Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
A question that comes up from time to time with my students: should you discuss your interest / study / involment in / the very existence of the seduction community, with the women you’re with?
An important point to ponder, and particularly so in the age of the internet and social media. What if she Googles your e-mail address? What if she scrolls through your Facebook friends list and finds 20 or so friends of yours who are in the seduction community, and puts two and two together?
Some might say, set your privacy settings to the max and only use a pseudonym online.
Others might balk such a suggestion and ask why they should feel the need to be anyone other than the person they truly are.
Well, I have a different answer, since this is what I do for a living!
Some women have STRONG, negative responses to it; they get furious. Others are cool with it, depending on how I present it and HOW I PRESENT MYSELF. If I present myself as a cool, fun, non-threatening guy who knows some stuff but can walk if they don’t want to see it, then the fun, cool ones are ok with it.
Some women are wary and express reservations; of these, some can be managed into being cool with it as they see it as a good thing. Others can’t.
Now let’s circle back to the original question and how it applies to you.
If she can experience amazing feelings with you, beyond anything she’s had before, she’ll keep wanting to come back to it and what you do in your spare time or whatever becomes more of a non-event.
Make sense?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Knowing how to use anything in the environment or situation to always know exactly what to say to a woman is a critical skill, one of many you will master at a live 3-day seminar. In 2012, it’s more than a seminar – it’s an experience. Click here to learn more.
I always tell them, I say it in passing, like it’s not even important, because it really isn’t. Haven’t had a negative response yet.
Well I think I wouldn’t volunteer to tell her what I’m learning, but if she did put two and two together and found out that I learn from Ross, I think I’d tell her that with so much BS out there thats being propogated in the dating world, Ross is the only guy who makes sense and genuinely wants to help guys be good with women for the betterment of wo(man)kind, and as long I’m discovering new things about myself that are relevant to living my life in a best waypossible and not hurting anyone, how is it in anyway a bad thing for either u or me or any other woman?
Personally I feel that a woman would get offended if we “showed off” our skills and came with an attitude of, “Hey baby u know what you are a dispensable commodity. I sleep with a different woman every night”. I think that would piss them off…not the fact that I’m trying to make the best out of my life and the women who come into it.
I´m pretty sure many other students find it very creepy (amazing actually) how you seem to be living inside our heads :-)I say this just because i had a dream this night in which i detected exactly this question… sincronicity to the best…
@Dino Creepy? Amazing? Maybe both. That’s the power when you are on a path of dedication, exploration and service!
The majority of the women I’ve been with recently since my divorce are 40+ and would be extremely adversed to accepting this kind of knowledge and practice. I was called a player several times for being a decent dresser, looking fit at 50 and being capable in bed (lasting longer than the expected 3 minutes).
I made it a personal rule never to discuss my knowledge of PUA and rarely told women I am a Hypnotherapist, as they have pre-concieved ideas about what hypnosis is, though one woman responded well by immediately wanted to be hypnotized. So I did…repeatedly.
The right woman will take the time to discover who you are as a person and over time PUA can be discussed. My wife (yes, i’m re-married now and PUA works on her as it always did.) still maintains that she knew what I was doing from the start, but is oblivious to my still-anchored triggers when i fire them off, either in a text, on the phone or in person.
so I don’t encourage discussions about PUA with my wife. I just do the stuff and we both enjoy the results.
Hi Ross,
Oh, it Is A Wonderful Thing,
This/YOUR Material has me with Women/a woman after me like I have never experienced before, I am totally in control, and I KNOW that my knowledge/revelation will have little effect on there fascination with me If/When they find out, because they have never experienced this with anyone before and they are holding on to a Hero… …ME/US…
Hi RJ and the lads,
I used to have women throw me away like a used tissue…
Last Friday I stuffed a Bird like a Thanksgiving Turkey…And She wants me now More Now than ever before…
WHY?
Cozzz… I have SpeedSeduction(R)/Responsibility Under my Belt… …If she can’t handle THAT…Then she has no place in my screening…
…But that’s just me…
Peas
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Hey I have no problem with it…
…Just one of the Many voices…and the only one that makes sense up til now..