Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
I hear a lot about how certain “types” of women must (supposedly) be approached in a certain way. Like, due to who she is and what “lifestyle” or whatever she leads, there’s a certain specific way a man can reach her if he really wants to succeed with her.
For example, punk/goth chicks. You know the kind – nerdy, art school grad, tattooed-and-pierced, roller-derby, graphic designer types, with glasses.
A student of mine was wondering what “puzzle piece” he was missing when it came to Sarging them, like there was “something about” them that he just couldn’t figure out:
> It has to do with some kind of fascination they have with horror movies/splatter films (brain eating zombies, etc). They seem to all love them a lot. I would like to take whatever deeply moves them about that (it does seem to me to be very visceral thing they react to very powerfully. Is it love of danger? Is it totally about the body feelings of terror/fright? Is it the visual component of seeing that graphic image occur on screen, what?
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…In other words, what patterns/approaches can be used with chicks like this to re-direct those feelings and energies into a sexual way? And to connect them to me?
RJ again. Here is a principle…
When in doubt, ASK.
ASK in a way that captures and leads her imagination and emotions AND gathers useful information.
Like, “What is your favorite all time splatter film? Who are your favorite characters and what do you like about them the most?”
Let her talk. Get curious about her answers. Ask questions that develop and accelerate the answers by feeding back bits of previous answers.
This is known as “recursion”. Using what you gain in a previous step to make the next step more effective.
So:
Question 1:
Response 1:
Question 2: (uses response 1-(her personal trance words, her non-verbal responses, personal anchors etc)
Response 2: (which is now even stronger as you’ve feed back what you learned from Response 1)
And so on and so forth. Get it?
Ok, so using this, come up with your own possible series of questions.
Report back on it here… or share with me now, experiences you’ve already had.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. When you know what to look for and how to use a woman’s emotional responses, she will actually provide almost all of the energy for the seduction. You’ll learn all about this and much, much, much, much, MUCH more at a live 3-day seminar.
O Thou! how you do cut to the chase…the entanglement, the excitement of closing with the quarry…recursion! Thank you so very much, Guru, I’m getting it, like jamming jazz: what key and rhythm does she like to play in?
Recursion! what an encapsulation…thank you.
Went back and took a look at the commands/directives you used in the old manuals, extracted some of them in their useful order to conveniently apply to whatever topic or result desired…your use of development is very smooth and implies direction for anything she’s interested in, thank you for one more way to practice and gain dependability in use, any time.
Man! do you have any recent manuals handy, ignored, useful for a sincere student? Exemplar and Model?
Hey ross, this is a ps…so ps:
“And she is broad where a broad should be broad…” remember that one?
OK: status update since “Inner Game”…held a meeting with a rep from a local influence group. Recommended for a hot seat on a senate campaign.
Several meets and greets in organizing local efforts…you may have given me the ability to transfer my guerilla training into Liberating the Oppressed Locals.
Don’t know if I’ll lead them out into the Wilderness and to the Promised Land, but ‘stuff’ sure is happening.
And I’ve come to terms with my novel: some stuff, like the years knocking around after taking off my green weenie hat, used to be hard for me to consciously and creatively ruminate and use for stories…now it’s all more and more accessible, thanks. It’s mine, after all.
Just doing it here. Thanks, Ross. All the best to you and yours. You are a good teacher, and I…am becoming a better student.
RJ,
This is great material. What I’m looking for is material just like this, and on calibration of all kinds. i also would like more on fractionation. Anything that gives me good reads on people and then shows me new ways to act on those reads.
Thanks.
Ross, this question follows up on your answer above that involves recursion. I find many women have strong, negative energy about certain men they have been married to, dated, or met on a first date. Is is useful for me to anchor that negative energy and feed it back to a woman at any time? Also, what’s a good way to redirect their negative energy so it becomes strong, positive energy anchored to me, or to her finding fulfillment with me?