Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
I want to talk about a subject that is a bit more broad – that is, how does a person choose to move up the success-with-women learning curve?
When you have lots of new elements (patterns, techniques, etc) to focus on learning, which are the ones that, for you, in your unique situation with any particular woman or women, and given what you have experienced and mastered UP TO NOW, will really make the difference for you?
Changes CAN take place and DO take place on multiple levels.
Now, technically, when you use Speed Seduction® tools and you start enjoying success with women unlike anything you’ve managed up until now, you know you’re spot on. Well done. You’ve obviously put good work into mastering these tools and skill sets.
Now, I encourage you to use them with EVERYONE, everywhere you go, so you really OWN them, so they become part of your IDENTITY, rather than a context specific skill set that you turn on and off when you see some chick who is “hot”.
Of course, you don’t sexually ramp up the guy who takes your order at Fatburger (duh!), but you can ALWAYS practice getting rapport, calibration, tuning into your intuition, practicing shifting your intent and state, practice shifting other people’s states, etc.
So, the question is, if you have good technical proficiency, what is the ENERGY you want to wrap the skills around? What is the energy going to convey about the PERSON who is allowing the skills to be made manifest?
Is it a person who is sexy, challenging, knows how to tease, pull back, ready go take her behind the bushes and give her the f@@king of her life, etc? What are the energies at play behind the skills?
What if you could look at the skills through a filter that doesn’t say, “I wonder if this really works” or “I’ve GOT to make this work” but instead a filter that says, “Of course this is going to work… now who do I wish to ENJOY being as I allow the skills to flow forth?”
Looking back at the “Worth” you were feeling during your latest Sarge, do all the feelings/energies you had please YOU?
Points to ponder.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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@RJ
When sarging everyone, I just take the erotic/sexual element out of my vibe and change it to friendship for guys. Everyone loves to hear stories, and again just change the erotic/indulging elements out and change to amusing or even adventure elements for guys. I’ve turned around some macho guys ready to beat me up, to friends who do me favors.
I’m a relatively new customer, who wants to works on patterns using the phone dating lines as RJ suggests in his “Persuade and Get Laid” Book.
-Question to General RJ and my fellow sarge commandos-
Is there a phone dating line that is sarger recommended in the United States?
-I’d prefer one that’s free, or low priced. Perhaps even a local one some of you can recommend.
Many thanks for your valued feedback in advance.
Hi mate,
The F word
I was at a dance on Saturday (27 August 2011) when a woman approached and started talking to me—anyway to shorten the story she indicated to me that it was great that she had made another friend.
I indicated to her that both of us had many friends already and that I could not be her friend because we had already moved beyond that point….the expression on her face was priceless.
When the confusion had left her mind she asked why I said that—- I said:
“BECAUSE…….. we connect on too deep a level for us to be friends … then I walked away and went and asked another woman for a dance.”
She followed me around the rest of the night and touched me every time she could— as I already had someone to sleep with that night —-I let her go.
I will let you know what happens the next time I see her.
Thanks Ross for getting me out of the friend zone—- oh by the way I use this on a woman on Wednesday 24 August 2011 and within 30 minutes she way telling me how to eat her —you know what.
See Ya
Grey
@Grey Nice, but if SHE approaches YOU, she is already interested, so it wasn’t just the pattern you used. All the pattern did was interrupt her auto-pilot “friend” statement which she didn’t mean anyway. So…don’t get too excited about this.
RJ
Hi Mate,
In a previous email you asked how your material change/impacted on me—The biggest impact has been that woman approach me now and start a conservation—
In your material you talk about your state and grounding—–and whenever I walk into a dance now I ground myself and relax—-Ross it works—it attracts women like moths to a light—of course the flip side to this is that I sometimes walk away from women as I have choice of who I sleep with now —- if you said that to me before I used your material I would have washed your mouth out with soap.
Mate —thanks for changing my life.
See Ya
Grey
@grey Let’s have some details. I find keeping in contact with the feeling of my feet on the ground plus a diffused, over-all awareness of my body and breathing into my belly is amazing. It keeps me calm no matter what and I can still stay in tune with whatever someone else is feeling WITHOUT HAVING TO FEEL IT FOR MYSELF. So it’s not some kind of “shield” against my environment. I’m open but not affected, or only manageably so.