The One “Earthquake” Shift That Resets Your Girl-Getting Foundation

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In an area of life that has been deeply challenging, and where you have experienced a self-reinforcing loop of limiting beliefs, ineffective skills, crappy results and limiting beliefs, there is seldom just one shift that needs to be made.

My experience with coaching literally thousands of guys over 20 years to the success with women they truly desire, predictably and reliably, without guess work or games, has taught me that usually there is a range of changes that need to be made and skill sets that need to be practiced and refined.

However, I can think of one “earthquake shift” that will reset your foundation of how you learn and how you show up for your learning and your loving the women you really crave.

When Your Glasses Are Dipped In Shit, Even The Roses Look Brown

Before I reveal what this big “foundational” shift is, I need to introduce the concept of filters.

Fundamentally, the idea is that we don’t see our world objectively and clearly. We look at our world through our emotions, our experiences and memories of the past, and our beliefs about what is possible, what we are capable of, and what we deserve.

As my favorite teacher, my late mom Sylvia used to say, “Kid: when you dip your glasses in shit, even the roses look brown”.

Amen, Mom.

Here Is The Shift Revealed

Here is the shift I am talking about.   When I can get my clients/students to this point, I know their learning is going to skyrocket.

Your world changes for the better and you become massively more capable,  inter-personally (with others) and intra-personally(relating to the different aspects of your “self”) when you can look at your filters instead of looking through them.

Developing a practice where you can see all the old stuff arising before it distorts your perception and drives your behavior in the same crappy directions is crucial.

Why?

Because once you do this, you are no longer fighting yourself.  The old programs and perceptions and responses don’t color the new learning.  So you can come in with a clean slate, and everything becomes much more efficient.

Look At It Like This

Have you ever felt that you were fighting yourself when it comes to personal change? Like part of you wants to go the new way but another part keeps dragging you back to the old?  Do you find that staying intelligently motivated is difficult-that you swing back and forth between wild enthusiasm and depressively dwelling on mistakes?

Get this shift and all of that stops. And then everything becomes much easier. Because once you are no longer blocking or fighting yourself, the only thing left is dealing with women.

And that’s relatively easy, believe it or not.

Peace, piece and I want to know your thoughts.
RJ

P.S. My new live learning/training schedule for 2011 will be up in a couple of weeks. Expect some new offerings including:

• In-field, day game boot-camps
• 2 day one-on-one exclusive training with me
• Week long, intensive, one-on-one residential training with me.
• The return of my Magick/Psychic Influence bootcamps

P.P.S. If you’re looking for the “in the box” teaching course, click here.