Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
In my previous post, we explored how you can get more of the kind of women you really want when you master the skills and apply the techniques that boost your girl-getting game.
A lot of it comes from creating her motivation and desire to respond. We have so far explored five ways to get that initial locking in of attention and desire to respond – analogs, vibe, format, touch, and when “you don’t care that they don’t care.”
And now, here are seven more approaches or techniques that may work for you.
6) Pattern interrupts: doing or saying the unexpected that is slightly puzzling or ambiguous. As in, “Your pirispinals are laterally asymmetrical” Did you just insult her or compliment her? She can’t tell so it creates curiosity. Or an unexpected and reframing response to one of her auto-pilot utterances, such as the “Boyfriend Destroyer.”
7) Demonstrating authority in her world: showing that you deeply understand something or can read her. This creates fascination, a great conductive medium across which you can throw anything and get strong responses!
8) Humor: make ‘er laugh and loosen her up.
9) Demonstrating dominance: Lots of ways to do this. Personally, I prefer to go in with funny dominance. For instance, a while ago I was out with some students. We got in line at a coffee place. A very cute blond was in front of me in line. I turned to my students and said in a very loud, but playful way, “OK, who’s buying me my ice tea?”
The blond laughed. (Just what I was aiming at). So I turned to her and said, “Ok, YOU are buying me my ice tea!”
It’s not always playful dominance but that is how I prefer to START.
10) Non-sequitur: sudden change of subject serves as a pattern interrupt that can get attention.
11) Fractionating among the different vibes: dominant, demonstrating deep understanding, being funny and playful, revealing what you are really thinking and feeling in the moment(authentic)
12) Looks: Yes, believe it or not, some women will just like your looks! Even if you don’t. Hooray!
The women are waiting. What, I ask, in the name of Isabella’s ice cream cones, are you waiting FOR?
Peace and piece,
RJ
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RJ,
I have SS 3.0-what would you are some of the shorter, more effective patterns?
I’m always looking for the most simple and reliable methods for doing anything.
@Joey
The best patterns are:
Be in the right state
Stay focused on her
Use what she gives you
Wrap what she gives you in sexual metaphor and feed it back to her.
RJ
simple and sharp as always. Thank you Ross!