Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
As part of my ongoing Pick Up Tips/How To Meet Women Mastery series of articles, I just had to share this.
Today, as I was walking back from the beach, I spotted a hot girl walking toward me from the opposite direction. Noticing that she was wearing a big floppy hat, I said, “Nice headgear”.
Now, this is an example of one of the 4 methods I teach to meet women, anytime, anywhere, in my Gold Walk Up DVD: the Blurt Out.
The Blurt Out is especially designed for those situations when you are in motion one way, and the woman you are wanting to meet is going in the opposite direction. It’s designed to stop women in their tracks.
In this case, it stopped her because it was an unusual way to phrase an otherwise worn out compliment: “nice hat”. How boring that would have been
And that’s what happened. She stopped. Then she laughed and said, “Are you making fun of me?”
“No, “ I said. “It was an honest compliment. Do you always get so insecure around hot looking guys?”
(Notice what I am doing in a playful way: I’m implying that she has the hots for me. I didn’t say it, mind you. But that is the implication. Chicks love implication, think and speak with implication, and gobble it up like honey.)
She laughed again and said, “I have a boyfriend.”
Now, one of the things I teach in my Speed Seduction 3.0 course is this: I seldom take a woman’s first response as written in stone. It’s almost always just a reflection of what she is thinking, feeling or believing in that moment, and it’s almost always subject to change.
So immediately I responded with, “I didn’t say I want to date you. But I’m flattered. Thanks. Besides, boyfriends are like colds. You can catch one at anytime, but you can always shake him off if you want too. “
She laughed again, this time harder. “No, I really dig this guy. But thanks anyway”.
Now bear something in mind: about half the time, when women say, “I have a boyfriend”, they are just talking out of their pretty little ass. So when you respond with something different and funny instead of giving up or arguing, it really gets attention in a positive way.
And that’s one of my main principles: get attention in a positive way with an unexpected response that gets her laughing, or thinking, or both.
You can make meeting women just this easy by getting my Gold Walk Up DVD.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. If you are already good at meeting women and want to start getting them into your bed, without guess work, games or spending lots of cash on them, check out my latest and most complete program: Speed Seduction 3.0.
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As I presently work in a strip club, I am surrounded by beautiful women everyday. In my dialogs with them, these women are the extreme version of what most beautiful women have to deal with constantly… being approached AD NAUSEUM by men with poor skills sets for seduction.
What happens to them? The same thing that would happen to any person if they had to deal with the same type of experience OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER again: They get bored and they conveniently begin to generalize that men are “all the same.”
Of course, this generalization forms a barrier in then approaching these women because they internally have already categorized you as “just like everyone else.”
The solution? Not being like everyone else, by acting differently, responding differently, speaking differently, and asking different questions.
Jaded women CRAVE this internally because by breaking through their generalization defense you provide pleasantly excited with it. For a jaded beautiful woman, it is the experience of reconnecting with innocence and hopefulness.
It's a neat thing to elicit in a woman. It feels nice and this, I believe, is exactly what Ross is promoting when he says “And that’s one of my main principles: get attention in a positive way with an unexpected response that gets her laughing, or thinking, or both.”
Be unexpected in a positive way.
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