Dear Seeker of Success,
Since you’re here, you probably already know you can’t just walk up to a woman and start running patterns on her.
She’ll catch on quick, and think you’re a creep.
With me so far? Good!
There are certain themes that capture a woman’s interest and attention. With each woman, these are different and unique to her experience.
Therefore, when you sit down to talk to her, you want to find a way to bring these up.
A Real Life-Example Of Turning A Mundane
Question/Response Into Sargy, Seductive Banter
The key is to use what’s known as a focusing question.
What this means is, once she reveals something about her interests, you probe deeper.
Let’s say she tells you something along the lines of, “I like to ski.”
That’s fine, but it’s not opening up that part of her mind that contains those feelings of escape and movement.
You, then, ask, “What’s your favorite part of that?”
Or, “Hold on a minute. I’ve never skied in my life. Take me down the slope with you. Suppose I’m going down the slope right next to you. What is it that we’re feeling? Tell me about that moment. There’s a moment when you’re skiing when let go. What does that feel like just before you let go and decide, ‘I’m going down this slope’?”
You want her focused in her body and then describing it.
The First Part Of Any Seduction
Is NOT Seducing
It’s getting her attention drawn out, focused on you, and interested in continuing the conversation.
You start creating fun, intrigue and curiosity.
Focusing questions help get you there.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. I’ve just revealed to you a small slice of what it means to “make it seem like an everyday, normal conversation.” To claim the whole pie, click here.
Have you considered teaming up with Salad Ltd. to create a self-coaching deck? I could have easily filled 52 cards with my notes and practices at one point. It certainly got me out of a hole, but not back into one 😉 I’m approaching it at a different level now and was just looking for an appropriate symbol set do to a reading (i.e. proof-read the program before launching it) and I thought if I did have my experiences and lessons of the last 4 years organized, that’s what I’d want to use. It gives me a glimpse of how much work goes into a product.
Cheers