Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,
The other day I received this very interesting e-mail from a student of mine.
Seems something keeps happening that changes women from being all excited and bothered about him, to suddenly turning colder than salted salmon on a Siberian scooner on the second Sunday in January. Here goes:
Ross, was wondering if you could shed light on something here. I’m regularly meeting women – out and about, in the overpriced coffee shops, at my favourite hangout – all the good places to meet women where the getting is good and the pickings are ripe.
As I get to know women, one way or another the subject of Facebook comes up. Next thing you know, we become “friends” on Facebook. And that’s usually about the last thing that happens.
Things tends to come to a shuddering halt. It’s like this Facebook is a buzz kill for my Sarging. Like….Facebook is c#&$blocking me! The woman will ask if we can be “friends” on Facebook. What am I to do, say no? And if I do, how do I say it?
Question: how is adding a woman to your Facebook list a way of capturing her emotions and energy and directing them down a path that leads to pure passion and pleasure?
You gonna take her to the movies to see Farm Wars, and then have a steaming hot make-out session with her at her place back in Mafiaville, then post to her Wall that you enjoyed hanging out with her?
Remember: “dating” is what you do with women you’re already sleeping with. Being on Facebook together is what dating couples do. Until you’ve given her a ride on your baloney pony, skip the dating rituals.
When you’re THIS close to banging her, don’t go off on tangents about Facebook. She’s not likely to say “I’m DYING to go home with you, but I only f@@k men on my Friends list, so can you add me first?”
Flip side – when you’re working a Sarge and she starts telling you about her friends’ status messages and wall posts, nod and say “that’s cool” – and get back to what a Seduction Master does, without further ado.
Peace and piece,
P.S. Over the past 20 years as a Seduction teacher, I’ve peered deep down into the code of how women think, feel and move their way through their subjective emotional world. And one place you’re NOT going to find a whole lot of that is in her Facebook status updates.
But you WILL find a lot of insights and practical applications of the “operating system” and “machine language” of the female body and mind inside Rapid and Total Success With Women…