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  • Luke March 2, 2013, 1:05 pm


    You obviously got a great response and the interaction seemed to be mutually enjoyable. I’m just curious as to why you weren’t upset or at least “called her out,” for lack of a better phrase, as to why she showed up 45 minutes AFTER she said she would? Even though she seemed to have an excuse, isn’t that disrespectful to you and your valuable time?

    • Robert2 March 3, 2013, 11:46 am

      I would not have gotten all upset if she was 45mins late. but 1hour would have been to long.

      remeember `(We arrange to meet at 2:30 – I get a txt at 2:45 saying she’ll be there soon, had to eat something first.

      She doesn’t show until 3:15 (she has to leave at 4 to get to class)`.
      She sent a txt message to say that she was running late. women usually are always late IMO. 45mins is a long time it was not so bad becuase it was inside a starbucks.

      • Cat March 5, 2013, 10:06 am

        I said similar to this and I agree with you, but I made a slight error thinking it was the first meeting…still I think women do this stuff instinctively/unconsciously as a kind of a test, to test a man’s neediness or lack of options.

        A man with with a busy schedule and a man with options wrt to women & high self-respect won’t wait for long. It’s what one of my fave PUA mentors calls trying to put the man into a subservient frame. Most guys just don’t realise women are doing this all the time! 🙂

  • Josiah March 2, 2013, 3:30 pm

    “You know, you strike me as someone who loves to learn about herself and other people, and I think you learn alot about people by finding out where they find their focus.”

    This statement is a softener. It is used prior to a “seduction question”.

    Plus, it has an implied challenge in it. ‘You strike me as someone who loves to learn about herself and other people’ Most will people will not say, “No, I’m not the type of person who likes to learn about myself or others”.

    • Josiah March 2, 2013, 3:46 pm

      “I think you learn alot about people by finding out where they find their focus” MIGHT be a truism, I’m not 100% sure.

      “When you really want to FOCUS IN…GIVE ALL YOUR ATTENTION in a way that FEELS GREAT, what do you love to do?”

      This is the seduction question. It contains (obviously) embedded commands which are in ALL CAPS. Unfortunately, we do not know what she said to see what her trance words are and also what her self anchors are.

      “I did that to get her to laugh and fractionate her out of the state created by the commands, so when she goes back in, she goes back stronger.”

      Can you explain what it means when she “goes back stronger”? Does that mean she will give you a more intense doggy dinner bowl look (or, some other strong response such as pupil dilation, arm catalepsy, the v shape lip, etc.) the next time you use a pattern?

      • Robert2 March 3, 2013, 11:33 am

        `Can you explain what it means when she “goes back stronger”?
        What it means is that she begins to feel/visualize the language on a more intense level the second time around. It becomes more real/stronger, i have read this rule before.

  • zarathud March 3, 2013, 4:21 am

    This is helping. Both the reminder of the pre-opener and the setup question are consistent with what I’ve currently been noticing about context and perspective of where I’m at in a sarge at any given moment.

    I went looking for ‘resources’ the other day and instead of the feel-good memories I was looking for I got stuck in the memory of singles event I attended about a year ago.

    I had done very well up to the point of engaging an attractive young lady in conversation at the periphery of the group where we could talk comfortably. There were some resources in what I did up to that point, when she started really opening up about her passion in some kind of arts and crafts type of hobby and I interrupted to ask the “seduction” question about when I’m at an event like this I like to play the game of who’s connecting and who isn’t (not us anymore! lol). I might have actually induced some kind of deep trance right there because she just completely blanked out. Not quite what I was going for. Actually, knowing what I was going for in a progression from A to C was missing. Your teaching covers it. Thank you for continuing to reinforce it.

  • Rhaad March 4, 2013, 7:35 pm

    Ross, when you said she was 45 minutes late, I thought the next thing you were going to do was lay down the law. How do you determine whether you need to let her know that’s not acceptable, or let it slide?

    • Cat March 5, 2013, 10:16 am

      What I would do is hit her with a funny but sarcastic comment about her being late, you know bust her a little to show I’m aware of it & then focus on us having a good time.

      If she’s weird about my reaction to her lateness ie bitchy or acts like an entitled princess I would end the date & walk.

  • BOB SEDUTOR March 9, 2013, 11:51 am

    Inspite of the golden inside that Sarge Report, What about the speed seduction thing? It’s sound like “slow turtle seduction”! Sometimes, slowdown the seduction process, can be interesting, and pleasant, then a 10 minutes get laid, but i was in a hope of Ross Sarge Report like he always claim.
    And what is that “I rarely kiss and tell”? If someone did classes or knew a single teacher who don’t tell about your experiences, please, tell me, cause I did not.

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