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    jeremy morris December 20, 2012, 10:34 am

    yes, but the speed seducer would get her to talk about her experience, what she likes about singing, how free it makes her feel, how important it is to really connect with that passion, how exciting it is when you can just let go, ect…and then link those positive feelings to..lo and behold…him…! perhaps this is why I am obsessed with speed seduction….lol

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      Ross Jeffries December 22, 2012, 10:34 am


      Thou art not far from the Kingdom of Sarge. But you need to add in sexualizing the conversation as you feed it back to her.

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    Justin December 20, 2012, 11:26 am

    Thanks Ross, It’s easy to forget to ask those questions and why they are so important. I thought about it now and I already know what I would ask and what I would say in response.

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    Salvador December 20, 2012, 12:59 pm

    I would say: “oh really…well, i have to tell you that sounds very interesting, in fact i know that as a singer you face certain challenges, but what i’m really interested in is…what is the most fullfilling thing that you find about singing? What is the thing that you most enjoy about singing? What is about singing that attracts you so much?”

    Then i would listen to her trance words, and pay attention to her self-anchors. After this i would validate what she just said and use that information and link it to me.

    That’s Speed Seduction.

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      Ross Jeffries December 22, 2012, 10:33 am


      Yes, but when you feed it back, make sure you add in some sexual metaphor and turn up your own sexual vibe just a TINY bit. Speak a little slower, a little softer, with a few pauses…just a tint of a tad of a hint of trance…add in a soft stroke of hand or arm..or if she appears receptive, face…and watch!

      I call this the path of sexualized curiousity. It’s covered in my first new course in 6 years, which we’ll be releasing soon. Watch for details.

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        Salvador December 22, 2012, 4:15 pm

        Thanks Ross, adding the soft stroke of hand arm is brilliant. This is the first time I realize it. Time to try it out!

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    A M December 20, 2012, 3:16 pm

    What’s the answer?
    Elicit values and interaction, find out the challenge and relative trance-words, anchor the mic to the cock and speak of the most interesting program on Gangnam Style?

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    Zarathud December 20, 2012, 6:31 pm

    Is that a vodka bottle on the table?

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      Ross Jeffries December 22, 2012, 10:30 am

      @Z No, I don’t drink alcohol.

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