Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
In the last issue of the ezine series on Continuous Conversation I explained how turning down the lust and getting curious about her was crucial to never running out of things to say that also moves the seduction along.
Let’s jump to the next Continuous Conversation Principle:
Continuous Conversation Tip#2:
Get Her Doing Most Of The Talking
This dovetails perfectly with the first tip about getting curious about her and asking the right questions-obviously you are doing this to get her talking.
But what most guys don’t realize is that getting her talking instead of you dominating the conversation, is crucial for many reasons and that you ignore this one at your peril.
You see, not only does flapping your lips most of the time make her feel that you are not listening to her and seeing her as a real human being. It also causes you to ignore the very important tips and clues she is giving you about what she likes, what she responds to, what turns her on and also what turns her off.
Hell, some guys are so busy talking they don’t even notice it when a woman is actually hot and ready to go; they actually talk themselves out of her bed.
What’s that you’re thinking? “I’d never be that stupid, Ross”.
Don’t be too sure. Don’t be too sure. Don’t be too sure.
What I’ve found is that by getting women talking about the right topics and themes and knowing how to intensify her feelings that come up from these conversations, I can usually get her to talk herself right through my front door. And you would be shocked (and perhaps disturbingly aroused) at how graphic these conversations get-and this is the key-on her part, not mine. My students report the same thing over and over and over again, so this has got to be a powerful principle.
Ignore it at your peril.
Peace and piece,
Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction ®
P.S. Your Home Study Course is waiting right here, filled with example after example of how to get her talking in the right direction and how to easily use what she gives you to make her hot and ready to jump you. Thousands of guys have got this course-how big of an advantage do they have on you?
Hi Ross,
You are absolutley right on the money in regards to being more the “listener”
in the conversation with any hb especially when you always hear women blame men for not listening to what they have to say. The concern I have, and know if this has ever been brought up before but the one thing I tend to be guilty of is in the normal conversation I sometimes sound like I’m interrogating her with the questions. For myself and for the benefit of the other SS brothers is there a way to keep that balance and not come across as an interrogator?
Thanks,
Tom
The answer is to be casual in your tone, and patient in gathering the information. And also, embed the questioning into some kind of quiz, topic, or game that is fun and informative.
You can learn more with my Gold Walk Up DVD.
http://www.speedseduction.biz/products/walkup.php