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    Adam October 8, 2010, 10:36 am

    When you are doing this, are you sliding your hand up and down or are you grasping her neck with the palm of your hand? I’ve seen you do this multiple times but still do not understand the motion the hand has to do.

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      Ross Jeffries October 8, 2010, 12:11 pm


      I’m sliding.


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    Joseph October 8, 2010, 11:12 am

    Good info Ross. It looks like a woman would get turned on by this technique.

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    Nick October 8, 2010, 11:28 am

    I like this technique and have used it often since I saw your arrousal video. For me what I have experienced is an increased desire for more touch and usually they want a longer massage.

    They deffinately experience pleasure from this having used it on more than a few women. So it is a very good technique to use also the hand version you teach I will employ when looking at their palms.

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    Michael October 8, 2010, 11:07 pm

    Great way to teach us these touchings. Everyone learns better and faster by watching and listening. Keep bringing these videos in. Thanks.

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    Jason Harris October 9, 2010, 1:18 pm

    Hey Ross, you always have great informational videos. I have one request could you do a close up on your hand and the motions it does on her neck?


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    rus September 27, 2012, 1:09 pm


    …your sliding…

    …Huh..Well it’s no wonder they don’t want me to do it a second time…

    This is one of the ten techniques in ‘Buddy to Bedmate’ which “I” ..”FOUND” ..Tricky to master… ..Right game on.. Cheers Guys.


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    A M September 28, 2012, 11:41 am

    Ross, what is the gesture you did while you said “see myself in your pants! pa pam pam”? Watched many times but I really don’t understand it. It seems you fired off 3 fingers, it was from a previous pattern?

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    Here To Learn September 28, 2012, 1:03 pm

    I definitely believe in energy centers as you said. Life is energy-its just the center of the flow of our life force. I’m a Virgo and I think the meditation is awesome-we need to slow our ever processing minds down.

    I notice I’m attracted to more conservative women-are there any patterns that would work on the more reserved form of females?

    An article on how to crack those who aren’t from or didn’t grow up in a Top 30 Metropolis would be inspiring.

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      Ross Jeffries October 2, 2012, 9:07 am

      @Here To Learn

      I suspect “energy” could be real or just a useful metaphor to direct attention and focus. I really don’t know and for practical purposes it doesn’t matter.

      As for “conservative women”: how do you KNOW they are “conservative”? And what do you mean anyway? That they don’t love to fuck? They believe in Jesus?


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    Jo October 1, 2012, 8:58 pm

    Ross Ross!
    Finally science acknowledges what you with SS have been teaching for years.
    Fake it to make it (at first) hahahhahaha

    Not only that but it also gives strong reason (biologically) for your confidence technique. (the 40 ft tall one)


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      Ross Jeffries October 2, 2012, 9:05 am


      I’ll have to have a look at that. But the idea of a mind/body connection didn’t start-and certainly won’t STOP-with me. I think it’s safe to say that movement and gesture can direct “energy” and “intent” and convey it as well.

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    michael October 2, 2012, 3:20 am

    Ross, Great practicle idea at the end, and the hand application is interesting.

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    Z23 December 27, 2014, 1:30 am

    You know It’s all about that state,’bout that state, no patterns…

    You know my guru he told me you just have to improvise

    He said women who think for themselves want the same in a man

    He said patterns are great when first start to learn your lines

    But there does come a time when you realize the structure within

    Because you know its all about that state.

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    wizard January 5, 2015, 10:54 am

    ROSS … this is fucking juicy. i used to have loads of girlfriends(friends). now with thw whole material and the book and tapes and maditations and all. i`m finaly fuckin`em …it`s so easy. i was so afraid to take any move and aways tried to be the funny guy to make them like me. i finaly fell i`m no longer a boy. i bacame a wretched beast and i`m lovin`it all… i`d like to hug and kiss you for 10000 times to show my gratitude… and besides i can now approuch any woman i want without fear, easily and funny,i`ve finaly got some use for my funny mood,they can`t resist me now… of course i obviously miss some but it is funny anyway. i`m 24 and i never thought i would enjoy being myself that much. i`m laughing without reason singing in the rain…. thanks god i mean ross thanks thanks thanks love you

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