Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Can actually approaching women, Sarging, and taking forward steps to claim your success with your women who you truly desire…
…make things even more frustrating and confusing than being an Average Frustrated Chump?
Some of my students say so.
It’s easy to do nothing to get women. You know you won’t get any. You know you’ll be alone. You know your next date will be with Rosie and her sisters.
There’s plenty of certainty and clarity in that non-proposition, isn’t there?
Frustrating in the sense that you’re not getting any, but it’s not like you’re getting your hopes up and then getting let down?
Hey, I get it. I certainly understand. It can be confusing to take on new learnings and, more importantly, an entirely new relationship to frustration and confusion.
Said Another Way…
Learning seduction is not just about learning to successfully seduce women. It’s also about learning to successfully relate to frustration and confusion.
You can achieve victories in one, or the other, or both.
When it’s not yet working with women, you can STILL win in regard to how you handle frustration and confusion.
This is as key a skill set as knowing how to do walk ups, knowing how to get women hot and ready, etc.
With no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you take bold (and fun) seduction steps, walking like a giant where other people fear to step… how f@@king AWESOME will that be!
Peace and piece,
PR (aka RJ)
P.S. Today’s the day. Get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted with Nail Your Inner Game.
I’ve gotten mega-millage out of NIG and daily journaling, but I’m still not getting laid. There are more women around when I go out and they’re generally more open to me when I talk to them, but I go through cycles where once it’s been so long since I’ve gotten any, I just get angry and want to express it.
Frustration can be handled quite easily using meditation as an inner catalyst, but how is possible to experience confusion completely? Shinzen says it is possible, I cannot even track the body feelings when I’m confused…
btw the great thing about SS is the systemic approach that explains with crystalline clear logic how women emotionally choose and how they change their mind also.
Balancing more than one woman can be a problem. I noticed once I got up to three women it become very difficult to find time to spend with them without being discovered.
I gotta say my sarging has been thrown for a loop.
I went out with the mentality of all these women are basket cases on some level-lets see what happens, and I noticed the more fun I had the more women seemed to respond better.
When I was riding high on my sarging vibe I noticed this waitress I’m nuts about looking at me across the room at her work, and the next time this same waitress who gave me her number. She is like one of, if not the most awesome women iv’e ever met (smart, open, adventurous, funny, appears to be decent (i’m good at spotting flukes),friendly, 8 years younger, tall, czech model looks-really a person beautiful inside and out). I call her, leave a message. Nothing yet. Its been 2 weeks. I ruminated (even cried) far more than I should have on it.
All that said- I will go back to where she’s at, look her in the eyes, and feel her out for her motives. I gotta be honest-she had such a sweet, moral, decent vibe I really don’t want to talk catty or rough to her. She’s one of those people it’s DAMN hard to dislike.
I would add-RJs methods have taught me to screen based on my previous sarging experiences. I can tell if I like a woman or not after 2 minutes of talking to her. I prefer quality over quantity and don’t give 3 flips about banging everything that walks. Iv’e always prefered quality over quantity.
I can honestly say the woman I rambled above about is one of the best energy’s I’ve ever met. If I could move a Mountain to have her I would. I’m very cynical and rarely feel that way about people.