Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Sometimes, beginning students feel a little “funny” about using the Speed Seduction® language patterns to excite, entice, attract and arouse the women they really want.
Somehow, they feel, at first, that it is a form of “trickery”; that they are fooling or misleading the women they are meeting.
Here’s the TRUTH: it is very important for you to realize and understand what brainwashing you are actually fighting against when you apply Speed Seduction®; brainwashing that has taught you from childhood that the way to get women is:
Bullying (being a jerk)
Begging (telling her how much you love and need her, chasing her around like in the movies)
Buying (having lots of money and paying your way into her panties)
BS (telling her what “every woman wants to hear”, says those BS magazines at the supermarket checkout)
Booze (getting her tipsy as a prelude to a trip back to her place)
Biceps (thinking you have to be “hot” for women to like you)
These messages about success with women are constantly bombarding you, 24-7.
They are in magazines.
TV shows.
Movies.
Popular music.
And…
…They Are Bullshit.
Yet because they’re so prevalent, when you step outside of that nonsense, and actually have the courage to offer women what they really crave and what they actually respond to, it can feel a bit strange at first.
Using your language to excite and attract women – changing how you COMMUNICATE to make yourself far more attractive is no more “trickery” than learning to stand up straight and correcting your bad posture is “trickery”.
It’s self-improvement; self-improvement that allows you to create good feelings wherever you go.
Do you want to know what “trickery” is?
Trickery is getting women drunk to get laid.
Trickery is paying through the nose, pretending to be generous, so you MIGHT get a shot at some pooty-tang.
Trickery is pretending to be “nice” when, in reality, you want to bang a girl so silly, her teeth rattle in her head.
THAT is trickery.
But learning to use your language to capture and lead a woman’s imagination and emotions, and guide her to feelings she never knew she could really have?
That’s magic.
And THAT’S Speed Seduction®.
A world and a life where YOU are the gift.
Where the feelings you bring her are the treasure.
Where YOU are the one of special value, because of what you create in her and what you bring forth from her.
That’s what is awaiting you.
Peace and piece,
PR (aka RJ)
P.S. In Speed Seduction® 3.0, you will learn secrets of controlling your state of mind so nothing she says or does throws you off, so that ANYTHING she says is actually fuel to stoke the fires of the seduction.
You will learn approaches that leave you in a place where you never again ever have to worry about what to say.
It is also the difference between changing her map and expanding it, that’s a real gift!!!!
Ross, I think it could work even in the night game, consider this, if you enter in a discoteque with a low profile state but a strong frame people with notice you because you are doing nothing to be noted… here’s a great paradox
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That’s beautiful Paul! If anyone wants to know what the stuff you’re teaching is all about, I’ll send them this.
See you in London!
There is also a flip side to this as well. I realised a long time ago that women “were taking there marching orders from Mademoiselle”. The brainwashing begins in kindergarden, when little girls exchange
valentine day cards and are conditioned that they have to have a borefiend to be complete.
In that sense, the dc 2000 seminar was an eye opener, not only that the vast majority of people are in a relationship of delusion and limitation , but how omnipresent the conditioning is..it’s almost as if all of our existance is for the benefit
of the symbolic “won percent”
Hi Ross,
like most guys I wish, I`d kown your stuff, while I was growing up.
My main comment is, while it´s (probably) all true, what you´re saying and teaching, it doesn´t get any easier finding the right women. You still have to do the numbers. And if you´re realy unlucky, you might never find a good woman at all. But maybe, that´s just my lazy excuse…
Matt
very hard
Good good good.
Thanks Ross, this really cleared things up for me.
I have been studying Speed Seduction for quite a while now but I have not used it yet for a couple of reasons. 1) It is difficult for me to remember a pattern or focus on using embedded commands and anchors when I’m talking to a girl because of the pressure of approaching her. 2) I have a problem using embedded commands because I feel that my tonality (I lower my voice on commands) is too obvious. 3. There are often other distractions in the environment (her friends, family, customers if she is working, ect.) I worry that even if I get it right she will get distracted by outside influences or that someone might realize what I’m doing . Any advice on what I should do? I practice at home but I want to put NLP skills to use in daily life as well. Thanks
The key word here is you are WORRYING rather than DOING. Go ahead and DO and just see what happens.
What if all of your worries are incorrect(or infrequently correct) and you are wasting your life when you could be enjoying?
RJ
Thanks RJ. You are 100% right I need to get off my ass and just GO FOR IT and TAKE THIS OPPOTUUNITY so I can go in a NEW DIRECTION! Kidding aside I am a huge fan of yours and I love the whole NLP concept. How do you suggest I start employing embedded commands naturally? A few of my own ideas are: 1. Limit myself to 5 or 6 commands and work them to get comfortable with them in conversations (LIKE ME, FEEL A CONNECTION FORMING, GET EXCITED, FEEL A WARMTH). 2. Use only a few weasel phrases that would be easy to remember when in conversation. 3. Try to use them with some repetition while talking to the same woman so they are likely to stick in her unconscious. Thanks Ross I am going to put more effort into stepping things up. I have a question about analog marking when you deliver a command do you recommend dropping your voice on the command, pausing before and/or after the command, or using a hand gesture to mark it? I have been using a deeper voice on commands but I’m nervous that it will sound to extreme or even be noticed so what do you recommend? I even read someplace that marking commands is not necessary is that true? What for example if I don’t mark commands but say the same exact phrase with repetition (For example you could work a command such as LIKE ME into a conversation several times without being noticed). I know this is a lot but I really want to be good at it and you are the master so thanks again because I never expected YOU of all people to write a response to my question!! Take care and keep up the good work!