Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
In a recent post I addressed a scenario where a student attempted to persuade a woman to leave her ‘borefriend’ for him by getting her to fall in love with him, based on her statement that she’d never been “in love” before.
I walked through a scenario where, rather than buying into her limits (she listed “vulnerability” as one of the values she needed to see in herself in order to be in love), he used the information she gave him to open her up and get her excited about exploring her feelings and life in a different way.
The narrative I shared got a number of you curious, so let me draw a map for you now.
Here it is:
1. BEAR IN MIND THE PRINCIPLE THAT 80 PERCENT OF THE SEDUCTION IS POWERED BY HER RESPONSES AND INFORMATION
2. Get the value or quality she looks for that is missing: vulnerable
3. Understand that “vulnerable”, by itself, is not enough to get her to access the feelings and emotions that would flood through her, were she to feel “vulnerable”.
4. Get her to imagine being vulnerable and to tune into what feelings and emotions she would experience in THAT place….have her REALLY get into the fantasy on a deep body feeling and emotional level.
5. Get her even more precisely tuned into those feelings by asking signal recognition questions. What would be the first signal on the inside that lets her know..she’s beginning now to feel X Y Z where XYZ equal what being vulnerable would allow her to experience.
See, what you are doing here is taking what is probably a vaguely formed fantasy on her part and making it VERY vivid and real..and THEN getting hold of those feelings and linking them to yourself.
Final step:
GET HER TO ACT
6. As you fire the anchors say, “so… if you were to realize that at last.. .you really could feel these feelings… that X, Y, Z..as the energy flows from(use her signal recognition answers)…where would you also begin to feel the feelings that let you know… just how strongly… you have to have this… NOW?”
Get it? See the beauty of the new model? Think perhaps, just maybe, it might beat a poke in the eye?
Peace and piece,
RJ
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Can you give us some examples of “signal recognition answers”
Is that when she is giving you responses as describing a certain feeling?
Interesting
It would be nice if you could give an example of the above process that illustrates all those points.
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