Dear Seeker of Success,
I think just about every smart guy out there knows what it’s like when his Sarge is derailed – either within the first 30 seconds, or when he’s just 30 seconds from f@@king her brains out – but then she says the “B” word.
You know which “B” word… as in, “I have a Boyfriend.”
In my teachings on how to approach women, I go in-depth on patterns such as the “Boyfriend Destroyer“.
Sometimes, though, the chick is all but outright begging you to persuade her to dump her “borefriend”, or at least forget him for a while.
Not sure what to do? Here’s a student facing this issue:
I need help, Ross. I’ve been Sarging this amazing hottie. She’s incredible. Oh man. she has wonderful qualities – successful, happy, unabused, low-maintenance, intelligent.
But she’s with this borefriend.
Here’s the thing though – according to her, she’s never actually been in love!!
In my Sarging, I’ve been exploring with her some of the values she sees herself to be in a state of ‘love’. She says, ‘vulnerability’! She is one who never wants to be vulnerable in normal life, and will spend hours into the night making herself bulletproof in her presentations and her work. But she expects that she needs to be vulnerable to a man, before she will get to the next level of ‘love’ via being vulnerable to this partner.
Let me digress for one second.
When you’re working too hard and not getting anywhere, consider that it’s possible to let 80% of the seduction be powered by the information and responses SHE gives you.
That being said, I think she’s already given you a lot to work from.
So let me challenge your thinking.
One of the mistakes in your approach is you are going to try to give her an experience she has never had before … being in love … in order to get her away from her current “borefriend”.
You might be working too hard here.
What if you just had to be a bit more tempting…a bit more exciting…a bit more tasty…a bit more aggressive…a bit more whatever, than him?
Think about all you’ve learned thus far and how to use it.
P.S. If you already know what’s on her mind, how her mind works…if she’s already TOLD YOU WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW TO GET HER IN BED…why are you still trying to figure it out?
That’s like pulling an all-nighter for your midterm after the TA you’ve been nailing already gave you the answers.
She’s not in love with this “borefriend” of hers, and she’s handed you the keys to her door.
Now it’s time to get her soaking herself until she can’t take it anymore and ditches him for you.
Let me show you how.