Dear Seeker of Success,
An interesting nuance about how human emotions work, how they impact our thoughts and behaviors, is the similarities between these emotions with respect to where they come from and how they impact us.
For example, let’s look at Fear and Excitement.
Seemingly two completely opposite reactions, right? Well, yes and no.
Physiologically, there’s not much difference.
Both raise your pulse.
The difference is in how your emotional energy flows and how they make you FEEL.
When you experience fear, the energy is flowing inward. It inhibits you, stops you dead in your tracks, compresses you so you warily hunker down within your comfort zone.
That sultry vixen in the little black dress who you’ve had your eye on from the moment you walked in will never know what she’s missing because you won’t approach her and let her know.
Excitement, on the other hand, is an outward flow of energy. This is an outpouring of exuberant vibe, a sense of liberation, a groundswell of unstoppable confidence that pushes you to climb to new heights.
Excitement is what will have that little black dress she’s wearing at the moment, flung casually on the floor next to your bed in about an hour or so.
They’re Both Forms Of Arousal:
It’s All About How You Process It
Think of it like this: physiologically, fear and excitement are both forms of arousal.
Fear has a “negative” emotional component, excitement is very “positive”, but they are otherwise very, very similar. You probably know how to label them differently, based on the context you are in right now, and also your past experiences.
If you had a history of past experiences of banging lots of beautiful women, it’s unlikely another HB10 would cause you fear, but
You Almost Definitely Will Get Excited
About Nailing Her
If your mind is full of clutter, fear, and suppression because you view all women through the lens of the first girl who refused to dance with you in junior high while her friends joined her in laughing at you for asking, then your pulse will still race…..
….but from your internal defense mechanisms “bracing you” for another assault from a bitch-pack.
See the difference?
It’s often a very SUBTLE difference so it’s important to focus on what sort of arousal you’re dealing with.
Peace,
RJ
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Interesting way of managing emotions.
Good article, makes a lot of sense.
@JT
Seeing these subtleties can be very powerful and make very major shifts, very easy to bring about.
thanks Ross !
these are great materials indeed
seismic
@Seismic
A very subtle yet powerful concept.
I’m upset you didn’t use the roller coaster analogy where people label their heart pounding and the heavy breathing as excitement until they hear a bolt shear and feel the track bend and at that moment decided to label the same physiological response as ‘fear.’
@Saul
That’s a similar thing in some respects
Actually, this simple distinction is extremely powerful, so clarifying that I am surprised that I did not see it. This really helps. Thank you and a belated Happy Birthday.
@Paul
Thanks for your kind wishes! 🙂
Yes, it’s a very subtle thing that took a while even for me to see!
Ross,
This is a brilliant observation.
How about teaching us how to fish such gems analytically ourselves. Do these insights just come to you or you have a process to uncover them?
Lastly, what exactly goes on in her mind at that moment? Does her heartbeat raise too and can she sense the man’s state?
Gaurav