Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,
One of the most common questions I get when I do a radio interview is, “Will that really work on a girl? It doesn’t seem like it will work?”
My response is not what the questioner expects. I almost always say, “How do you propose to know? What is your method of knowing what the boundaries of your reality are? How do you discover what you can actually do, as opposed to your speculation and worry?”
You see, one of the great stopping and stuck points for guys seeking to learn success with women is that they are trying to figure it all out in their heads. They believe-without proof by the way-that if they just get the right combination of thoughts in their heads, it will all fall into place and they will have a guarantee of absolute certain success before they try anything.
These guys fall into an endless loop that looks like this:
1. They won’t take a step unless they are first certain of perfect success.
2. They can never be certain until after they take a step.
3. Therefore they never take a step and they are never certain.
Pretty losing loop, isn’t it?
Now, the really smart guys take me on as a teacher and coach, or get my Nail Your Inner Game program, or both! They learn how to acquire “acceptance confidence” so they can surf across any residual anxiety and actually move foward into the real world of learning and skill with women!
The dumb ones? They think that the solution is just pouring more and different “content” into the same guaranteed-to-fail process. So they get the next school’s DVD’s, the next CD, or seminar, hoping that if they put that stuff through their heads, somehow that new or different content will solve the problem.
This is why, when students come to me and present themselves as stuck, I don’t, as my first move, look at the content of what they are saying to women. I look at the processes by which they are hindering their own learning, first and foremost. Once I shake that loose(and not always or even often “nicely), I can proceed to show them how to use their language to get women smoking hot and bothered.
So, dear reader, what about your “epistemology?” What is your theory about how you can acquire actual knowledge about what you can enjoy with women? And do you think you get laid as often and as well as I do?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. You can’t imagine what I am going to unleash on a shocked, and pants-shitting seduction community in about 2 weeks time. I’m going to radically move the free line and give away more valuable content for free than these morons and maniacs sell, combined. Stay tuned here for details!
I hope you can deal a bitch slap to the seduction community in that 2 week’s time. Quite frankly, it gets tiring having 50,000 “gurus” running around like mad chickens with their heads cut off. Can’t we return to the basics of what works?
Not as often as you, but as well…pretty sure. I was there, i was lost in that loop for a while, but with one big difference. I knew SS works, but i had this one fear: shall it work FOR ME? But your words of wisdom took my ass out of my sofa and…eureka!!
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Truly, this could potentially be the building blocks of what it is to be stuck in the prison of your mind when you are confused. Trying to put everything together in your mind when you don’t have the slightest idea is mind boggling. This is great Ross. Thankfully, you do emphasize getting up our rears and out to the field.
I think you got some interesting points, and I totally agree!
You’r right that theory without practise is worthless!
However, its importent altso, to mention that practice without knowlege is often also worthless.
I first and foremost see skill with women, as an result of your own development – beeing good with women is (cliche I know) not just something you do, its someting you are – wich enables you to do – you are the do’er so to speak!
It’s the same as beeing good at lifting a heavy weight – if you got a heavy weight in your backyard, and your biggest dream is to lift it over your head, how would you approach that mission?
You can read all the theory in the world, if you keep being a pencil neck, I guarrantee you, the steel will not move from the grown, ever! no matter how much, and what you do with your mind, no matter how much “lifting theory” you learn, or muscle magasines you read, you will just waste your time! – If you don’t want to grow more muscular and get stronger, you better get a diffrent objective, or you will end up beeing unhappy.
You first and foremost have to change and transform yourself, the you that you are now, is never gonna be able to lift the weight, so YOU got to change – in essence, its not only what you do, but who you are!
The best way to change yourself however, is not just to go down to the gym, and totally random, train like the blind man fight – IN THE END that will only make you injured and thereby even weeker than you allready where. Bad practise don’t make perfect, it just end up making you even worse than you allready was.
In the beginning however, you just need to grasp a “few” fundemental things, and get you ass into gear – then you can learn what is acquired along the way (its a huge process all by it self), what is needed for perfect practise and refinement when you advance, is not needed for perfect practise when starting out – no one that ends up beeing an elite athlete, or an elite human, can forsee all of what is required of him, before he even gets going, calibrated individual experience is needed, you just need what to do (and why), step by step, if you are standing on one step, you can see the next, and so on, sometimes you will fall down af few steps, then just find a diffrent path, and keep going! – I however warn you, when you first gets going, and is realising what its all about, and what you are caple of doing, that stone in the back yard is not gonna be all that importent anymore…
Enjoy and Stay cool:
Helio
Now imagine a date with someone you met through internet dating and have been chatting online with and exchanging emails blind date uncensored with for quite some time. First, you don’t need to be introduced. You already know this man.