’t stoop to such depths, it takes a lot of the edge off and increases his confidence.
Would it be a good thing to use pictures of women to help visualize. By this, I mean head shots where they are usually smiling and/or looking intrigued?
@Mike
It COULD be. But be real careful about “theming” and assigning energy to a photo. If you find yourself wanting to wrestle Jimmy, stop the visualization, that’s the wrong kind of energy for this exercise.
Hi Ross,
I know that I have to Practice and apply the stuffs that i have learn in the real world with real women to see improvement. So I decided to follow your 90 days plan that you shared in your “secret of speed seduction mastery” program. But when I see those girls right in front of me I start to make excuses and I say to myself “ok I’m not in a good mood… I will start my practice from tomorrow”. What can I do to make sure it doesn’t happen again ? And really start my practice.
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There are a lot of possible explanations; perhaps some feedback in the group could assist.
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