Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Not too long ago, a student shared a challenge with me. He noticed he seemed to spend a lot of time inside his head.
Many of his AFC beliefs were still there, always showing their ugly head when things with the ladies weren’t working out like he wanted.
Example: if a girl flaked on him he’d find himself spending ages thinking about it, sulking, and getting annoyed.
The challenge: how to become more positive and have more helpful beliefs, to get some peace and quiet in his head so he could step up his girl-getting game.
A few things I called attention to:
The old patterns of thinking, feeling, etc WILL come up when you make changes. Not because it is who YOU are or that you are afraid of success or have some condition like “low self esteem”.
But rather, they come up because… well… they’ve come up so many times before and they now have momentum, more clearly, what I call cognitive momentum and emotional inertia.
They are not signs that you are failing or hopeless or are a “negative” person.
They ARE signs that you are headed right into the face of your challenges and they are coming up, or offering themselves up, if you like, to be released and refocused into resources.
How do we do this?
- By languaging them correctly, in such a way that we notice them without gluing them back to ourselves and/or making them who we are.
- By being mindful of the actual feeling sensations in the body without fighting or feeding them.
- Then and only then, positive rehearsal of new ways of thinking, feeling, believing, acting, responding, etc.
- Finally, consistently acting in new ways and doing the new behaviors, ways of speaking etc.
Do this and you will, sooner than later, begin to see some amazing transformations(trance-formations).
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. For just over a dollar a day over the next year, starting right now, immerse yourself in 60+ hours of the most comprehensive, includes-it-all, pick-up and seduction training in existence, taught by the most experienced teacher. You probably paid almost FIVE TIMES THAT for a cup of joe this morning. Don’t wait another moment!
Mighty Ross…first let me say that you continue you to amaze with your ongoing development of effective material, and your hard-earned knowledge of how humanity’s interior mental landscape affects exterior behavior…and how to change our interior auto-pilots so we get better results.
Good as your first materials were and still are…they’ve served me very well these last twelve or fifteen years or so…your new stuff is creative, masterful, and aimed at putting more men in charge of their sexual destinies. Hat’s off to you.
Briefly, of course.
What I like about your work, aside from the wonderful experiences I’ve gained,is your kind leading of your students toward their own independence by your patient and firm teaching…of how their own minds work. This young student will overcome his current level of awareness and climb to abilities he can only dimly now imagine…because you have led him to access his own powers. After all, it is HIS mind, and you’ve given him training a future human culture will likely accept as necessary for all fully-functioning human beings.
Good for him, and…good for you, guru and leader. Thanks again for the rungs on the right ladder…old uncle Leslie
G’day Ross,
Thanks,
I was working the process and felt good about it then—-the girl does not react and yes those thoughts would come up to the surface and it annoys the shit out of me because I was focusing on the process and not the girl.
Thanks for tell me what is going on and secondly for showing me how to deal with it because I want women to receive the benefit of having me around to give them the feelings they truly crave.
See Ya
Grey
PS When are you coming to Ozzie land
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Dear Ross, what is the time frame between taking steps 2 and 3? Because cultivating mindfulness can take a while right? Like in my own case it took me about 3 or 4 days of intense meditation after listening to Shinzen Young, and now those old feelings have been truly released although a little may still come back, but thats manageble now given all the practice I’ve put in. I’m still waiting for the right “feeling” to start step 3 (rehersals), but even without that I feel a lot more free because the old gunk has gone and like u say I’ve noticed women seem to pick up on that noise free vibe! Even my mum who is quite sensititive to the changes and vibe, had been incessantly telling me during the last few months that my face was looking haggard and depressed but after those 4 days of intense meditation she said that the old shine and sparkle on the face was coming back, which was true but more importantly i started to feel genuinely peaceful after months of ravaging emotional storms! Now if a woman does something disturbing I can get back to equilibrim after an hour of meditation.
@Rheo
Start the positive rehearsal NOW, but continue with a meditation practice. Even if you just meditate on the arising and passing of sensations in your foot, that’s fine.
RJ
Dear Ross, thank you! I will start the reherseals from today. Can i ask u just one more question? Do u suggest going through the SS material in any particular order? And how important is 2.0 course and can the 3.0 course be taken without that or is it important to do the tasks in the workbook? And then there is a lot of material in the starter kit as well. So Ross are there any suugestions as to how to about the entire stuff? By rehearseals I take it that u mean the Unstoppable confidence exercises which have already helped me pull two dynamtite chicks in the past with just 2 days of practice. She was the same Polish girl I told u about that I kissed but didn’t take her number and u said u’d do a video about it! 🙂
Hey RJ,
If someone were to come to you brand new… And decide to get these No’s 1 to 4 Down just right… What products and proceedures would be the most effective way to do it ? Now, with Me, I think thats the qustion to be asking…
V B Regards…
rUS Bond
Hi Ross! This is how I feel when a girl flakes on me, I find myself thinking about it for a long time! And would love to get rid of this old pattern once and for all!
I’m just getting back into the world of Seduction after taking a couple of years off to hole up in my “Mad Scientist Laboratory” and create a business of my own. (My field of expertise is the “Inner Game” of Online Marketing.
So I went into my Spam folder and “unSpammed” all the Seduction Gurus I’ve been ignoring for the past few years–you know, all the usual big names we all know. I remember I used to LIKE some of these guys and thought they provided good info.
But if turns out my understanding of the Mind and the Body and how our habits–the good, the bad and the ugly–had changed during the creation of my own online product, and now all these Super-PUAs seemed hopelessly mired in repeating the same tired cliches that they’d simply learned from one another.
Rather belatedly, I forgot about “old” Ross Jeffries. I first bought his Speed Seduction course well over a year ago and it literally changed my life…but, like any skill, you gotta keep studying and practicing if you want to get better, right?!
After remembering about Ross and unSpamming him, I’m starting to go through his Blog and read past emails and I’m realizing, “Wow! He’s gotten even BETTER!” He also definitely has an understanding about how change (and seduction itself) isn’t something that happens in your head–or, at least, doesn’t JUST happen in your head–but also takes place in your Body, which is where much of Ross’ teaching goes.
As I like to say in my own work: “The Party is in the Body”!
I’m delighted to begin the process of reacquainting myself with Ross Jeffries’ work + am excited to hear more about his Live Event in 2012!
Hey Ross I want to thank you for these life changing tools, it seems like you’ve only gotten more creative over the years . I’ve had a lot of issues with talking to women It actually made me feel like I could never find the reason why, but I do realize through what you’ve taught makes me want to try more. I feel way more confident and I can’t wait to do the blowjob pattern thanks Ross
Do report back how it goes.