Dear Seeker of Success,
Sometimes being “positive” is not the right way to be, when it comes to women.
Now, let me be clear about something-I’m not talking about your attitude.
I’m talking about your language.
You see, one of the most powerful linguistic tools in existence that can totally blast through a woman’s last minute resistance and “auto-pilot” objections is negation.
Negation simply involves using negatives like “shouldn’t” ‘mustn’t” “don’t” “can’t” etc as ways to turn a woman’s imagination and train of thought back in the direction you want it to go.
It’s a very good way to turn a woman around WITHOUT arguing or trying to convince her.
Here, as an example, is an email I got on the subject:
Ross, something I saw in this movie Spanglish with Adam Sandler. Sandler is trying to sleep with this woman and she is putting up objection after objection. Finally, he says:
“We really shouldn’t do something that will give us such unbelievable satisfaction and release.”
How good is that line on so many different levels?!
The power of the negative is awesome. I’ve had 100% success with it so far. I firmly believe that without it, I would have been flying solo many nights.
You’re techniques are fantastic. I look at things in a whole new way: I almost feel I am the one turning down woman these days instead of the other way around. If you use this please don’t use my name/email address. Thanks! (Name deleted on request)
Ok. Good example there, although he actually just used negation in the wrong way at the end and told me to “USE MY NAME/EMAIL ADDRESS”.
In any event, negation works because the unconscious does not and cannot process a negative. Therefore, it ignores the “negative” and ACCEPTS THE COMMAND THAT FOLLOWS.
So, here is an example of how this would work:
Let’s say you are making out with a hot woman. Suddenly she stops you and says, “This is moving too fast”.
Using negation, you would say, “You’re right. You shouldn’t be enjoying the waves of pleasure as I kiss you right here (note to the reader: do what you are describing, as you are saying it).”
“I shouldn’t be reaching my hand under your blouse and you shouldn’t FEEL YOURSELF GETTING EVEN MORE AROUSED”.
Get the picture?
Overall, negation is a tool that fits into the broader principle of “pattern interrupts”. When you take a person’s fixed pattern of response or acting and surprise it with the unexpected (in the case of making out, women EXPECT men to either argue, get upset, stop completely or attack them!), then that person becomes very lead-able and very suggestible.
Ok. Having said all that, whatever you do, DO NOT GO TO MY WEBSITE AND ORDER MY COURSES!
And… don’t FIND YOURSELF COMPELLED TO TELL EVERYONE ABOUT MY WEBSITE!
Not wishing you peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Just kidding. Of course I wish you peace and piece!
P.P.S. If you don’t have your copy of Speed Seduction® Rapid And Total Success With Women, what is your problem? Get variety, power and choice with women and never have to be a bully or beggar again:
https://www.seduction.com/blog/totalsuccess/
Ross, guess i’m the first to comment. I have taken to your vids. all over the web. There all great. Can you define a little sexual? Steps to turning on the sexual with younger women? All your videoes under resources are not working at speedseduction.com. I have watch EVERYTHING on youtube you have posted at least three times each – great stuff. I had read your first book many years ago. I didn’t learn well from it and i have had your first speed seduction and didn’t learn well from it either. I’m thinking i’m going to study the October man sequence next. I’m not aware of what i’m missing. I use to be amazing with women before my ex. I studied the flash cards and i’m putting women into traces when I talk to them, when I am not trying too. I am 37 and look 21 act 18 and would like to start approaching women on the four colleges w/in a mile of my place. I have no problem w/ appraoching – except for woman that are 10 years or more younger than me or short because that’s who I was attacked by, but I don’t know how to test if a woman is open to me talking sexually. How do you know when the woman is not interested from the start? Your patterns don’t feel like me – so I have been dropping patterns words/phrases in conversations. I was raised in an ultra religious household I would like to pick a test subject. This the rape capital of the country – alot of violent, crazy women in SC. I have a fear of being violently attacked by a woman, again. Made my own flashcards from your capitalized words in patterns. Maybe this is a hole in the method or I haven’t found the right product of yours. Maybe I could work with you to come up with Speed Seduction for dummies. Thank you. My email is above. Jason
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