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    Carl Willoughby February 7, 2013, 8:30 am

    I think your interpretation of the letter is spot-on. I’d be interested to see how you respond and whether or not your response nets your desired result.
    – Best Wishes

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    Maczilla February 7, 2013, 12:14 pm

    You are indeed a genius. I need to master redirecting negative energy into a positive response. It is something I struggle with. Can’t wait for part two!

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    Jerry February 7, 2013, 12:33 pm

    Ross, I really wish that you did take into account those lessons of your old friend Frank. Of course with your superb language skills she was probably in for a shocker, a good shocker that is 😉

    Wishing you well.

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    Art February 7, 2013, 1:35 pm

    wow, really looking forward to the response and the outcome you get

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    João February 7, 2013, 5:30 pm

    Hello Mr. Ross,

    When I read the email that M wrote I almost could not believe it, because it happened to me with a girl recently. She spent nights talking to me, we got to hang out together a few times (she invited me to do that) and she always wanted me to pay her attention. I am very skeptical but her attitudes made me believe that she liked me. But when it came to the time when I said that wanted something more than friendship, she gave me the talk that I was a good friend and that now she could not start a relationship because she had a boyfriend etc… a similar talk just like that email.

    Now one month later, she break up with her boyfriend and continues to want my attention what should I do and what does she want?

    Best Regards,
    João

    P.S Sorry for my English, hope you understand it all

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      David February 8, 2013, 9:57 am

      One month later, she wants ATTENTION. And You just happen to be the guy she can get it from because she knows you’re the ‘GOOD FRIEND’ that will. BUT, the moment she get’s back with him (and eventually she will because she’s still in love with him) you’ll get the pink slip “LJBF” or “Dear Joao, I LOVE my Ex. let me tell you what happened…”

      Joao, it’s a WASTE of your valuable time and she’s NOT entitled to treat you as if you’re her Attention Give-her and Support Champion. Girls have girlfriends for that. Or they find guys like you that they know would be willing; and believe me, she knows. Just the fact that you’ve been considering the idea, gives it away. Not to put you down, it’s for your to become aware of that behavior and do something about it to change it.

      There are other women out there who are ready and opened for someone to give them what no other guy, up until now, YOU can. SS offers you that chance others don’t have.

      DO yourself the favor and be being open to what those other women are ready for and to offer you.

      Of course, you’ll discover a whole new world of possibilities and opportunities waiting for you… and maybe even worth to, Joao, consider that. Just a thought.

      It’s a thought worth finding out and thinking just how it can make a really great difference.

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    A M February 9, 2013, 2:34 am

    Maybe you both had sex yet, but you forgot it…

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    Joe February 9, 2013, 4:34 pm

    Hm. Maybe “I need to focus on me…”, equals a simple way of saying: “I judge my other personal emotional needs to outweigh my drive for romance (based on how I see you and feel about that).”

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    Steve February 10, 2013, 9:59 pm

    Wow, this is some of the best and most over looked technology. Some times I think that we spend most of lives thinking the entire “beggars shouldn’t be choosers” life, and that whatever kind of attention from any of the opposite sex that you get is the best; that we do not owe ourselves the chance for happiness. I’m very proud to find someone brave enough to challenge women and empower men in a very intelligent and resourceful manner. Rather than following what society tells men think, it’s great to see someone show people a better way.

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