“I Got Hauled Before The Grand Inquisition!”

Dear Seeker of Success,

When you make the transition from Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) to Amazing Fascinating Champ who approaches, attracts and succeeds with the hottest, most desirable women, you become a powerful seduction master who refuses to resort to what I call the “6 Bs”

• Bullying
• Begging
• Buying,
• BS
• Booze,
• Biceps

in your pursuit of happiness.

This doesn’t mean that the women you used to settle for – the ones you “accidentally” attracted – won’t still “slip under radar.”

A student of mine thought he was picking up a hottie for a fun adventure, and instead found himself seated before the Grand Inquisition.

Check out this “horror story”:

Saturday night I went to meet a woman I picked up at a local club a few nights earlier. I was going to meet her at her friend’s house, and me and her were going off for a “night on the town.” It was going to be a night she would remember for the rest of her life. I was in my “zone,” ready to claim what was mine.

So I get to her friend’s house. I’m ready to get going but my date wants me to meet “the family” first. I figured I’d spend a minute doing “nice to meet you” and then me and my date would be on our way. Next thing I know, I’m sitting on their porch. My date, her friend, her friend’s niece, and their neighbor are sitting on the porch swing, with me seated on a chair opposite. The friend, niece, and neighbor are giving me the third degree trying to find out if I am psycho or something.

This was NOT the “hard time” I expected tonight.

After about an hour of this nonsense “the family” left, and it was finally me and my date alone. She invited me to “join us at a local bar”. I know the place – it’s a dump where I wouldn’t be caught dead. I said “raincheck” and she said, “I’m sorry they put you through this, they just look out for me. Next time, we’ll go out and it will be just me and you.” So we set the next date and time and I was on my way.

You know, one of the standards I have for women is that she be assertive, strong, and not make life decisions based on what others tell her to do. I thought this was her, but I’m not so sure now. She’s really hot and I enjoyed the first night I met her and our phone conversations. I do want to see her again, but how do I make sure I don’t have to sit through another torture session to be with her?

RJ here. She’s sorry about what “they” put you through?

Huh?

Let me tell you what you already know, whether or not you see it right in front of you in this moment.

First of all, it wasn’t THEY. It was SHE who put you through it.

I don’t have to point this out but I will anyway.

And if you would have gone to that s&$%hole with “us” (you caught that, which is why you put it in quotes) you would have gotten more of the same from more “friends” of hers who “happened” to be there.

You would probably have gotten in a fistfight – her way of finding out if you could “protect” her if you were her “boyfriend”.

You saw this coming, that’s why you called “raincheck”.

Good On You, For That!

If she was currently capable of thinking and acting independently, she wouldn’t have brought you to her friend’s house. On the outside, she’s a juicy, delicious goddess-woman who knows how to make you laugh.

But her behaviour showed a high-school girl trying to decide if her “popularity level” would go up or down if she was seen talking to you in the hall, much less making out with you at the pep rally.

Next time you are brought before the Grand Inquisition, do this: fake an urgent call on your cell phone, plead “emergency” and get out of there.

Or Better Yet… Don’t.

Try this instead:

Stand up, say you need to go, don’t explain why, and walk out.

Let “them” know that you ain’t playing THEIR games.

And since the night’s still young, find yourself another hottie and hit a grand slam.

In the meantime, call her now and call next weekend off.

Peace, piece, and not pieces,

RJ

P.S. What if you had an effective, sure way to learn from every situation (like this one), that you could develop a “stealth charisma” that was subtly attractive, completely undetectable, and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone?

That you could use to “shut down” these Grand Inquisitions within THIRTY SECONDS and let her know that she is THIS CLOSE to you walking out forever if she doesn’t drop her game?

All of these concepts, put together, lay within the 5 Sarge-turbocharging courses that, put together, comprise Rapid and Total Success with Women.